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payne
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 42
Straight Male, 45
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Quote by Libra+Love
All I can add to this is....
Doesn't it worry the mommies who withhold visitation rights that one day your kid just may love you that little bit less because of it?
I know it does me.

This is the exact reason I keep putting in all the effort.. if it was left up to him he'd never see her. Before I could drive I'd be doing the half hour train journey 4 times a day on a saturday to drop her off and pick her up. More often than not, I'd be half way there and he'd ring to cancel, leaving me to deal with the tears when we had to come straight back home.
But if I didn't do all this then there's every chance my daughter will one day turn round and blame me. I want to be able to say to her that I did everything within my power to support the relationship between her and her father. This is the reason why I'll never give up and just 'leave it up to him' as everyone keeps telling me to do. sad
Yep.. but going back to uni next year so am not planning another for about 5yrs. Also they can be taken out before the 5 yrs is up. The IUS is a 3 yr one so if I went for that I would probably have to have another one fitted to 'last' me until I was ready to start trying again.
Quote by Nicola&Alan
You have me a bit worried here, you should still be able to have kids in teh future using teh depo injection... or is there something my doctor isnt telling me???

You can still have kids after depo, but the amount of time for fertility to return veries greatly from person to person. My best friend is desperate to have a baby and came off depo in June last year. Her period still hasn't returned and when she went to the docs they said that it is normal for it to take a yr for fertility to resume. Some people take longer, some less. It's going to be a few years before I have any more kids, but the advantage ofboth methods I've narrowed it down to is that fertility returns as soon as you finish them.
Hi people, was just wanting to ask if any of you ladies out there had tried the contraceptive impant? It's been 8 weeks now since baby was born and getting a bit sick of using condoms all the time. I've been looking at all the options available and due to my crap memory, the mini pill is out the question, the combined pill can't be used whilst breast feeding, and I really don't like the idea of depo as I do want more kids in the future. I've narrowed my options down to the implant or IUS(hormone releasing coil type thingy). The implant appeals to me more but just wondered if anyone has any bad experiences of it?
TIA
H xx biggrin
I'm another one who has to actually 'convonce' my ex to spend time with his daughter. He now will see her, as long as I take her to him and pick her up again a few hrs later. If he's on good form it will be once a week, but he can go a couple of months without having contact with her, which really upsets me. Running out of excuses nowto give to ar a 3 yr old who wants to see her daddy sad He cartainly won't pay anything towards her upbringing.. he doesn't have enough left after paying for booze and weed every week. If he wasn't so good with her when they are actually together I'd have fucked him off a long time ago!!
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Always try everything twice... just to make sure you did it right the first time wink
Venus.. I can only echo what everyone else has said. We were planning on leaving ours in september and a lot of people said that it was disgraceful to leave them so young.. but we wanted our honeymoon to be just the 2 of us. Plans have changed since however, as I can't figure out an easy way of taking a week off breastfeeding and still being able to return to it afterwards :cry:
Go for it.. have a great time and DON'T feel guilty!!!! biggrin (lucky cow!!)
Quote by naughtynymphos1
i have a 4 year old and can honestly say she has never asked anything about sex or anything sexual in any way, sorry to say but makes me wonder what very young kids are seeing or hearing to make them ask such things confused cause at that sort of age they only repeat others

I beg to differ... some children are naturally very inquisitive.. so if they see something on a day to day basis and are talked to about it (i.e there's a baby in mummies tummy), they are likely to wonder why it is there, how it comes out etc. It's also a case of correcting their misconceptions.. why should we let them believe that it comes out of mummies bellybutton? I agree that information given should be age relevent.. it's pointless overloading your child with information they wouldn't understand anyway.. but I think the most important thing is to be honest with them and follow their lead. They are little people who can think for themselves.. don't underestimate!
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Every child is different.. My 3 yr old has just started asking questions because I've just had a baby. She thought it would come out through my belly button so I let her watch a programme on discovery where a woman gave birth. So she now knows where it comes from (her favourite bit being the blood and slime) and she knows that my partner put it in there, but not 'how' iyswim.. and then the questions stopped. I won't tell her any more until she asks.
People using the parent and child spaces at the supermarket when they have no children mad :x .... in a way I can see how the childless wouldn't appreciate how important those extra big spaces can be when your on your own struggling with kids.... but when people with the car full of car seats/baby on board signs etc.. obviously shopping without their kids, park there.. It just really pisses me off!!!! :x
(....as does being up at stoopid o'clock in the morning lol )
Quote by ellietvslut
xxdevil69
YES YES YES!!!!!!! I love men as men, men as women, women as women and women as men!!! basically I'm just a perve!!!

