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Quote by secretmaccamslag
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There you go, getting wound up again.
Singles are always in demand, the problem is the amount of people who're either fake, or really shy/having second thoughts. The shyness thing we can handle. It's frustrating, but a lot of people just have second thoughts. It's a big step to go from "normal" to swinging. It shouldn't be, but that's society for you.
We're all deviants here, and it really shouldn't *be* like that. Plenty of people have multiple sexual partners before they're in a relationship, but once you're there you're meant to stop? That's just daft.
Plenty of people that are in relationships don't feel good enough about themselves to go through with it. The fantasy is great, and posting messages here is their way of dipping their toe in the water, but the reality is scary. Too many doubts. Maybe one day they'll pick up the courage to actually go through with it, but until then...
A lot of the time people just don't like the sound of the other party when a few emails have gone back and forth. Fair enough. Perhaps once they see some pics they don't fancy us quite as much as they did before. That's to be expected.
We go off the idea of using this site all the time. We get sick of the timewasters and fakers and illiterate men. We get sick of pic collectors. Pics of us in the scud are out there on the net. Anyone who's honest and asks, we'll tell. They don't HAVE to pretend to be guys. *sigh*
We remain hopeful though. Hopeful and horny.
I'd have thought a single girl would've been VERY in demand, though. Having said that, you're going to be more of a target for timewasters, fakes and pic collectors. Kinda goes with the territory.
It completely depends on the person, yes.
We've had cybersex before several times, and with other people, and it can either be great fun, or you sit there feeling stupid.
i (g) used to hate phone sex before i met R. Always felt a bit silly. Love it now.
Everyone should give it a shot. Get into some chatrooms and get nice and filthy. It's all about the imagination when all you've got is text to describe what's going on.
We've had cybersex before several times, and with other people, and it can either be great fun, or you sit there feeling stupid.
i (g) used to hate phone sex before i met R. Always felt a bit silly. Love it now.
Everyone should give it a shot. Get into some chatrooms and get nice and filthy. It's all about the imagination when all you've got is text to describe what's going on.
In the past, we've had ads with our email address on it, in case there were any people afraid to sign up for the site for whatever reason.
We got a LOT of fakes and advertising for other sites.
We were advertising in women seeking women and couples seeking women.
Most of the replies were from guys who didn't have the decency to respect our wishes, and contacted us even though we'd quite clearly said no guys. EASILY 40%.
We had quite a lot of guys pretending to be girls. They're usually easy to spot. Most of them are so stupid they just rip the sample images off porn sites, and don't even bother to crop the site name, and pretend it's them.
There's the ones who take pics off faceparty or whatever, and it's obviously harder to tell with those ones, but once you fire an email or two back and forward, you can usually tell.
We haven't had THAT many advertising wenbsites, or phone chat nonsense, but fair play to them (and no offense to those who DID fall for it), if you're daft enough to go for something like that, maybe getting fleeced once will make you wise up.
The few replies we've had from actual real women (shock!) have on the whole been very positive. Some have been great, and were exactly what we're looking for (if on the other side of the country), and some have been less so, but we've had a good bit of banter back and forwards, or some pic swapping, or webcam shenanigans.
Up until now, though, we've not met anyone in person. We're being very fussy, but then, i'd expect others to do the same. We don't want to meet people who want to meet us because we've got the right bits and bobs, we want to meet with people where there's a real mutual attraction. So we're still waiting. There's no hurry though, and i guess that's where a lot of people stumble.
They just expect this site, and others like it, to be a road to an easy lay. Just because we're (mostly) here looking specifically for sex doesn't mean we're any less selective about it.
YES, most of the people who'll reply to your ads are fakers, or whatever. YES, 90% of the ads on here will be fakers, but use some common sense, and you'll be fine.
We got a LOT of fakes and advertising for other sites.
We were advertising in women seeking women and couples seeking women.
Most of the replies were from guys who didn't have the decency to respect our wishes, and contacted us even though we'd quite clearly said no guys. EASILY 40%.
We had quite a lot of guys pretending to be girls. They're usually easy to spot. Most of them are so stupid they just rip the sample images off porn sites, and don't even bother to crop the site name, and pretend it's them.
There's the ones who take pics off faceparty or whatever, and it's obviously harder to tell with those ones, but once you fire an email or two back and forward, you can usually tell.
