Quote by Kiss
I'm going to stick to one side of the answer here "Why do women like receiving a strapon?" because my reasons for wearing one are far too complex!
Speaking from my own experience some women like to feel something inside them and others do like that it can feel similar to a cock.
Another issue is that a strapon dildo enables 'hands free' sex. You can both experience pleasure but can be physically much closer at the same and have boths hands free for other things. (Although for some women the strapon is a little too phallic so a didlo has been designed that straps on to the wearers thigh.)
I know one woman who likes to be fucked by a woman wearing a strapon because to her it feels so submissive.
Also you get to experiment with and enjoy all the positions that heterosexual couples do.
I am sure there are many many reasons that women enjoy receiving a strapon but it's rarely about wanting cock.
It's a bit like anal sex, there's no biological reason for it - it just feels good.
In Edit (Yet again!) - Ok an honesty moment, sorry if my answer was a little obvious but when I actually sat during lunch pondering the question I found that the answers I came up with were a little too personal and maybe a little too profound for the Cafe!

Quote by louise_and_joe
Id be too scared to go up in a hot air balloon.
Where do you go if you want a pee? :giggle:
Louise xx

Quote by jaymar
There are lots of interesting ideas in this thread ...
In 1958 I bought a nylon shirt from M&S, and for several months I wore it every day and washed it every night ... a very student thing to do! The shirt was - is - indestructible. I still have it and the fabric is the same as the day I bought it, though the stitching is failing! Probably a collector's item now - they weren't available for very long - but then M&S needs us to buy new clothes every year!
Manufacturers live by manufacturing, retailers by retailing, so they need people to buy the stuff they make and sell, and making things that last for ever is not good business in this rapidly changing world!

Quote by fem_4_taboo
just to throw a spanner in the works, what if it was him who was infertile and she was refusing to carry the embryo for him?
what if she was already pregenant and they split then could he hav ethe right to demand or refuse her a termination?
maybe he knows something about her that makes him feel he would not want her to be the mother of his children.
maybe they should never have started on the road of offering people and medical advances regarding fertility?
these are not my points of view just an example of a can of worms thought provoking ideas i get when i hear of these cases.
the good news is they have now discovered a way of freezing just the unfertalised egg, so maybe this will not be a issue for future couples.
my mind cannot cope with the questions this topic raises,
i have been bessed with the gift of children naturally, so could never understand how this lady is feeling.
xxxx fem xx

Quote by fem_4_taboo
just to throw a spanner in the works, what if it was him who was infertile and she was refusing to carry the embryo for him?
what if she was already pregenant and they split then could he hav ethe right to demand or refuse her a termination?
maybe he knows something about her that makes him feel he would not want her to be the mother of his children.
maybe they should never have started on the road of offering people and medical advances regarding fertility?
I tend to agree and uphold your points on this one.
these are not my points of view just an example of a can of worms thought provoking ideas i get when i hear of these cases.
the good news is they have now discovered a way of freezing just the unfertalised egg, so maybe this will not be a issue for future couples.
my mind cannot cope with the questions this topic raises,
i have been bessed with the gift of children naturally, so could never understand how this lady is feeling.
xxxx fem xx

Quote by Too Hot
We occasionally advertise to meet a guy as a one off and you would be surprised just how BAD some guys are at composing a reply of any interest whatsoever.
We firstly read the reply to assess age/maturity and imagination and then we look at pictures. We would then look at the post history to try get a feel for the personality.
If the response is in poor English or grammar or is written in text speak and consists of no more than one or two lines then it gets deleted. If the person is quite obviously out of our age requirement then he gets deleted for not reading our advert. I would sugges that any single male responding to an ad or initiating contact should thoroughly read the profile text and advert before composing the reply.
As far as pictures go - Mrs Hot tells me that she pays particulat attention to detail - for example:
One guy sent a picture of his hand wrapped around his cock and his finger nails were filthy.
Have a selection of public pictures in good taste and a ready store of naked, saucier pictures in your private gallery.
Most of all we would suggest being genuine. Unfortunately, there are just as many fantasist couples and single women as there are men on this site so you should be prepared to be patient.
Good luck

Quote by aj1980
i would say it really depends who it was with...and also who you are watching lol.. i think its cool putting a woman in your clubs football shirt though!! very nice...

Quote by Darkfire
... but you can at least warm to them like a person on the radio.

Quote by Dave__Notts
People who can be objective rather than vague and subjective in everything they type.
People who know the difference between disagreeing and disliking.
People who don’t bend like a willow in the wind trying to keep everyone happy with their opinions.
People who are not offended by being challenged as to how their opinion was formed.
People who see debate as being about the subject rather than the people involved.
People who are more than a fancy pink ribbon tied around an empty box.
People who don’t see questions as a form of attack, but a method to provoke thought and gain understanding.
People where if I did look at their posting history there would be something worth reading and not 100 one-line flirts or single emoticons between each post which actually contains more than 10 words.
People who can roll with the punches.
People who can take a joke as well as they dish them out.
People who just ‘get it’!

Quote by well_busty_babe
anything is better than football!!!

Quote by Darkfire
Then again some of you have obviously taken a dislike to me....I can frecklebird pointed out I was here last year and had a clique of people trying to rip me up...and I nearly stopped posting but for a bunch of very nice they read this then their welcome to publicly support me on this forum. Whatever i say there's always someone gonna put you down...I couldn't give a monkey's.

Quote by jaymar
I once gave Jay a BJ whilst he was watching a match (at home obviously)... he said that was the best, a can on the coffee table, the match on TV and a BJ!
Was your match as good as that Rising??

Quote by Kiss
Very good then very f*cking shit!
Mrs Kiss and I got two baby rats - they are very cute.
Sadly my Nan had a stroke yesterday and is in hospital! :cry: