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Quote by mercman
towel or shorts ..what is the best
When you have settled into the club what do men find better to wear and also the women too look at shorts or a towel
The image of a man wrapped in white towel is ahhhhh....sexy, gives you time to appreciate the hips and making the outline of his legs, thus titilating the mind...
Towel also makes a man look vulnerable and that in itself can be sexy. For me, Alan Partridge's porno shorts are too brash, you know gives the impression that he's trying too hard. It's definitely a Retro thing as in John Travolta from 'Saturday Night Fever'...kind of makes you look like a wanker
Sorry....I'm sure opinions will differ and that's the beauty of life. Quote by Harleyman
What do you think of hairy men? does it put you off, or turn you on.
Hmmmm....Mr Smoothie all over for me please. Okay, that's being unfairly demanding to men.
Bits of hairs on the chest is alright so long it's not too bushy and curly texture resembling of pubic hair (some women like to kiss men chest).
Not too keen on hairs on the lower half of the body unless it's a thin straight line heading down towards the crotch which I think looks so sexy in a knee length loose beach shorts.
Hair at the back is a definite NO NO for me and the same goes for hairy bum like our Taz-man. :taz:
Quote by jomu
Just look-out for people following you as you walk into the wood....change direction a time or two, and if they keep following you ask them not to....if they keep it up remind them that voyeurism is now a serious sexual offence and you'll call the law ! .....most doggers will bugger off if asked to....
Blimey, just my bad experience that the police got involved catching out the voyeur for us!!! Just my thoughts that doggers are expert in their hobby.
Quote by Alan
i should imagine they would find you if they dont they shouldnt call themselves doggers if I was you I would go away from dogging sites unless you want to be seen and caught
Sorry I meant to say NOT an 'established dogging site' but any obscure wooded area that you think offers privacy. My paranoia tells me they'd find you even if you're not at a dogging site. Please correct. I once had bad experience as a teenager from peeping toms.
Is this question allowed here?
As long as you have not arranged a dogging at a designated dogging location, is it ever private enough for a couple to have private sex in the car in a wooded park or country car park. I mean what are the chances of a dogger following you or are they very good at finding you?
As long as you have not arranged a dogging at a designated dogging location, is it ever private enough for a couple to have private sex in the car in a wooded park or country car park. I mean what are the chances of a dogger following you or are they very good at finding you?
Quote by rogerthedragon
I think you might find that for quite a lot of men too much alcohol has a negative effect on the size and duration of their erection - not something I think you would be aiming for.
Not sure what you mean about SIZE, does it turn into a big scary Monster? :scared:
Quote by jamnat20032003
alcohol normally prolomgs my sexual experiences
Obviously that can be a good thing for the woman but does having a slightly numb penis (sorry for the expression) takes off some of the joy of sex that would have otherwise felt FULLY withoiut the alcohol? If it makes little or no difference, then women have nothing to worry about men making a compromise...as sex ideally should be two way pleasure
Having picked up a few Swinging Stories to read at random from this site, I came across account of men who seem to imply that when you’ve had too much to drink, you cannot cum easily during sex. Is this true? I’m aware some of these stories are just fantasy…but some of the facts must have element of truth surely.
I was thinking too much alcohol can ‘deaden’ the penis from feeling normally sensitive and thus the longer time to cum. Would this be the same impact as using a Mosquito spray to sting the penis just to prolong the erection for longer sex? If yes, I wonder if sex is less enjoyable for men this way as the sensation is only half felt.
Sorry another stupid naïve question but it’s interesting when you get different responses.
I was thinking too much alcohol can ‘deaden’ the penis from feeling normally sensitive and thus the longer time to cum. Would this be the same impact as using a Mosquito spray to sting the penis just to prolong the erection for longer sex? If yes, I wonder if sex is less enjoyable for men this way as the sensation is only half felt.
Sorry another stupid naïve question but it’s interesting when you get different responses. Quote by Alexandra
I have only been to one big munch (more's the pity) however it was held in an area where I know quite a few people - and I didn't see anyone I knew.
I wasn't wearing my specs - so that could have been the reason.
