Hi Luton couple
We were just as worried as you when we went to a club for the first time and were pleasantly surprised. I am a size 18+ and went to Brighton Sun Club on Sunday for the first time. Was totally petrified! Had a great day and at some points in the day actually felt skinny compared to others. All shapes and sizes honest.
Go and have fun....
T and K xx
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Kev and I were invited to Hamshaws by a wonderful couple from SH for the day yesterday. Being newbies and having never bared anything in public before we were both really nervous. Especially me being larger than the average bear!!
But we thought what the hell and went for it and ended up having a really great day. The sun shone, we swam loads and had some fun too
To anyone thinking of going there for your first time we would thoroughly recommend it. Huge thanks go to J & M for being patient with us when deciding to go or not, answering all our questions and making the day such a laugh.
T xxx
Kev and I were invited to Hamshaws by a wonderful couple from SH for the day yesterday. Being newbies and having never bared anything in public before we were both really nervous. Especially me being larger than the average bear!!
But we thought what the hell and went for it and ended up having a really great day. The sun shone, we swam loads and had some fun too
To anyone thinking of going there for your first time we would thoroughly recommend it. Huge thanks go to J & M for being patient with us when deciding to go or not, answering all our questions and making the day such a laugh.
T xxx
To be honest for us "newbies" its impossible to know what to describe ourselves as. Yesterday there was a thread saying that calling myself BBW makes me arrogant (God forbid I think myself beautiful). Now today I can't call myself genuine for fear of it being meaningless and me being a Trisha reject.
What do we put thats not going to upset anyone?
T (a genuine bbw part of genuine couple and goddamn beautiful - so there lol)
What do we put thats not going to upset anyone?
T (a genuine bbw part of genuine couple and goddamn beautiful - so there lol)
Hi Curvy,
Know exactly how you are feeling. We were incredibly nervous the first time we met another couple. We once ventured to a club and were petrified , we really want to go to another one but the nerves are getting in the way.
And like you I would love to try an extra guy (or3!!) but there is not enough Rescue Remedy in the world that could give me the courage!!
But I do know that everything we have done so far has been great fun and well worth the terror. So go for it girl and if you will we will!!
T & K
Know exactly how you are feeling. We were incredibly nervous the first time we met another couple. We once ventured to a club and were petrified , we really want to go to another one but the nerves are getting in the way.
And like you I would love to try an extra guy (or3!!) but there is not enough Rescue Remedy in the world that could give me the courage!!
But I do know that everything we have done so far has been great fun and well worth the terror. So go for it girl and if you will we will!!
T & K
Alex,
I am retraining at the moment and am 2 years through a 3 year course. My Mum said I would never cope , my "poor" children would suffer and acted like I had told her I was selling my soul to the devil.....
Now here we are 2 years on and I'm finding it really tough and thinking about giving up the Mum is now saying I can't possibly give up, that she knew I would be great at it from the start and it was what I was always meant to do !!!!
Honestly....talk about mixed messages LOL
Be proud of yourself - its less hassle
Tracy xx
I am retraining at the moment and am 2 years through a 3 year course. My Mum said I would never cope , my "poor" children would suffer and acted like I had told her I was selling my soul to the devil.....
Now here we are 2 years on and I'm finding it really tough and thinking about giving up the Mum is now saying I can't possibly give up, that she knew I would be great at it from the start and it was what I was always meant to do !!!!
Honestly....talk about mixed messages LOL
Be proud of yourself - its less hassle
Tracy xx
Know this hijacks the thread a tad but there is a great sex tip called countdown that we learnt (learned??) from the show Sex Tips for Girls. Everytime we hear the familiar countdown clocks sound from the show we always think of sex!
And that is not meant to be in anyway dishonourable to the memory of Richard Whitely who always seemed such a sweetie and was way too young to have left us.
T & K xx
And that is not meant to be in anyway dishonourable to the memory of Richard Whitely who always seemed such a sweetie and was way too young to have left us.
T & K xx
I agree, the way I read it Rob wasn't snooping at all and definately didn't deserve the rude reply. No wonder us newbies are reluctant to post new topics.
Not sure what you should do Rob but I guess don't ruin a good friendship for the sake of a threesome. But if your friendship can survive it and grow go for and fill ya boots!!
T and K xx
Not sure what you should do Rob but I guess don't ruin a good friendship for the sake of a threesome. But if your friendship can survive it and grow go for and fill ya boots!!
T and K xx
I've heard of this....on my first day of my new job I was in my bosses car, we stopped at the house we were visiting and she said "ooh watch out for the wife swappers, they have a pampas grass"!!
I made this bizarre nervous laughing sound and she must have thought I was a right weirdo - yeah go on say it - I am !
Txx
I made this bizarre nervous laughing sound and she must have thought I was a right weirdo - yeah go on say it - I am !
Txx
Feel better already....atishoooooooooo
Thanks for the tips - will go to the chemist and get something in a bit ringing my unclean bell all the way there.
May also try the shag cure if I can convince Kev that I'm still irresistable with a bright red and drippy nose and spluttering cough. May refrain from being blow job queen tho' would die from suffocation!
cheers all xxxxxx
Thanks for the tips - will go to the chemist and get something in a bit ringing my unclean bell all the way there.
May also try the shag cure if I can convince Kev that I'm still irresistable with a bright red and drippy nose and spluttering cough. May refrain from being blow job queen tho' would die from suffocation!
cheers all xxxxxx
Just to say its not just single guys being stood up by are a genuine couple who both work shifts and have kids to find babysitters for. A couple we arranged to meet didn't turn up and that is a precious evening to us when we could have seen other friends etc.
But we have been on the other side too.... with a child chucking up and not being able to leave to go and meet someone but we gave as much notice and were very polite - honest!!!
Us couples aren't all bad promise.
T & K xx
But we have been on the other side too.... with a child chucking up and not being able to leave to go and meet someone but we gave as much notice and were very polite - honest!!!
Us couples aren't all bad promise.
T & K xx
Have just popped into the local camping shop to pick up some suitable clothing...a 3 man tent in a tasteful shade of puce ought to be flattering and unoffensive!
As for code of behaviour...I do try to only speak when spoken to and chew my 3 Big Macs with my mouth closed! Honestly....
T xx
As for code of behaviour...I do try to only speak when spoken to and chew my 3 Big Macs with my mouth closed! Honestly....
T xx
Its always interesting to hear others opinions on larger women. I am a cuddly size 18 and must admit that I have had many reservations about meeting people because of my size. I think I am sexy and have a man who adores me but at the back of my mind think everyone is really after the Victoria Beckhams in this world.
So thanks I feel much better after reading these posts.
T xx
So thanks I feel much better after reading these posts.
T xx
