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Jamie2000male
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 54
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As par for the course I prepared for Christmas this year by getting my Children all that they wanted and treating my wife like a princess and giving her all the presents of her dreams. I bought a couple of cases of champagne. And were all set Christmas morning was lovely. We then went to my brother’s new house for a nosey as he paid well over £1 million for it. Had her parents over for tea and then our best friends came over.
In between was good too but skipping to New Years Eve we went to friends with our best friends and had a great time. We then went back to ours and went into my entertainment den.
As I wondered in there to fix a drink on New Years Day Eve I discovered lots of stick hand prints and went to find my wife’s ball gown she’d had on only to discover cum stains all over.
Have since found out it happened on Christmas Day and they have been shagging (whilst drunk) under my nose – my wife & my best friend for the last 6 months. She sucked and swallowed and he went down on her and has dirty hard sex.
Have now changed my profile.
Happy New Year & I hope that yours was better than mine.
She want's to try and get things back to the way it was & better - but will she ever do it to me again?
In between was good too but skipping to New Years Eve we went to friends with our best friends and had a great time. We then went back to ours and went into my entertainment den.
As I wondered in there to fix a drink on New Years Day Eve I discovered lots of stick hand prints and went to find my wife’s ball gown she’d had on only to discover cum stains all over.
Have since found out it happened on Christmas Day and they have been shagging (whilst drunk) under my nose – my wife & my best friend for the last 6 months. She sucked and swallowed and he went down on her and has dirty hard sex.
Have now changed my profile.
Happy New Year & I hope that yours was better than mine.
She want's to try and get things back to the way it was & better - but will she ever do it to me again?
Great topic Kate. Whatever I say here I will not please everyone but, that's life.
I'm here because I want to swing however, my wife does not and I respect her decission. At the time of joining I thought that there was a glimmer of hope but that is dashed for now. Still remain here because I love the commuinty and all that you stand for.
I also remain here because there might just be someone who is compatible with me, of the fairer sex, that I can experiance this with. Haven't met anyone yet and not in a rush to. If it's going to happen it will. I know this won't go down well with the married / couples but I am honest and up front. After all, how many single males or females are actually single? Additionally, how many people are having affairs that have emotional conent etc and all the things that come with it.
This is something I have longed for ever since puberty and now with the help of SH I may at some point experience this with like minded people who know exactly what the desired outcome will be.
You all should understand this as there would be no such thing as SH and as pretty much all of the people here that have swung before, would not go back to vanilla dating because they are being true to themselves and their inner self rather than a perception of a sexual deviant who would shag anyone. Surely if this was the case it would be easier to go out on a Friday night give out a few lines and pull someone.
I know that's slightly different but there you are & I know we are all different. I respect the people here and please respect me for being me.
I'm here because I want to swing however, my wife does not and I respect her decission. At the time of joining I thought that there was a glimmer of hope but that is dashed for now. Still remain here because I love the commuinty and all that you stand for.
I also remain here because there might just be someone who is compatible with me, of the fairer sex, that I can experiance this with. Haven't met anyone yet and not in a rush to. If it's going to happen it will. I know this won't go down well with the married / couples but I am honest and up front. After all, how many single males or females are actually single? Additionally, how many people are having affairs that have emotional conent etc and all the things that come with it.
This is something I have longed for ever since puberty and now with the help of SH I may at some point experience this with like minded people who know exactly what the desired outcome will be.
You all should understand this as there would be no such thing as SH and as pretty much all of the people here that have swung before, would not go back to vanilla dating because they are being true to themselves and their inner self rather than a perception of a sexual deviant who would shag anyone. Surely if this was the case it would be easier to go out on a Friday night give out a few lines and pull someone.
I know that's slightly different but there you are & I know we are all different. I respect the people here and please respect me for being me.
Well well, My worst one is a band I hope no-one has heard about! They are called 'The Peter Gullen Trio' and It cost me a fortune to import it based on a snipit of a song I heard on the radio years ago and then after getting it couldn't find the song I heard that night - Then in my recollection realised that I was pissed at the time.
Best one that I have (lost) was on vynil and was TSOP - What an album that was !!!!
If anyone knows how I can get in on CD I'd be eternally grateful
Best one that I have (lost) was on vynil and was TSOP - What an album that was !!!!
If anyone knows how I can get in on CD I'd be eternally grateful
Morning Varca, Congratulations on being an Aunty.
Would like to echo the guidance of the rest of the crew. Once she is a little less sore she should do the old pelvic floor excersies to tichten things up a little and help to prevent the unexpected little dribbles.
There's nothing worse than feeling like that but at least she has a bundle of joy to show for it.