Glad to see your getting over the trials and pain of child birth xxdevil69 biggrin
I never stopped being a perve hun .... just counting down the days till I can act on it!!! wink :twisted: :twisted:
YES YES YES!!!!!!! lol I love men as men, men as women, women as women and women as men!!! redface basically I'm just a perve!!! :twisted: :twisted:
Huge congratulations to you both!! Glad all is well with mum and babies although I wouldn't trade places with you for all the money in the world!!! wink
I will personally make sure at least one drink is supped tonight in celebration! lol
H xx
Not one, but 2 bits on my home town!!! :cry:
"A small dank pond full of pram pushers, pasty faced weevils with attention deficit disorder and crumbling sad damp abandoned old has no Mcds because it is so grannie and grandad chavs ( Kev and Julie) wander about in soggy smoke smelling denim on the way to giro Bradford Chavdom has spread like a multi cultural fungus to the ethnic community who at least have better bling and nicer teeth.
My mate says Clay Cross and Dudley are worse -is this possible?"
"Nelson, a place for every Chav. What a great place! All types of Chav are present here, they seem to like the place. On my daily drive to work the "working" or "tarmacing" Chavs are already going about their daily business. The non tarmacers are mooching around the post office, kwik save, farm foods, lidl, costcutters, woolworths and wilkinson all searching out "reet good stuff well cheep!!"
Chavs are a thirsty breed, so, plastic bags in hand it's off for a coffee at The Station pub (they open early to get the chavs in before the bar opens). At sharp the bar is open and the chav's and chavette's are bustling to get their orders in. Once served they have their "loyalty cards" stamped and mooch off to sit on the sticky ash covered seats of the "family area".
Across town the fellow chavs are getting stuck in to yet more booze at the Lord Nelson. After a few drinks many of the younger chavs tuck their tracky bottoms into their socks and head out, best rockport forward to ruin some senior citizen's afternoon.
Cometh the hour cometh the Chav! With nightfall approaching the Nova's and suchlike are revving the engines and pulling out from the Stone Clad Labrynth of houses, pausing momentarily to switch on the purple lights under the car. ACE!!!
A new one up here is two tone paint, it looks so good over the rust bubbles on the wheel arches!
With the blond haired, big gold ear ringed chavette slumped in the wound back passenger seat, the chavmobile trudles off to congregate in near by Colne. (Matalan car park) ther chavs meet up and chav about for an hour or three going from 0 to 30 and back to 0 several times on North Valley Road. I really do detest the chavs. Tracksuits, burberry caps, rockports, reebok classics, Nova's, illiteracy, all traits of the chav!"
Awwww Gem.... only you!!!! pmsl lol :lol:
I know it's not good to laugh at other people's misfortunes, but thanks for cheering me up!! biggrin
Sorry to hear of your troubles WBB!! I'm thinking of you and if you fancy a chat you can pm me anytime!!
Big hugs to you.. and I wish I knew the answers sad
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H xxx
Happy birthday you sexy bugger!!!!!
Have a big birthday snog from me!!! passionkiss
Thankyou all for your kind messages!! I'll be back 'with it' soon enough lol ..... Now all I need is some sleep! rolleyes
Quote by GenHertsCpl
Tried some this morning.. although t'was unexpected and not the proper milk but the pre-stuff that baby's have before it lol

Its called Colostrum, very high in fat content to help build up the babies body weight when first born, as they tend to lose about 10% of their birth weight in their first few days.
Oh god, cant u just tell im a mother rolleyes
Somebody slap me! :twisted:
Pretty disgusting too.. I knew it had a name but with all the other medical terms running round my head at the moment this pregnancy brain is struggling to keep up :lol:
Tried some this morning.. although t'was unexpected and not the proper milk but the pre-stuff that baby's have before it lol
Quote by Sgt Bilko
I quite like this Burko Bloke!!! confused :? :? :? :?

I think he sounds a bit of a perve tbh rolleyes lol
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Mine means light.. but is obviously getting less popular as the years go on sad
awww.. I've been banned as well.. adn I didn't even do half as much as everyone else :cry:
oooh I couldn't resist.. I've been looking for something extra to fill my time wink
When I was in a lesbian relationship. my other half (the 'butch' one) shaved her legs, armpits, arms and top lip lol .. in fact I think I was more lazy with shaving than she was.
(and I am so dead if she ever reads this redface )
I'm the same.. have to have clitoral stimulation at the same time as penetration to acheive an orgasm.. not that I'm complaing lol It was years before I even figured that one out (didn't want any blokes thiking I was a freak for playing with myself during sex redface )
Quote by RedHot
Thank you for all the advice I have received so far.
I have now heard back from Ebay and they suggest not completing the sale, although they cannot tell me why the seller is now no longer registered.
They then go on to say that if the seller's account is reinstated within 90 days I may get neg feedback from the seller if I don't complete the sale confused
I've still not heard from the seller yet so will leave it another day or two and then write it off to experience I suppose and hope he doesn't come back and leave me a neg rolleyes
I know a neg is not the end of the world, but after two years with 100% and a large amount of feedback, I would hate to lose it now due to things beyond my control sad
T-J

If the worst does happen and you end up down the line with a neg you can always leave a comment explaining why underneath. Whenever I'm buying or selling and someone has a neg I actually read more off how they've responded to what the neg comment was in the first place.
Hope you get it sorted.
Some pregnant women can get VERY horny.. I'm still having sex regularly and I've got 2 weeks till my due date. However.. I personally don't fancy the idea of having sex with anyone other than my partner at the moment.. and he feels very protective over my 'bump'...
As for pregnant women being attractive, I personally don't see it, but then I see the stretch marks and swollen ankles on a daily basis. The one's used in porn tend to be 'perfect' bumps with no flaws and are all positively glowing!! Just wish it was the same for me :cry: lol