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m1970
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Male, 54
0 miles · Swansea
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Why would your mother just walk in?
my mother and mother in law both have keys and always knock or ring the bell, not that i have anything to hide, thats the way we were brought up, we all respect each other, i would never walk in there houses either. TBH if my mother or mother in law just walked in I wouldn't be to happy.
my mother and mother in law both have keys and always knock or ring the bell, not that i have anything to hide, thats the way we were brought up, we all respect each other, i would never walk in there houses either. TBH if my mother or mother in law just walked in I wouldn't be to happy.
If you are not enjoying eating the stuff, then stop 
Perhaps have it once a week or so, there are plenty of other foods out there, salads and stuff.
Your aim is to minimise poor foods and maximise good foods, you also need to enjoy what you eat.
Stay away from chocolate and sugary creamy stuff.
Perhaps have it once a week or so, there are plenty of other foods out there, salads and stuff.
Your aim is to minimise poor foods and maximise good foods, you also need to enjoy what you eat.
Stay away from chocolate and sugary creamy stuff.
Glad you enjoyed being content, even though it was only for a short while, My son playing football last year and he got to 7 finals in 8 tournaments made me smile, it was nice to see a group of boys all of whom have different abilities gel together and become a team who worked for each other, it was great to watch all the smiles.
Unfortunatley this day and age is filled with stress, anxiety and depresseion through having both partners to work etc.
Unfortunatley this day and age is filled with stress, anxiety and depresseion through having both partners to work etc.
Im not having a pop at prostitutes, they do a job, I was hoping to meet someone on here in the same situation as myself, you cant be a friend to a prostitute, you can another person who understands and are in the same situation as myself.
TBH its getting frustrating, nothing I can do :cry:
TBH its getting frustrating, nothing I can do :cry:
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36 you are a brave guy posting on here, well done you, that says a lot to me that you can articulate your feelings which is a good thing.
I really (I mean really) feel for you, we have a very close friend in a similar situation. He loves his wife and will stay with her as leaving his kids is not an option, but has resigned himself to not ever having his sexual needs met as he won't go outside his marriage for sex. His wife a very good friend of mine, but she has a deep seated feeling that sex is dirty and not to be discussed, let alone practiced. I have tried talking to her, but she blocks it, I have invited her to Ann Summers parties, tame for me but far too scary for her (she declined btw). We try to joke about sexual practices but to no avail. I've tried for his sake to help without interfering, but her attitude to sex is the basis of the problem. The communication isn't there.
So I do understand that advice of candles, romance, improving your sex life etc are very well meaning but I suspect you are dealing with something much bigger here. I do wish you luck. Keep talking as much as possible and give her time. In my circle of friends this is not too uncommon sadly, please remember she may need time to digest what you are asking of her.
pink x
My wife is the same, sex doesnt intrest her one bit, sex is filth, porn films are filth, give her fags, tv and money and she is happy. I love her to bits but I feel she is taking the piss when it comes to the sex side of things, no point trying as I just get knowhere. Hence why I am on here, just looking for some unattached fun. Wish it could be different, but it cant.
Know where you are coming from, my wife hates sex, and its putting a strain on our relationship. Im the opposite, I love sex, you need physical attraction too. Im playing with fire. I did think of prostitutes but just cannot bring myself down to there level, swinging seems my best option.
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Genius reply Polo....
Remember though, it may not just be the married bit that puts them off but the fact that you could *possibly* come across as someone who thinks that joining a site like this guarantees you a 'right' to get laid.....
It's not an escort agency, its a swinging site and as such we all reserve the right to be picky
getting involved like this and not just expecting sex the moment you get on here may help your cause
i am hoping to get laid, old age will get to me first though :cry:
i am confused though, i thought people advertised on here to get laid.
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Why don't women reply?
Ignore all the nicey-nicey bollox about numbers, being patient, blar blar blar. There is only one answer and the truth of the matter is staring you in the face...
The ones you sent messages to didn't want to shag you!
yes your right, although i havent contacted many as the married part puts them off, plus members havent been online for numbers of weeks.
I might change my ad to single
, just kidding 