Last night was my first time on the chat since the site was done up. At one point a group of us (4 or 5) were chatting happily when a lady decided the room was too quiet. She went on cam and started stripping. Within about 2 minutes there were 70+ people in the room with about 6 blokes wanking on cam (not really my cup of tea). The majority were demanding she did stuff, and she in return demanded all the men do stuff too... (which bizarrely they did).
The point of my post? - well whilst it annoyed me that she destroyed our quiet place to chat, my only experience of camming was lots of vulgur men wanking but being urged on by the woman cammer. She seemed as bad as them
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SpecialRic
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 40
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Well in my opinion it really depends on what type of person you are.
Im only 21 and thus i am not exactly looking to settle down. However i was with a certain girl for 5 years until recently and so know both sides of the coin. When i was with Claire i was happy simply because i knew i had some one there when times were hard or when i wanted to be with some one. The confidence and support given by Claire i believe has enabled me and given me the strength to develop into the person i am today. There is also nothing better than looking into some ones eyes and knowing beyond any doubt that this person wants to be with you.
However saying that, all good things come to an end. Now i am single (for reasons which are too long for this thread) and i am loving every minute of it. I am able to do what i want when i want. I no longer feel as if i should be with her when ever i can nor do i feel guilty when i get attention from the opposite sex when out for the night with friends. It is also quite fun to know that if a pretty blonde makes eyes at you you can now make eyes back!
Has any one noticed though that the opposite sex (women in my case) only seem to be attracted to you when you are attached, and dont look twice when you are not?
Im only 21 and thus i am not exactly looking to settle down. However i was with a certain girl for 5 years until recently and so know both sides of the coin. When i was with Claire i was happy simply because i knew i had some one there when times were hard or when i wanted to be with some one. The confidence and support given by Claire i believe has enabled me and given me the strength to develop into the person i am today. There is also nothing better than looking into some ones eyes and knowing beyond any doubt that this person wants to be with you.
However saying that, all good things come to an end. Now i am single (for reasons which are too long for this thread) and i am loving every minute of it. I am able to do what i want when i want. I no longer feel as if i should be with her when ever i can nor do i feel guilty when i get attention from the opposite sex when out for the night with friends. It is also quite fun to know that if a pretty blonde makes eyes at you you can now make eyes back!
Has any one noticed though that the opposite sex (women in my case) only seem to be attracted to you when you are attached, and dont look twice when you are not?
I have done over 2000+ transactions on ebay and have had many issues like this....
The major problem is that whilst the buyer may be an idiot, they can still damage your ebay reputation with negatives
The answer is simple:
If the person wants the present, they must contact their bank to stop the cheque, (hsbc charge £7 unless you say you have lost the cheque) and then they should pay you by Paypal. At this late period in the day, i would demand that they pay extra for next day delivery.
A little bit of advice with regards to Paypal people: Any one can get a charge back by complaining to their credit card holder within 6 months or 60 days via paypal themselves. If such a complaint is made paypal will withdraw the funds from your account pending review. You then as the seller must prove the item was received(not posted - must be able to show it got there). If you cant show it has arrived within 3 days you lose your money (and often the item) for good
The major problem is that whilst the buyer may be an idiot, they can still damage your ebay reputation with negatives
The answer is simple:
If the person wants the present, they must contact their bank to stop the cheque, (hsbc charge £7 unless you say you have lost the cheque) and then they should pay you by Paypal. At this late period in the day, i would demand that they pay extra for next day delivery.
A little bit of advice with regards to Paypal people: Any one can get a charge back by complaining to their credit card holder within 6 months or 60 days via paypal themselves. If such a complaint is made paypal will withdraw the funds from your account pending review. You then as the seller must prove the item was received(not posted - must be able to show it got there). If you cant show it has arrived within 3 days you lose your money (and often the item) for good
If i were you in this situation i would just take things as they come. If you do not want it to adversely effect your friendship, keep it quiet and let him work it out in his own time. This way he would have no preconceptions upon arrival and if things happen because you want them to, then he will learn that as it happens....
Well i know this is an incredibly long shot, especially since i am fairly new, but:
i was wondering if there would be any ladies in or around Leeds wanting to meet up this Thursday (9th) for a night of fun? I would prefer single ladies rather than couples (i can but try)
You can contact me on site or see some pics under marbleapple on aff.
I would have put an advert in the photo ads but im still waiting on my activation email.... still :-)
i was wondering if there would be any ladies in or around Leeds wanting to meet up this Thursday (9th) for a night of fun? I would prefer single ladies rather than couples (i can but try)
You can contact me on site or see some pics under marbleapple on aff.
I would have put an advert in the photo ads but im still waiting on my activation email.... still :-)
Sorry i was under the impression that what Bush said happened? As for Blair, he seems more popular than many Pms....
