if unsure and not at ease then my suggestion would be to stay in the car.
Couples will normally let you know if they want to be the centre of attention and if they havnt it may be that they are just a courting couple and wouldnt want to be watched.
As for the comment about what to say......normally nothing.
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mattius
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 62
0 miles · Derbyshire
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Sexpert
ok..(smirks)...having considered most of the options so far...fire engines, tropical beach, lift, castle, top of a roof, horse, (horse???)..all pretty tame so far.
Has anyone had a wild steamy fantasy about an erotic late night session on a warm sexy car bonnet under the romantic stars and moonlight in a deserted derbyshire car park with a guy called mattius???.
hmmmm.....or should i ditch the car and travel on a donkey from now on, wearing a firemans uniform and carrying a bag of sand??
Has anyone had a wild steamy fantasy about an erotic late night session on a warm sexy car bonnet under the romantic stars and moonlight in a deserted derbyshire car park with a guy called mattius???.
hmmmm.....or should i ditch the car and travel on a donkey from now on, wearing a firemans uniform and carrying a bag of sand??
Sexpert
at a prearranged aisle at a prearranged time in a supermarket with a woman i didnt know, just like the al pacino scene in "sea of love"...would love that...30 seconds of teasing and exploring and then disappear.
My fantasies all involve someone unknown and a slightly public place such as a cinema next to a woman who....
thats it!..im in the mood now...think ill take the fire engine out for a spin
My fantasies all involve someone unknown and a slightly public place such as a cinema next to a woman who....
thats it!..im in the mood now...think ill take the fire engine out for a spin
Sexpert
my car has a forcefield around it when in Derbyshire.
It transmits energy beams which guide me into car parks to hear the words "omg matt...you should have been here earlier"...or " wow matt...last night was fabulous,where were you? " and from time to time it guides me to within yards of the car carrying the psychotic full beamer where meeting or dogging is an absolute no no.
Apparently the cure is simple.
My PM box needs to recieve messages that start "erotic rampant virginal shy couple with incredible bodies would like to meeet you tonight at....." or "first time and gagging..."
lesser mortals may apply
It transmits energy beams which guide me into car parks to hear the words "omg matt...you should have been here earlier"...or " wow matt...last night was fabulous,where were you? " and from time to time it guides me to within yards of the car carrying the psychotic full beamer where meeting or dogging is an absolute no no.
Apparently the cure is simple.
My PM box needs to recieve messages that start "erotic rampant virginal shy couple with incredible bodies would like to meeet you tonight at....." or "first time and gagging..."
lesser mortals may apply
Sexpert
true...it could be used,however it could occassionaly enjoy a rest.... but i thought the point of this site was to find someone elses hands...perhaps having the car signwritten "early morning willing hand seeker"
to "willing"...this wasn a hint...yes it was..no it wasnt...yes it was.
to "willing"...this wasn a hint...yes it was..no it wasnt...yes it was.
Sexpert
After replying to one of clairensteves threads, it got me thinking.
Obviously meeting and dogging is normally a late night scenario, but some of us testosterone filled guys wake at 5 am and feel randy as hell. Why isnt there early morning dogging??
Cummon Mark, get ya thinking cap on and set up an earlybird section...wink
an earlybird section which has a dedicated mattius sub-section titled "fustrated derbyshire penthouse babes directory"....sigh...i wish
Any suggestions?
Obviously meeting and dogging is normally a late night scenario, but some of us testosterone filled guys wake at 5 am and feel randy as hell. Why isnt there early morning dogging??
Cummon Mark, get ya thinking cap on and set up an earlybird section...wink
an earlybird section which has a dedicated mattius sub-section titled "fustrated derbyshire penthouse babes directory"....sigh...i wish
Any suggestions?
Sexpert
See.... midlandsmale. "Willing",bless her little cottons, enthrals at the thought of two guys....but the first sight of a second thread and she starts going to pieces. Methinks the little minx may need a guiding hand (smirk). I just know she will be typing as i speak.
Sexico...this is your thread pal, by all means join in as and when. They are a fun bunch, they dont bite. Willing apparently nibbles but thats just a rumour.
and on the subject of east midlands dogging....(ahem)....this orphan virginal quiet shy randy sod seems to not be getting any pms from vivacious playboy material couples!!!!
Sexico...this is your thread pal, by all means join in as and when. They are a fun bunch, they dont bite. Willing apparently nibbles but thats just a rumour.
and on the subject of east midlands dogging....(ahem)....this orphan virginal quiet shy randy sod seems to not be getting any pms from vivacious playboy material couples!!!!
Sexpert
Also just talking can cause a problem, especially with people who have a strange or strong accent. i once sat opposite to a woman(goddess) on a train with a stong scottish accent who said "i suppose we will get to edinburgh and have sex? " to which i replied "i hope so"......it took me an age to realise that what she had said was "i suppose we will get to edinburgh at half six!!"
and when police come into a car park...never ever ask them if they are dogging...they dont have a sense of humour.....unless you enjoy cuffs!!
and when police come into a car park...never ever ask them if they are dogging...they dont have a sense of humour.....unless you enjoy cuffs!!
Sexpert
my advice is simply take a break from this and put all the effort into the other. this scene is always here, but the other may not be worth losing. I come to the uk several times a year and it is always fun to enjoy the scene but if i had it constantly it would lose its appeal.
Sexpert
I have had this convo many a time and im sure that it is entirely normal to enjoy watching other guys with your wife. it perhaps shows pride...mutual enjoyment that she is getting turned on as well as you.
the ettiquette side is still a problem at most dogging sites. Guys need to back off until the couples light comes on to show interest as many wives are nervous the first time. the amount of times a couple are just loosening up and some moron comes and races next to them with lights full on...makes me boil.
the ettiquette side is still a problem at most dogging sites. Guys need to back off until the couples light comes on to show interest as many wives are nervous the first time. the amount of times a couple are just loosening up and some moron comes and races next to them with lights full on...makes me boil.
