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Shy_1st_timers
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 44
Straight Male, 55
0 miles · Gwynedd

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Wales isnt included on that site because the valuations and bands were re-assessed in 2002 or 2003 I think, gave council the change to put massive council tax rises into place
redface can you tell we are new to this!!
I have worked in hotels for years, and as the rates have been per person, only the people on the check-in card are allowed in the room, (though not massively strict, if a family member wants to pop to say hello thats fine)
or, if two rooms are booked and all four guests sleep in just one room, thats fine too.
what i meant was if we booked a room and invited someone in so there would be 4 adults in the room, is nobody bothered?
Never told anyone before, but
"stop crying your heart out" by Oasis,
It came on the radio just as i got in the car to go tell my sister that our mum had just died :cry: I dont generally like oasis but this song gets me.
Hurt- Johnny Cash brings a lump to the throat just hearing it, the video makes me cry!
Has anyone had a problem takin "guests" into a travel inn?
If we book one room and turn up as 2 couples, or if another couple turn up to "visit" for a few hours obviously they will be suspiscious!!
outdoors is getting too cold!!
the aa/rac have a coded bible of how to break into every common car on the road today, they give the patrol man all the info he needs to get in.
why on earth not have homestart cover?
Not on this site, but on another site I saw my college tutor a couple years back, luckily just a face pic though!
I told my sister but thats it, i would never want to embarrass the guy. (he was single so doing nobody no harm)
Its so so tempting to search for people on your doorstep!!
Errm I would probably ring the Police but on their non-emergency number not 999. Here there is a 0845 number that covers a 20 mile patch.
I called them a few days ago because the alarms were going off in a shop (burglar ones) I went to look, no sign of break in so called the non-emergency line.
I called 999 when they went off in the shop below me, then again, the "signs of a break in" were a bit obvious as i could see them trying to kick the door in!
I was driving down my street (passing through not going home) and i could hear alarms, thought nothing of it, about 20 minutes later i get home, alarms still going, they're mine!
My smoke alarms are audiable for at least 5/6 doors either side, yet no-one came to investigate!
redface Turns out that I had set the tumble drier on a timer but forgot to put the hose out the window!! surprisedops: :oops: :oops: no harm done, but if I had have left my oven/iron/toaster on then my home would be destroyed before anyone bothered to do anythin!
Quote by RedHot
so how are we supposed to find people?

The same way people used to find each other in the heady days before the internet - go out and park up somewhere - it's a novel idea but it works every time for us :P
TJ
ok we just pick the wrong spots then! though not many people out after dark here :-(
so how are we supposed to find people? (riddles were never my strong point)
Although hubby and I have had some great nights (and days!) in car parks, country lanes etc its only ever been the two of us.
seems the only info on here is "somewhere along the m6" etc :-(
My partner's mother's first cousin, is married to my mothers sister... and thats close enough!!
I couldnt imagine being in a relationship with my cousin but then again we are a close family so I see them more as siblings
I don't know what I am!!
I change my profile from medium to large dependent on what mood i am in! my waist varies wildly from 14-16 (18 in some cheap stuff!!) and my top half is 16-20.. nightmare to buy a suit! rolleyes
I have a really unflattering photo... plan to change them next week!!
I am afraid this is "one of those sites" far mor single guy's than couples and you have to work hard to get chosen... But welcome anyway!!
plenty of males, a few couple, not spotted a single female yet!
I am sorry if we havent replied to everyone yet!
My hubby is totally straight, and so doesnt want another man, I am straight/curious, but dont want sex with another man.. I know I know I am too fussy!
So i guess we are looking for a couple that want another man for mmf or a couple who want a man to have sex with the wife while hubby watched or something!!
I like the idea of being watched, and i guess if our car doors are locked then no harm in it just being a single bloke watching, but i get easily scared and so find the idea of 10 guys that I dont know waching very intimidating especially since there are many reports of "swinger bashings" and car vandalismon here
how many premium members though?? a good chunk of them may just have registered to try see their neighbours naked then never logged in again!!
Quote by westcumbria
Whats wrong with people from Sellafield

HAHAHA errm where do we start!
jokes aside, I assume he was joking about the sellafield bit? no harm can come from swinging with radioactive peeps surely?
Hello :-)
I do believe we are genuine...
but yes there seems to be a shortage of straight people in cumbria!
if its provocative outfits you want how about Pabo?
probably
got a free catalogue from them the other week, not bough anything though
cant find anything near to us, due to work commitments, we can only meet like minded people between 10am and 2pm, and need to be near to cumbria as possible.
we are a couple and are happy just to watch or have fun alongside you withouth swinging. Female not into full swap but male is easily persuaded!! (straight)
are we searching for the impossible
i am way too shy too! hubby scrubs up quite well! but I am very shy and insecure :-(
has anyone here refused to swing with someone because they or their partner were ugly?
I worked in a hotel a few years back and my colleague took a bottle of bubbly up to a room as requested, she knocked, no answer so she opened the door to find a gangbang in full swing! Glad it wasnt me who saw it, I'd have died on the spot!
As long as you arent upsetting other guests it shouldnt be a problem.
Hello,
We currently work like slaves so only have wednesday daytime together, so that is the only time we could meet anyone (hence we havent met anyone yet)
Everyone who is interested wants dinner parties, or nights out, which we cant do, so dogging seems to be the best idea but daytime dogging comes with high risk of being caught.
I find it hard enough to strike up a conversation in a club, but in a carpark, woodland etc etc it would be a million times harder!
What did you do on your first meet? easy/disaster etc etc
H+M
p.s looking for couple or single lady thanks!
really simple question, i dont have a cam so dont know, but if i watch someon can they see my name?