Churchill was spurrned and cast away many times before he became PM in Britains time of need. He has since been remembers as a war leader.... I believe that Blair might end up the same way.
Churchill was spurrned and cast away many times before he became PM in Britains time of need. He has since been remembers as a war leader.... I believe that Blair might end up the same way.
Its the same old problem really with Aff..... There are real people looking for other real people and then there are people who exploit or take advantage of the situation....
I personally do not want to have large group sessions (to begin with) but it seems this is the only way to test the water since the real opportunities are getting harder and harder to find... (especially just women on their own)
I personally do not want to have large group sessions (to begin with) but it seems this is the only way to test the water since the real opportunities are getting harder and harder to find... (especially just women on their own)
My fear is that with a change of president will come a change of policy with regards to Iraq.
Without trying to upset my American friends too much..... It always seems that the Americans start with good intentions and end up making the situation worse. Korea, Palestine, 1st Gulf war etc.... I hope it isn't a matter of if Kerry gets in, he listens to the left wing and pulls as many resources out of Iraq, leaving it a mess for years to come. I don't think that would be fair to those who dies fighting or those who want a new democratic Iraq.
Any on another point, The people who slate Bush and Blair should also consider the political ramifications for the decisions the 2 leaders made. In most of British politics taking such an unpopular step in declaring war is almost verging on the policital suicide as they know that they will make a lot of enamies. I see no positive reason for Tony Blair to go to war other than he believing it is the right thing for him to do. It is nice to see there are still people in this world who act on what they think is right, rather than what is best for them personally.
Saying that though i won't be voting for blair in the next elections due to other stupid policies
Apologies for my poor spelling
Without trying to upset my American friends too much..... It always seems that the Americans start with good intentions and end up making the situation worse. Korea, Palestine, 1st Gulf war etc.... I hope it isn't a matter of if Kerry gets in, he listens to the left wing and pulls as many resources out of Iraq, leaving it a mess for years to come. I don't think that would be fair to those who dies fighting or those who want a new democratic Iraq.
Any on another point, The people who slate Bush and Blair should also consider the political ramifications for the decisions the 2 leaders made. In most of British politics taking such an unpopular step in declaring war is almost verging on the policital suicide as they know that they will make a lot of enamies. I see no positive reason for Tony Blair to go to war other than he believing it is the right thing for him to do. It is nice to see there are still people in this world who act on what they think is right, rather than what is best for them personally.
Saying that though i won't be voting for blair in the next elections due to other stupid policies
Apologies for my poor spelling
I have spent a small fortune on AFF (silver member) and have never met up with any one. Any one i got chatting to either suddenly became male :shock: or were only on the site to make friends and chat 
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Yesterday i had a plain member (couple) email me saying that if i replied within 10 minutes i could meet them and get it on.... I found it rather strange but emailed back and sent my pics. What made me laugh though was that they refused to provide one picture (even though i sent them mine) and accussed me of being a picture collector when i asked for one.... I don't know what people think, but there would be no chance of me turning up without a picture.... god knows what i might find :shock:
I have kind of given up on that site now, and hope to find some *real people* here!
: Yesterday i had a plain member (couple) email me saying that if i replied within 10 minutes i could meet them and get it on.... I found it rather strange but emailed back and sent my pics. What made me laugh though was that they refused to provide one picture (even though i sent them mine) and accussed me of being a picture collector when i asked for one.... I don't know what people think, but there would be no chance of me turning up without a picture.... god knows what i might find :shock:
I have kind of given up on that site now, and hope to find some *real people* here!
Hey all.....
Looks like another exciting night for me.... Work on my desk and no decent reason to avoid it except for this forum....
I know the people from this cafe come from all over the UK so i just wondered how many hail from my fair city or even (dare i say it) Bradford? :shock:
For all those who don't live near me (or are wondering why on earth i have posted a boring thread) please don't feel left out... tell us where you hail from
Looks like another exciting night for me.... Work on my desk and no decent reason to avoid it except for this forum....
I know the people from this cafe come from all over the UK so i just wondered how many hail from my fair city or even (dare i say it) Bradford? :shock:
For all those who don't live near me (or are wondering why on earth i have posted a boring thread) please don't feel left out... tell us where you hail from
Thanks for all the nice replies guys... :P
All i have to do now is find this person called 'fun' that you all seem to be talking about...
Does any one have any suggestions about what i should do next? (apart from lingering in the forums at ungodly hours
)
I would put a photo ad up, but to be honest i am not even sure what or who (or even if) i am looking for some one
All i have to do now is find this person called 'fun' that you all seem to be talking about...
Does any one have any suggestions about what i should do next? (apart from lingering in the forums at ungodly hours
)I would put a photo ad up, but to be honest i am not even sure what or who (or even if) i am looking for some one
