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Abilene
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 52
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Quote by Lost

It really is a wealth of information and its interesting to read about the history of your country is it not..

Oh i so agree with you on this Mallock - History is the key to the future through it we will find a better place to be. Sometimes its just a shame that the lessons are so painful and tragic dont you think?
I wholeheartedly agree that history is the key to the future. After all "lesson's learned" and all that. It is very easy for anyone (myself included) to say what should have been done, how they would have done it, what went wrong etc. However what we need to remember that being am armchair President/Prime Minister is a very easy job.
Thankyou for allowing me to hijack your thread with my drivel Lost.
Quote by st3v3
Would you let me know which server and which room, I'll take a look.

I go into server 3 lobby and am trying to go into "BDSM and subs" redface . When I click on the room and try to go I now see in the top left corner of the chat window it actually is trying to take me elsewhere ( like the Jacuzzi and such like) as I siad it is an empty shell room .. no people, no ability to type or anything.
Quote by Jon
It may be that the room you're trying to join is full... If there are 70 people in there already, you won't get in until someone leaves...

No, when that is the case it tells you room is full. This room only has about 30 ppl in it. As I said it takes me to the room but shows nothing in there (if that makes sense) and then it freezes.
Oh Fire hun ..stick to what you do well.
Tents in the rain :twisted:
Hi there. Help needed.
When I try to go to a particular room from the lobby it will take me to a mere 'shell' of the room and then freeze. I cant veen go back to the lobby or logout so I have to wait 5 minutes to try again.
I have now tried 3 times to get into a particular room but to no avail.
Advice or wine appreciated.
Quote by Calista
Fire
I too find it difficult to send naughty pm's redface the pm's I send are purely practical :shock:
Cx

Yeah ...like ... left a bit, no not there, now faster.
See ... purely instructional and practical.
P.S. I have the D900 as well and I love it... except for the flat keypad when texting. I have to actually look at each key I hit instead of instinctively feel my way around the pad. Otherwise fab phone for taking/sending pics etc.
Not really 'swinging orientated but my first thought was Nine Inch Nails "Animal"
Quote by goose35
poke
cmon Kiss havent you got round to taking some pics yet
I remember a thread about sorting Abilene some pics out when she first joined and you being chief photographer lol

lol yep. I had to gently remind her of that. I think there were also some volunteers to carry equipment and some to be in charge of wardrobe. What the hell happened to them eh?
Quote by earthchild
god i've missed you ya mad yank passionkiss

Oi !!!! Are you being Yankist???
The Palm Treo is really good for all the things you metioned. It is a little bulkier than all the madern fashion slimline phones but that is due to it having a mini keyboard on it for your doc capability.
Ok, I just burst out laughing at an email at certain somebody just sent me. I just have to share a little part of it with you ....
"you're american right? you've shagged a brit right? (bloody hope so now I've said that) So you can't be racist ffs"
Fuck, that made me laugh.
Ok, so I may be reading too much into this as some of you have pointed out. Yes, 'sick to my stomach' may sound too harsh. Can't help how I feel right now though. I absolutley abhor racists and to think I may have turned down guys/girls based on skin color is something that bothers me. Yes, I know that I don't have an attraction to shorter guys and all the other things that someone just mentioned in email to me but this feels different.
Anyway, I shall deal with in typical Abi fashion. Where's the wine?
* sneaks in quietly *
Is this day out for couples only or can a single female join in the fun? (no pun intended)
Quote by ForestFunsters
...... or Elton John.

:giggle:
Seriously though, to answer some of the questions above.
Yes, I have had offers from black guys and a few black girls.
Why did I turn them down?
Some on the basis of their profile. "Wanna great fuck" is no more charming no matter what color the person saying it is.
However, after sitting here and really doing some soul searching I do think I have turned some down based on not being attracted. Yet I don't know if it was looks or color that I wasn't attracted to. Does that make sense.
I am actually sitting here feeling rather sick in my stomach with the thought that I might be a closet racist. Yet how do you combat a feeling like this. I certainly wouldn't do what Sean talked about and go have sex 'because' of the color of skin. I am in a quandry. I am horrified at myself.
I pray that my honesty about myself and this subject has not angered anyone.
Just one more thing and then I will shut up. lol.
One thing that I think the FIG (Falklands Islands Government) insists on when you go there is that you have to prove you have accomodation set up (renting, hotel booking etc) and that you have enough money to sustain your visit. What a wonderful rule.
Quote by Dave__Notts
Britain had been trying to give the Falklands to Argentina but there was a sticking point.......the Kelpers did not want to be Argentinian. So we were lumbered with the place.

Sorry, missed this part.
That's a little harsh to say 'lumbered with the place'
What if Britain decided to give the Isle of Wight to the French and those living there objected? Should we give it away anyway or just be 'lumbered' with it?
Thanks for the discussion Dave wave
Quote by Dave__Notts
you also fail to mention that the Falkland Islanders who have lived on thise islands for many generations who are adamntly opposed to being forced under Argentinian control. You also fail to mention that the Argentinian government has even refused the offer of shipping home the bodies of the deceased soldiers so that they can be put to rest near their families. The same Argentinian government that refuses to allow flights to or from the islands so the families can even visit their graves there.