Alex x
LAUGHED MYSELF TO CRYING!!!
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: 
Quote by GenHertsCpl
3) Have sex with David Beckham
So YOUR the only one who hasnt then!
Ive got lots of things id like to do before im 50, but some may take a bit longer than that......
Hopefully will have paid off our mortgage.....only 45K left to go
Thats just for starters! lol
One thing for sure, couldn't possibly trade off sleeping with Beckham for a ZERO mortgage left to go way before I'm 50. :wink:
Quote by Sorted16v
Some good advice from all of you. I have said stranger before but i still think she would want to do it with someone we know. Like you said it is worth making friends with people and asking them to do it
Have you thought about your milkman or postman who are not exactly your mates but you know them to be reliable and trustworthy....? Only joking.....
Quote by lancyuk
unless you have very open minded friends i wouldnt like to have to deal with using the line....'my missis wants to sleep with you'
unless its someone you know swings already and who knows the ground rules.
i would suggest if its someone you know, or someone you just pick to be the ONE there is always the paranoia afterwards of is there something else going on, especially for the first time.
a stranger is only a stranger for so long,
also you wouldnt want your mates telling your other mates that he went with your missis, it could get complicated.
that was a long way of saying stranger....sorry.
So totally agree with the above argument made by my fave TallBoy. :thumbup:
My vote is on stranger too.
Quote by lancyuk
Lancy-Nancy my TallBoy, non touristy and unMcDonalised places in Asian isn’t such a good idea for giant like you, you’ll only scare them away. As for Bungy Jumping, at least make sure the string is not too long…just joking
agreed on both points, although surely they have tall people in asia? or am i just a european freak now?.
You're right, a taller freak is a Chinaman on the American NBC basketball team. Just get Max Clifford to arrange for you to stand next to him for a PR photo
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: Quote by lancyuk
so, what are the things you would like to do before your 50 (if your over 50, try in the next 5 years)
ive got plenty of time left to:
1. visit asia (not picky where, somewhere not touristy and mcdonalised)
2. bungee jump
Lancy-Nancy my TallBoy, non touristy and unMcDonalised places in Asian isn’t such a good idea for giant like you, you’ll only scare them away. As for Bungy Jumping, at least make sure the string is not too long…just joking
Nah, already seen the world...so things I’d like to be able to do before I’m 50:
1) Looking 30 years younger/stunning with cosmetic surgery/diet/exercise
2) Saved enough to retire on a blissful swinging lifestyle
3) Have sex with David Beckham
4) Climb Mt Everest without oxygen & Sherpa guide
5) Write one of the best selling novel
6) Win an Oscar for Best Actor
7) Speak 101 languages of the world
8) Do Space travel
9) Do Time travel
10) Have sex with aliens
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: Now and then, we get newbie asking for advice on meet and one of the usual recommendations they get is for them to attend a Munch. Would this be a problem for some of you out there?
For me personally, I’d be more worried sick of meeting someone I know from the workplace or neighborhood etc. I wonder if this has happened to anybody as with the case of the major regional Munch expected to have up to 300 people attending.
I’ve actually met a staff from my workplace in my partner’s ‘grandish’ party held outside our region…crikey. Obviously I was very happy to see this person and we chatted merrily but at a Munch, Jesus what would you say?
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For me personally, I’d be more worried sick of meeting someone I know from the workplace or neighborhood etc. I wonder if this has happened to anybody as with the case of the major regional Munch expected to have up to 300 people attending.
I’ve actually met a staff from my workplace in my partner’s ‘grandish’ party held outside our region…crikey. Obviously I was very happy to see this person and we chatted merrily but at a Munch, Jesus what would you say?
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Foreplay is something that should be a constant part of a couples life, looks, words, touches, all of this plays a part in building up excitement and anticipation.
Kat
Perfectly said... God, I'm sooooooooo glad I'm married to GT 'cos he introduced me to the foreplay you describe. It's lovely!
Yeah me too, so totally agree. I'm cumming already just by the thought of the above.
Quote by ChairmanMiaow
We were having a chat with some friends over the weekend...........Over the next few weeks she fucked 8 guys in the room cause she just didn't mind being fucked. So the qestion on the table is where is your comfort zone set. And has it changed over time.
