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DreamerHelen
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 46
0 miles · Greater London
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Just keep on trying....that's all I can suggest...you will meet some genuine people out there...it just takes a while to sift through the (pardon the expression) *shit*.
Put as much information on your Ad as possible so that everyone who answers it will know whether they meet your criteria.
I would suggest that you speak to the person/couple that you want to meet on the phone beforehand and make sure you meet in a public place so that there is no pressure to play and all parties concerned can back out if they want to.
I know I've said it before, and I'll probably say it again, but try joining in on the Forums and getting to know some of us...we don't bite!! And then get yourselves to a Social or a Munch and meet people there...you may well find someone there that is the man of both your dreams - you never know - it DOES occasionally happen 
Hope that helps!!
Put as much information on your Ad as possible so that everyone who answers it will know whether they meet your criteria.
I would suggest that you speak to the person/couple that you want to meet on the phone beforehand and make sure you meet in a public place so that there is no pressure to play and all parties concerned can back out if they want to.
I know I've said it before, and I'll probably say it again, but try joining in on the Forums and getting to know some of us...we don't bite!!
And then get yourselves to a Social or a Munch and meet people there...you may well find someone there that is the man of both your dreams - you never know - it DOES occasionally happen Hope that helps!!
I actually don't mind them...they don't really bother me anymore...I never used to like them cause it felt a little artificial when the man was wearing one but I have always known that it's pretty essential as far as I'm concerned.
Obviously I don't use them with my Partner but he's the only one that I dont use them with...I use them with everyone else.
I know that, for men, they can have problems cause of the whole drooping thing or lack of romance...but without can cause so many problems...but of course everyone has their own opinion about that.
Obviously I don't use them with my Partner but he's the only one that I dont use them with...I use them with everyone else.
I know that, for men, they can have problems cause of the whole drooping thing or lack of romance...but without can cause so many problems...but of course everyone has their own opinion about that.
A bit of an old thread....
But I thought you'd all like to know that I finally had anal sex...albeit about 3 years later than planned (and with a different guy)
Now I can't get enough of it...I love it, love it, love it!!!!
It does feel really weird at first...but once the cock is in it feels bloody amazing...and I don't know if its possible to hit the Cervix from anal but it feels like it and that is almost the same as my g-spot (which I haven't found yet!!!)...so it feels amazing.
Any updates from anyone else? :rascal:
But I thought you'd all like to know that I finally had anal sex...albeit about 3 years later than planned (and with a different guy)
Now I can't get enough of it...I love it, love it, love it!!!!
It does feel really weird at first...but once the cock is in it feels bloody amazing...and I don't know if its possible to hit the Cervix from anal but it feels like it and that is almost the same as my g-spot (which I haven't found yet!!!)...so it feels amazing.
Any updates from anyone else? :rascal:
Debz you gorgeous sexy woman!!!!!!!!!! 
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I think you're bloody gorgeous as you well know!!! Don't even think about this tosser for one more single solitary second...
Just remember how wonderful you really are...
I hope to meet up with you at a Social or a Munch sometime soon...it's been waaaaaay too long!!
:kiss: :kiss: :kiss:I think you're bloody gorgeous as you well know!!! Don't even think about this tosser for one more single solitary second...
Just remember how wonderful you really are...
I hope to meet up with you at a Social or a Munch sometime soon...it's been waaaaaay too long!!
)There's another one here as well
I remember when I first started dating/swinging/shagging/etc...I couldn't go for a wee if the guy was anywhere near me (even in the next room). So god forbid if we were staying in a hotel room, I have been known to actually leave the hotel room and walk to the restaurant next door in order to have both a number 1 and a number 2.
Now I'm much more relaxed...especially with Tim...I both burp and fart in front of him...which he finds particularly amusing...
I couldn't EVER go to the loo in front of anyone...I just couldn't do it...and let's face it, who wants to see my face when I'm straining to get that last bit of poo out
ops: :oops: :oops: :lol:
I remember when I first started dating/swinging/shagging/etc...I couldn't go for a wee if the guy was anywhere near me (even in the next room). So god forbid if we were staying in a hotel room, I have been known to actually leave the hotel room and walk to the restaurant next door in order to have both a number 1 and a number 2.
Now I'm much more relaxed...especially with Tim...I both burp and fart in front of him...which he finds particularly amusing...
I couldn't EVER go to the loo in front of anyone...I just couldn't do it...and let's face it, who wants to see my face when I'm straining to get that last bit of poo out
ops: :oops: :oops: :lol: I remember when I was much younger I really wanted to be a Writer...I wrote loads of short stories and even wrote a Synopsis for a book...but it never got finished unfortunately.
I DO think that dreams sometimes go by the wayside...but why is that? Why don't they always stay alive for us?
The one thing that has always been with me is my desire to travel....and I am currently planning a Round The World Trip...one that may never come to fruition...but I can dream...
I DO think that dreams sometimes go by the wayside...but why is that? Why don't they always stay alive for us?
The one thing that has always been with me is my desire to travel....and I am currently planning a Round The World Trip...one that may never come to fruition...but I can dream...
I DO kinda feel like oral sex on me is more intimate than me giving a guy oral sex...don't know why it just feels that way.
I personally like to receive...of course...but I also like to give...although I AM kinda insecure that I'm no good at it (anyone want me to try them and prove otherwise? :twisted
I never pressure a guy to make me cum...in fact I have, on occasion, said to a guy don't worry about making me cum cause I don't think I'm going to get there...
I personally like to receive...of course...but I also like to give...although I AM kinda insecure that I'm no good at it (anyone want me to try them and prove otherwise? :twisted
I never pressure a guy to make me cum...in fact I have, on occasion, said to a guy don't worry about making me cum cause I don't think I'm going to get there...
I'm actually the opposite to most people...I get really depressed during the Summer...I absolutely hate hot weather, I hate feeling sticky and lethargic when it's boiling hot and you just can't get away from it.
I tend to try and have things to look forward to...I am a HUGE planner (so much so that I already have something in my Diary for next June ) so I just spend time looking forwards and that sometimes helps.
But in Winter I absolutely come alive and I love it...I love the crisp air, the cold mornings, the beautful snow...christmas...my birthday in January...I love it, love it, love it!!!
I tend to try and have things to look forward to...I am a HUGE planner (so much so that I already have something in my Diary for next June
) so I just spend time looking forwards and that sometimes helps.But in Winter I absolutely come alive and I love it...I love the crisp air, the cold mornings, the beautful snow...christmas...my birthday in January...I love it, love it, love it!!!
My first time Swinging was with a lovely guy...we played all weekend and just generally had fun.
But I agree with the previous poster, if you don't click don't feel like you have to go ahead with it...just be polite and say that it's not going to work. Much better to do that than regret the time you've spent together...
But I agree with the previous poster, if you don't click don't feel like you have to go ahead with it...just be polite and say that it's not going to work. Much better to do that than regret the time you've spent together...