We haven't had THAT many advertising wenbsites, or phone chat nonsense, but fair play to them (and no offense to those who DID fall for it), if you're daft enough to go for something like that, maybe getting fleeced once will make you wise up.
The few replies we've had from actual real women (shock!) have on the whole been very positive. Some have been great, and were exactly what we're looking for (if on the other side of the country), and some have been less so, but we've had a good bit of banter back and forwards, or some pic swapping, or webcam shenanigans.
Up until now, though, we've not met anyone in person. We're being very fussy, but then, i'd expect others to do the same. We don't want to meet people who want to meet us because we've got the right bits and bobs, we want to meet with people where there's a real mutual attraction. So we're still waiting. There's no hurry though, and i guess that's where a lot of people stumble.
They just expect this site, and others like it, to be a road to an easy lay. Just because we're (mostly) here looking specifically for sex doesn't mean we're any less selective about it.
YES, most of the people who'll reply to your ads are fakers, or whatever. YES, 90% of the ads on here will be fakers, but use some common sense, and you'll be fine.
Half the photo ads are fakes. 90% of the replies women get are fakes or timewasters.
It can be disheartening at times (began to wonder if we were the only real people there, hehe) but if you've got a brain in your head you can avoid the fakes. Anything that requires money's a definite no-no.
I'm sure that if you asked here before parting with any cash we'd be able to tell you if it's a scam or not.
It can be disheartening at times (began to wonder if we were the only real people there, hehe) but if you've got a brain in your head you can avoid the fakes. Anything that requires money's a definite no-no.
I'm sure that if you asked here before parting with any cash we'd be able to tell you if it's a scam or not.
Quote by Sgt Bilko
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I think we will give them a miss. I don't fancy 100 000 Christians invading SH looking for revenge!!!:? :? :? :?
I'll get the lions out of storage...
I got my ip banned from that site too, and i didn't even register. Perhaps the idiots have banned NTL's invisible proxy...
have you taken this up with the individual(s) you arranged to meet? Either way, it seems kinda pointless posting here.
There are a lot of fakers replying to ads, and no doubt a fair few registered on the forum. That's the nature of the internet. If you're going arranging meets without making sure they are who they say they are, i've no pity for you.
If you've been able to ascertain that they're at least who they say they are, i'm sure they probably didn't mean to stand you up. Either way, take it up with them, posting here's silly.
There are a lot of fakers replying to ads, and no doubt a fair few registered on the forum. That's the nature of the internet. If you're going arranging meets without making sure they are who they say they are, i've no pity for you.
If you've been able to ascertain that they're at least who they say they are, i'm sure they probably didn't mean to stand you up. Either way, take it up with them, posting here's silly.
Quote by andy_notts1974
i ws thinking about not cuming too soon and givin a girl a bigger cock than my 7" thats all, i really love to giv women great orasums
Eat her out. Use toys on her. Dp her with toys. You're getting too close to shooting your load? Slow down. Change to something else if you have to. Just endlessly bouncing up and down on her won't necessarily make her squeal with delight. I feel like i'm patronising you here, but if you're having to ask this here, there's something wrong with you that a strap-on won't fix. Or you're trolling.
I worry about some of the people we get on here. my girlfriend and i are by no means regulars, but i despair sometimes.
Have you tried, you know, talking to her about this? Would she LIKE to be fucked with whatever implement you're thinking of? Does she like what you're doing at the moment? Can she offer any advice or suggestions? Is it nerves or are you just getting too excited? Sometimes a quickie can be great, at other times it's fun for you both to have several (or many) orgasms, but either way, talk to her and see what she thinks of your scheme.
In fact, having read your post, is there a "her" in this, or is this just a hypothetical question? If there's no her, then i'd concentrate on getting a her. I would love to be the fly on the wall when you pull, and bring a girl home then start getting your contraptions out of the box under the bed.
Yeah, we've had very little sensible/serious replies from our ad, it's pretty discouraging. We've been looking for a while too. They're either miles away, not our types (although we've not been particularly fussy) or guys pretending.
All i can assume is that as mentioned above, there are far less of us young'uns interested in swinging. It's understandable, i guess, because the whole swinging thing has a bad stigma, but still you'd think there'd be more of us.
All i can assume is that as mentioned above, there are far less of us young'uns interested in swinging. It's understandable, i guess, because the whole swinging thing has a bad stigma, but still you'd think there'd be more of us.