It just goes to prove that you don't have to be a swinger to do the things that even a swinger would find it a bit distasteful. There is a time and place for wild sex as a swinger with graceful etiquette will tell you.
Frankly I'd prefer be a dignified swinger than that slut you mentioned...unless she has a genuine medical explanation behind her shocking behaviour.
Do you think you look normal, Your Honour?
Your Majesty, me absolutely clueless what you're trying to drive at?
As a woman, personally I find it compulsorily attractive for a man to be tall from 6 foot and onwards (even more attractive than the muscular body). For me, the height gives the man that certain superiority that I find it oh so masculine.
BUT...6.8 is a bit freakingly tall but if I were a 6 footer gal, I'm sure my opinion would be different. If I knew you well and liked you and I'm about say 5.2 for example, I'm sure your height wouldn't stop me from wanting to date you.
Have you thought about targetting 6 footer women? I heard Jerry Hall is available and she's a hottie for her age.
BUT...6.8 is a bit freakingly tall but if I were a 6 footer gal, I'm sure my opinion would be different. If I knew you well and liked you and I'm about say 5.2 for example, I'm sure your height wouldn't stop me from wanting to date you.
Have you thought about targetting 6 footer women? I heard Jerry Hall is available and she's a hottie for her age.
Quote by erospartnership
We were having a chat with some friends over the weekend...........Over the next few weeks she fucked 8 guys in the room cause she just didn't mind being fucked. So the qestion on the table is where is your comfort zone set. And has it changed over time.
It just goes to prove that you don't have to be a swinger to do the things that even a swinger would find it a bit distasteful. There is a time and place for wild sex as a swinger with graceful etiquette will tell you.
Frankly I'd prefer be a dignified swinger than that slut you mentioned...unless she has a genuine medical explanation behind her shocking behaviour.
With new members joining (everyday??) the forum to gain more insight into the world of swinging from regular swingers, I thought it might be more interesting to start more of the ‘swinging themed’ threads.
Okay I have noticed that every now and then, we get this thread from men expressing his desire to try out swinging but desperately needs advice on how to approach their partners etc so I thought, why not a poll to see a vote pattern.
Please note however it’s not always necessary to post a comment with each vote …PLEASE JUST VOTE, unless you feel it can offer useful perspective to the ‘would be’ swinger. I may even start another thread about strategies used by seasoned swingers to get into swinging.
Okay I have noticed that every now and then, we get this thread from men expressing his desire to try out swinging but desperately needs advice on how to approach their partners etc
so I thought, why not a poll to see a vote pattern. Please note however it’s not always necessary to post a comment with each vote …PLEASE JUST VOTE, unless you feel it can offer useful perspective to the ‘would be’ swinger. I may even start another thread about strategies used by seasoned swingers to get into swinging.
From experience, I've cum before without the stimulant from sexual activities. There was this great party with great food (buffet representing different cuisines of the world) and I was so excited as I danced away, I felt the gushing...wetting myself. With the right music and party environment, cumming in less than 5 minutes.
If the sex was about 3 minutes (as the stated average male performance) because the man came 3 minutes or even less, then IMMEDIATELY
....which brings the question that ideally women could benefit from having at least 2 men at a time but not quite the same with two women per man (one of the poor woman will be left unfinished). Hehehe..... :twisted:
....which brings the question that ideally women could benefit from having at least 2 men at a time but not quite the same with two women per man (one of the poor woman will be left unfinished). Hehehe..... :twisted:
Do men enjoy their nipples to be licked during foreplay?
Okay for woman, it's one of the essential part of foreplay to get the woman in the mood for sex.
I love running my tongue on tiny male nipples but often I'm led to believe men don't want it as they are said to have no sensitivity like we woman have. Am I so naive as to not know this stupid fact? Please help clarify.
Okay for woman, it's one of the essential part of foreplay to get the woman in the mood for sex.
I love running my tongue on tiny male nipples but often I'm led to believe men don't want it as they are said to have no sensitivity like we woman have. Am I so naive as to not know this stupid fact? Please help clarify.