Oh and to help her recover pop down to the health food shop and get some Spirulina (Pacifica preferably) - Hawain strain. This will help her body to get back to full strength and recover quicker - but check first if OK if she is breasfeeding.................... my old PA aked her doctor after giving birth a few weeks prevoiusly if she was OK to have a curry whilst breast feeding. That's fine said the doctor however her daughter of 10 weeks thought different and screamed the house down as soon as she had a taste :!:
Would like to echo the guidance of the rest of the crew. Once she is a little less sore she should do the old pelvic floor excersies to tichten things up a little and help to prevent the unexpected little dribbles.
There's nothing worse than feeling like that but at least she has a bundle of joy to show for it.
Oh and to help her recover pop down to the health food shop and get some Spirulina (Pacifica preferably) - Hawain strain. This will help her body to get back to full strength and recover quicker - but check first if OK if she is breasfeeding.................... my old PA aked her doctor after giving birth a few weeks prevoiusly if she was OK to have a curry whilst breast feeding. That's fine said the doctor however her daughter of 10 weeks thought different and screamed the house down as soon as she had a taste :!:
Thanks for your reply. I know it's a contentious subject bearing in mind my profile. Initially when I joined, I was looking for something that I am not now.
I haven't met anyone yet and am not in a rush to. During love sessions with my wife she has fantasized about her with three other men but it's not gone further than that. Maybe one day she will be open to it. I think it's her conservative nature that prevents her.
I'm just happy to be here with like minded people until things change but accept that it may never !
But please keep your own stories comming.
I haven't met anyone yet and am not in a rush to. During love sessions with my wife she has fantasized about her with three other men but it's not gone further than that. Maybe one day she will be open to it. I think it's her conservative nature that prevents her.
I'm just happy to be here with like minded people until things change but accept that it may never !
But please keep your own stories comming.
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What's the RRP and where should I send a cheque to?
Now I'm just waiting for invites to Fire and Stormy's home, Mr & Mrs Winch's home, Dlep's home, Splendid and Kiss's homes, Red's home DF's home, etc etc etc.................................
From an early (legal) age I have enjoyed sex in so many ways and so many places. I love the swinging community and would love nothing more than to swing but, my wife will not ever. She is well aware of my passions and desires with regard to this and while she repects this then I must respect her views.
Somewhere in the wilderness at a point in time she may well change her opinion. I'm not looking for your opinion (if it's a judgemental or damming one) but would like to know and for you all to share your road to swinging.
Has it always been your desire? or were you turned? Would you have done it in a previous relationship? etc etc
Come one ppl please share your stories for the good of the SH forum!!
Somewhere in the wilderness at a point in time she may well change her opinion. I'm not looking for your opinion (if it's a judgemental or damming one) but would like to know and for you all to share your road to swinging.
Has it always been your desire? or were you turned? Would you have done it in a previous relationship? etc etc
Come one ppl please share your stories for the good of the SH forum!!
:therethere:Thank you for your comments but may I fill you in with more oooeeer!
I buy my wife a boquet of flowers every week, give her a very generour allowance for shopping. Buy lovey dovey cards at least once a week. Give her massages, run her baths, buy desigener everything which, considering we love Versace apparell is pricey. Cook meals at least once a week (and I mean cook, not some ready made stuff or from a jar). Shower her with love and affection, and allow her to be a lady of leasure - not to mention how much the cosmetic surgeon fees and Botox comes to!
And knowing her inside out, I knew that she was playing on it (to sqeeze the last bit out of me which I felt was taking the piss)- and so was being honest
Haven't you ever played on it to get what you want: :lol: :lol: :lol:
I buy my wife a boquet of flowers every week, give her a very generour allowance for shopping. Buy lovey dovey cards at least once a week. Give her massages, run her baths, buy desigener everything which, considering we love Versace apparell is pricey. Cook meals at least once a week (and I mean cook, not some ready made stuff or from a jar). Shower her with love and affection, and allow her to be a lady of leasure - not to mention how much the cosmetic surgeon fees and Botox comes to!
And knowing her inside out, I knew that she was playing on it (to sqeeze the last bit out of me which I felt was taking the piss)- and so was being honest
Haven't you ever played on it to get what you want
: :lol: :lol: :lol: nice one
My wife recently complained 'I'm having a really heavy period and it's getting me down' Perhaps I should have considered my response more when I said 'Well honey you've being having them every month for at least the last 16 years so you should be used to them by now' - you can guess the response !!!!!!!!!!!! :lol:
My wife recently complained 'I'm having a really heavy period and it's getting me down' Perhaps I should have considered my response more when I said 'Well honey you've being having them every month for at least the last 16 years so you should be used to them by now' - you can guess the response !!!!!!!!!!!! :lol:
I know it's difficult sometimes but do your weights then cardio.
Cut beer out as much as poss - drink wine or something else.
