I'm more of a planner but when it comes to playing with either a couple or a guy I tend to do it off the cuff...so I meet a guy/couple at a Club or a Munch/Social and then decide to play...
Don't worry if you haven't played yet...perhaps you're not quite ready for it...or it just hasn't been the right time...If you both want it, it'll happen for you when its right.
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DreamerHelen
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 47
0 miles · Greater London
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I guess that's true....we really shouldn't watch if we don't like it...but, for me, I like most of it, just some of the various specific bits make me gag...
To be honest, I prefer some of the erotic stories on Channel 5 which doesn't show much but it can be soooo much more erotic if it has a storyline...
To be honest, I prefer some of the erotic stories on Channel 5 which doesn't show much but it can be soooo much more erotic if it has a storyline...
Forgive me if this has been done, I haven't been around for a while 
Just wondering what everyone's turn offs are in Porn.
For me I can't stand a man that spits on a woman's pussy or arse to lubricate it...it's appalling behaviour!!
I also don't like the whole arse to mouth thing, I personally would NOT ever suck a cock that had been up my arse...
What are your turn-offs?
Just wondering what everyone's turn offs are in Porn.
For me I can't stand a man that spits on a woman's pussy or arse to lubricate it...it's appalling behaviour!!
I also don't like the whole arse to mouth thing, I personally would NOT ever suck a cock that had been up my arse...
What are your turn-offs?
I would say "No" to camera's personally cause it's a bit of a sticky area like what if you get someone in the background who didn't want to be on film...but again the Organiser should say yay or nay to this.
Yep, Snogging is allowed but nothing too amorous that will get you noticed....like don't try lying someone across a table and snogging them
Dress Code is usually pretty much what you want but something that you would normally be able to wear on a night out in the town...so no nipples bared or anything like that.
But really it's just a night to chill out with friends that you have seen write stuff on here but that you have never met...
DOn't worry, you'll have a blast!!!
Yep, Snogging is allowed but nothing too amorous that will get you noticed....like don't try lying someone across a table and snogging them
Dress Code is usually pretty much what you want but something that you would normally be able to wear on a night out in the town...so no nipples bared or anything like that.
But really it's just a night to chill out with friends that you have seen write stuff on here but that you have never met...
DOn't worry, you'll have a blast!!!
Missyyyyyyy you gorgeous sexy woman!!!
Yep, have a partner now...I think I said in my original post that we've been together for 7 months now...
*Whisper's to Missy* how about a Trip to that Spa at you know where on a Saturday sometime? It would be great to see you again!!!
Thanks again to all those that have welcomed me back....it's almost brought a tear to my eyes
Yep, have a partner now...I think I said in my original post that we've been together for 7 months now...
*Whisper's to Missy* how about a Trip to that Spa at you know where on a Saturday sometime? It would be great to see you again!!!
Thanks again to all those that have welcomed me back....it's almost brought a tear to my eyes
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When I was a kid, my father was in the forces and spent lots of time working abroad. On this occasion i thought he was still away in Cyprus but had returned early and my mother decided not to tell us to surprise us.
I think the surprise was on me!
At the age of 12, I ran home, desperate for a wee having not wished to use the facilities at school (yuk!) ran straight up the stairs, pulling my knickers down in mid flight.....flung the bathroom door open, plonked myself on the loo and let out a huge "Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh" with relief (Yes you all know that feeling).........I glanced to my right to see my father sitting wide eyed in a bubble bath - I screamed, he yelled, then i legged it to my bedroom and shut the door for about 4hours in horrified embarrassment.
Now i never enter a loo with a closed door without knocking....lesson learned...
Priceless!!!! Absolutely Priceless!!!
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Helen
Great to see you back and glad things are going good for you. Funnily enough I was at a London Social on Saturday and a couple of us were talking about peeps from here who we had not seen posting for a while and one of those mentioned was you......and now here you are
See you around some time no doubt
Bernie xxx
Yeah, things have been a bit up in the air for quite some time, but I finally feel like I've got my life sorted out a bit.
And yes Sarah, of course I put air freshner in my slippers :lol:
I think I agree with most people - I'm in an Open Relationship as Tim and I don't tend to Swing together (although we have occasionally).
But although we're in an open relationship we both know everything that's going on with each other's lives...I know who he's playing with and when.
In fact, we both go out to a Swingers Club on a Saturday night and the only rule we have is that I know he's going to play BEFORE he goes...and then it's fine...and the same goes for me.
But although we're in an open relationship we both know everything that's going on with each other's lives...I know who he's playing with and when.
In fact, we both go out to a Swingers Club on a Saturday night and the only rule we have is that I know he's going to play BEFORE he goes...and then it's fine...and the same goes for me.
Hiya All (to those that remember me and those that don't).
I'm Helen, I started off my Swinging Life here and since then things have been very very good and also very very bad and then very very good again.
I have been about but not been posting much, but hopefully that will change over the next few weeks now that I have gotten myself sorted a little bit!!
I'm not single anymore, I have a Partner who doesn't live with me, but we are a couple and have been together about 7 months now and I'm blissfully happy with him.
Anyway...to those that remember me - hello and to those that don't - I hope to get to know you soon!!!
I'm Helen, I started off my Swinging Life here and since then things have been very very good and also very very bad and then very very good again.
I have been about but not been posting much, but hopefully that will change over the next few weeks now that I have gotten myself sorted a little bit!!
I'm not single anymore, I have a Partner who doesn't live with me, but we are a couple and have been together about 7 months now and I'm blissfully happy with him.
Anyway...to those that remember me - hello
and to those that don't - I hope to get to know you soon!!! Occasionally when I'm in a group situation or something I look around and think "Wow, how did I get here and how strange is it that this doesn't feel strange" LoL.
I have only once done something that didn't feel 100% right and unfortunately I didn't listen to my gut and i went ahead with it anyway and regretted it...but I learned not to do something if I'm uncomfortable so I DID learn from it...
I have only once done something that didn't feel 100% right and unfortunately I didn't listen to my gut and i went ahead with it anyway and regretted it...but I learned not to do something if I'm uncomfortable so I DID learn from it...