Britain had been trying to give the Falklands to Argentina but there was a sticking point.......the Kelpers did not want to be Argentinian. So we were lumbered with the place.
The Argentinians have a war cemetary on the island. I think most nations used to bury their dead where they fall.......so I am not surprised that they do not fly them back home.
I saw a plane arrive in the Falklands in 1991 that carried the relatives of the Argentinians. So some have been to see their loved ones graves. Unless the Argentinian Government has only recently stopped them coming over
Dave_Notts
I apologise if some of my information was incorrect. To my knowledge that flight did not take off from Argentina .. did it not come on a LAN flight from somewhere else (not sure though). Currently the only way to get to the Flaklands is cruise ship, LAN flight or MOD flight from Brize Norton. Trust me, I am going there in December and it has been hell making the travel plans.
Yes, I agree most do bury dead where they fall (not literally mind) but the Argentinian government has even refused to come to the Falklands (a country they claim is theirs still) to consecrate that said cemetary because they will have to show a passport when they land. Hell, I hold a british passport and I still have to show my passport to go there. It almost seems like a political move to leave the dead there so they can complain about it but yet reject all offers of a mutually satisfying solution.
I do not judge anyone by the color of their skin or where they were born or their accent. I generally judge people by their actions and what comes out of their mouth.
However I have never had sex with a black man (or any other ethnic group)
Am I racist without realising it?
Hi there and welcome.
As a single female here I can only give my view. I love nothing more than coming across a couple who are as honest and upfront as you are about your wants and concerns.
Thankfully swinging is so much broader on this site than just the act of couples swinging together. I think the main thing would be to have patience, get to know people on here (whether it be the forums or chat) and get to explore all the different avenues that are available. Also I think going to munches is a good way to meet people and see that it is not a hard core sex thing (unless you want it to be of course lol). I am rambling and probably not making sense. Hopefully someone else here will pick apart what I have said and make a little more sense.
I guess the main thing is that you make sure no matter what you both to decide to explore that it is mutually agreeable and that you are comfortable with it.
wave again 'Welcome'
Mike North :- one of the things I love about this site is the ability to have a mature discussion with points of view from all angles. So with said I thank you for your angle on what I asked.
I guess my only issue with what you said is that while you mention the Argentinian warship you failed to mention the two British ones that were sunk, one of which was in a 'stand down' position at the time. You fail to mention the 3 Falkland civilians killed (not going to quote losses on both military sides), you also fail to mention that the Falkland Islanders who have lived on thise islands for many generations who are adamntly opposed to being forced under Argentinian control. You also fail to mention that the Argentinian government has even refused the offer of shipping home the bodies of the deceased soldiers so that they can be put to rest near their families. The same Argentinian government that refuses to allow flights to or from the islands so the families can even visit their graves there.
Yes, Thatcher had her faults but to say that she prolonged the war is a little outlandish (in my opinion). The Argentinians surrendered (quite rightly - again in my opinion) after two months when they realised they had severely underestimated the British resolve to not be bullied.
May I ask what kind of message it would have sent if a impoverished and politically troubled nation (as they were at the time) could take from Britain a country the size of Wales. It would (in my opinion) send the message that a larger more well equiped country (say China, Russia or *gasp* the US) could take a shot at oh say Britain.
Just my thoughts.
* going back to my corner now ... Missy where the hell are ya ;) *
Quote by Manolishi

Or you could lay them in a trail ( like breadcrumbs ) for when your love comes home and at the end he finds you.

WOW Abi,
You old romantic you :rose:
Isn't it odd, some people just never cease to amaze you :shock:
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Yeah I didn't mention the most romantic part ... he would find me at the end of the trail with my bare ass in the air and a flogger laying on the bed ready for his use. :twisted:
Instead of mailing the letters ( cos yes, very expensive) you could make little signs ( I love you or I miss you etc )and then take a picture and email to recipient ( or post on here ).
Or you could lay them in a trail ( like breadcrumbs ) for when your love comes home and at the end he finds you.
Dunno ... just rambling. lol.
Quote by sercher01

Sadly Searcher always took things literally. This is not quite what the lady meant when she said she was into 'pony play'
This is the best I have ... so do you see why I want some help?
Excuse me. Can anyone hear me?
* pushes to the front of room *
Ooops sorry, didn't mean to stand on your foot.
* clears throat *
And I ask again. Can someone clarify for me exactly how Thatcher supposedly manufactured the Falklands War?
I'm not a damn Troll (although my hair resembles it right now) and am not trying to start a fight. I am just curious about that comment made wayyyyy early pre-council house debate in this post.
Yes I may be American so you are probably thinking "oh hush Yank for once y'all didn't start that war" Thing is though as some on here know I actually spent my childhood in this country and it happened to be under Thatcher. I remember the miners, I remember the right to buy, I remember poll tax and more importantly I remember The Falklands War. In no way did Thatcher manufature that. If you really feel the need to point blame you could always do what the Argentinians did and are doing once again ... point the finger a little further back in the English lineage.
Ok, ramble over ... patiently waiting for someone to maturely (instead of sarcasm please ;) ) tell me if I am wrong. I don't mind being wrong, really.
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I am prod to say I am not bitchy, how can I be , I am male.
Tender Loving Female, were you really born in 1416. Still at least you are not American...are you? redface

See ... prime example of how things can be taken in a different way than how you meant them cos my first reaction to that was "WTF does he mean 'At least you're not American'" :shock:
In fact I still don't know what you mean so I'm just gonna go get a cup of tea instead. ;)
I have found that going to any pre-munch drinkies that usually get arranged helps take the nerves off a bit. Usually you gat chatting with others at this and make plans to meet in the hotel lobby to go the munch.
Now ( as a self confessed munch whore ) I am no longer nervous about going to the munches but I still go to the predrinks cos it's a fab way to catch up with others early on that you may get too busy to chat with later in the evening :twisted:
Having said all that I am down to go to a munch in London next month and looked at the list and know hardly anyone on it ( cos I usually go to the northern munches ) so does this make me a munch virgin all over again?