Eat very little red meat if any - But you can much on the pink meat
THE BEST ONE - take Creatin - take a look at the Science In Sports Web site - the stuff they sell is used by most Premiership football teams and Olympic Athletes - the best kept secret in the world.
Also...the 'hedstart' they sell is THE BEST hangover cure stuff ever. Stock up for Christmas!!
Cut beer out as much as poss - drink wine or something else.
Eat very little red meat if any - But you can much on the pink meat
THE BEST ONE - take Creatin - take a look at the Science In Sports Web site - the stuff they sell is used by most Premiership football teams and Olympic Athletes - the best kept secret in the world.
Also...the 'hedstart' they sell is THE BEST hangover cure stuff ever. Stock up for Christmas!!
My wife has fo many years now kept a very neat fanjita with a little tuft around the top & one morning a couple of weeks ago we had a steamy bath and I ended up chaving her completely bare which she loves and it turned her on so much we were at it like rabbits.
The onlt thing I would suggest is NOT to use mint and tea tree shaving foam as it stings abit as I have also found when doing my sack 
The onlt thing I would suggest is NOT to use mint and tea tree shaving foam as it stings abit as I have also found when doing my sack
This form of treatment is not good for your overall health. And should not be done for reasons of vanity. As this form of treatment is relatively new scientists are still not sure of the overall effect of the body not performing it's natural function of producing hair. It could be harmful.
Sorry but time does not permit me to go on so if you need more then PM me.
Continue doing what you do and maybe get someone else to help. You might get to enjoy it !! :wink: :wink:
Sorry but time does not permit me to go on so if you need more then PM me.
Continue doing what you do and maybe get someone else to help. You might get to enjoy it !!
:wink: :wink: I bought a peekaboo pole for my wife last christmas and it's a health hazard - not that when she slides up and down it all the blood rushes from my heart into my manservant but - even if you secure it well - it can come away.
I have it in our bar at home and some time ago when drunk had a go and as a result it came away and smacked one of our female freinds in the eye. Fortunately she was a good friend and remained one but it gave her a shiner and a 'coffee cup' ring scar - don't mention injury lawyers to her!!!
The other downside to it is that you can't do the manouvers on it that you would want to do.
You really need a fitted static pole with no joins.
I did adapt it and it's 'OK' now. PM me if you want to know what I did.
When you've got one I be happy to watch your girlfriend on it - just to make sure she's safe of course :wink: :wink:
I have it in our bar at home and some time ago when drunk had a go and as a result it came away and smacked one of our female freinds in the eye. Fortunately she was a good friend and remained one but it gave her a shiner and a 'coffee cup' ring scar - don't mention injury lawyers to her!!!
The other downside to it is that you can't do the manouvers on it that you would want to do.
You really need a fitted static pole with no joins.
I did adapt it and it's 'OK' now. PM me if you want to know what I did.
When you've got one I be happy to watch your girlfriend on it - just to make sure she's safe of course
:wink: :wink: I'm cut and proud of it (not that I had much of a say in the matter as I only knew about it when I was comming round - childhood op!)
Putting a twist on it I think there are some attractive and ugly - especially a fully rugged beaver - oh complete turnoff. However, a landing strip is perfectly acceptable.
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Putting a twist on it I think there are some attractive and ugly - especially a fully rugged beaver - oh complete turnoff. However, a landing strip is perfectly acceptable.
:lol: :lol: :lol: Perhaps you haven't come across the more modern man!
You forgot to mention though, having to put up with paying your ex 70% of what your worth, and continually paying for her and a new partner to enjoy a fabulous lifestyle - on an income reviewed basis, and pretending to be happy that your paying for the skimpy underwear she buys to please the new fella! - and you wonder why men often look older than our years.
Not my words but of many of my clients.
You forgot to mention though, having to put up with paying your ex 70% of what your worth, and continually paying for her and a new partner to enjoy a fabulous lifestyle - on an income reviewed basis, and pretending to be happy that your paying for the skimpy underwear she buys to please the new fella! - and you wonder why men often look older than our years.
Not my words but of many of my clients.
I think it's good. Firstly when you see that someone has viewed you it is interesting to see who it is and why they may have got in touch.
Secondly, If they havent got in touch with you after looking at your profile then surely that should tell you that they are not interested or that you are out of their area.
I think that people should respect peoples decission on this generally.
Secondly, If they havent got in touch with you after looking at your profile then surely that should tell you that they are not interested or that you are out of their area.
I think that people should respect peoples decission on this generally.
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We all used to hate the old style traffic wardens but these new bastards will their ill fitting uniforms and hitler caps want bloody shooting - along with their digital cameras. They also do you if you stubb you cig out on the floor.:x :x :x
:shock: Thats a bit strong.
louise
Wait until you get them in your area - Forgot to mention the bailiff chargeing £650 for a £30 fine on demand - when it's paid they then release the clamp on your car that they put on at 4am!!!
I think i will keep my big gob shut on this one. :gagged:
Louise xx
sorry hun, wasn't getting at you Quote by louise_and_joe
We all used to hate the old style traffic wardens but these new bastards will their ill fitting uniforms and hitler caps want bloody shooting - along with their digital cameras. They also do you if you stubb you cig out on the floor.
:shock: Thats a bit strong.
louise
Wait until you get them in your area - Forgot to mention the bailiff chargeing £650 for a £30 fine on demand - when it's paid they then release the clamp on your car that they put on at 4am!!!
I used to fantacise about that gorgeous black haired girl from Cocktail then about five years passed on and I was in an up market bar in Chicago. There were these two girls in there and us 10 blokes having a great time. One chap, who I didn't like much decided to start chatting these girls up and I thought I'd go head to head with him.
Eventually, I managed to win the goureous one over and she subsequently asked me back to her place and it was just at that point that I realised who she was, yes, your right, that gorgeous black haired girl from Cocktail.
So I did what I did, FROZE and bottled it Damn !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Therefore I fantacise about what I could have done (quite frequently) !!
Eventually, I managed to win the goureous one over and she subsequently asked me back to her place and it was just at that point that I realised who she was, yes, your right, that gorgeous black haired girl from Cocktail.
So I did what I did, FROZE and bottled it Damn !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Therefore I fantacise about what I could have done (quite frequently) !!
I was in Calafornia this summer and although I was on business each night we were out in the bars of San Diego (not quite the same gene pool as LA but still good). When I'm away I like to flirt as many of us men (and women) like to do. It's just the usual innocent stuff however with absolutely no intent of taking it further.
One night, my pals said that this girl was starring at me. I kind of knew this but was playing it cool for a minute or maybe I was in shock as she was absolutely drop dead gorgeous model material.
After a minute or so I looked over and smiled and she smilled back. Eventually I walked over to her and we started to chat. Bearing in mind it was early on in the night and neither of us were pissed the sexual tension was immediate and totally indescribable. I got an instant hard on and she was just dripping. After having talked for a 2 or 3 minutes we were ready to leave and ready to shag each other's brains out.
Unfortunately, her friend pulled her away and left the bar as she could see we were getting on very well!.
The long and short of it is that I've chatted and talked to many of the fairer sex and have never experianced anything like it before but hope to.
Am I alone or has it happened to other people?
One night, my pals said that this girl was starring at me. I kind of knew this but was playing it cool for a minute or maybe I was in shock as she was absolutely drop dead gorgeous model material.
After a minute or so I looked over and smiled and she smilled back. Eventually I walked over to her and we started to chat. Bearing in mind it was early on in the night and neither of us were pissed the sexual tension was immediate and totally indescribable. I got an instant hard on and she was just dripping. After having talked for a 2 or 3 minutes we were ready to leave and ready to shag each other's brains out.
Unfortunately, her friend pulled her away and left the bar as she could see we were getting on very well!.
The long and short of it is that I've chatted and talked to many of the fairer sex and have never experianced anything like it before but hope to.
Am I alone or has it happened to other people?
BRAVO - Love the tale.
I accept that we, at some point, would have originated elsewhere and that we are all to a degree imigrants however, what is important to remember is that we, as a country, should preserve and build on what we have and not let these bloody social worker type of people make crap decissions.
A fine example of this was last week, in the Northwest of England there were reports on the BBC about a family who had originated from Asia are due to be deported after seeking asylum in the UK for the past 4 years. In that time they have learned the English lanuage, the both work and do charity work, they have converted to chistianity and have a great circle of friends. Why oh why should they be depoorted???
They have done far more than many people who enter our country and who are natives. If all asylum seekers made such an effort (which should be compulsay) then our green and pleasant land would be a much happier one and the dole dossers might think twice and actually get off their arses and contribute to society.
I accept that we, at some point, would have originated elsewhere and that we are all to a degree imigrants however, what is important to remember is that we, as a country, should preserve and build on what we have and not let these bloody social worker type of people make crap decissions.
A fine example of this was last week, in the Northwest of England there were reports on the BBC about a family who had originated from Asia are due to be deported after seeking asylum in the UK for the past 4 years. In that time they have learned the English lanuage, the both work and do charity work, they have converted to chistianity and have a great circle of friends. Why oh why should they be depoorted???
They have done far more than many people who enter our country and who are natives. If all asylum seekers made such an effort (which should be compulsay) then our green and pleasant land would be a much happier one and the dole dossers might think twice and actually get off their arses and contribute to society.
