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Hiya Jaine
I've just noticed your latest post about music threads. I can't help thinking that you are a conspiracy theorist in your part time!
But really, your point is obvious, it has been over the last few posts you've been making. I suppose the only reason I'm writing a PM to you is to ask why? I am not criticising you, I am NOT part of some big conspiracy (although I would say that wouldn't I ), no, I just genuinely want to understand your grievance and thoughts in general with the forum.
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I had no grievance with the forum I was merely asking why it happens on some occasions & others does not ?? Whatever happend to freedom of speech? Can someone not question something without SH thinking you are attacking them? We cannot all be like little lambs following each other & bleating the same tune...How dull would that make us. You are a very close knit community on here & I admire that but at the same time PM's cannot be sent every time someone says something slightly controversial & yet when a slightly more "IN" member posts a view about how SH is changing or they are leaving due to it changing etc etc everyone rallies round.
Anyway as I replied to the above PM I am outta here. Thanks to the few who have kept in touch, I kinda knew who would anyway. xxxx
Moist aka Jaine
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Had to pop back to say how queer that this must be about the 3rd time that someone has posted fav music & nobody has stated "this has been done before, please read previous posts" yet on previous occasions this was stated nearly straight away...i.e fav films etc...
Hope your all fine & dandy...
Jaine :twisted:
Radiohead
Interpol
Mars Volta
Pixies
Joy division
etc etc etc
Hope your all fine & dandy...
Jaine :twisted:
Radiohead
Interpol
Mars Volta
Pixies
Joy division
etc etc etc
Alex,
I too left the other week but did not say goodbye as had not really been on here long enough & just wanted to fade out...my reasons were somewhat like yours & I will stop it there.
To the people that gave a toss who have kept in touch via PM's please do not think I am ignoring you, just had to find my life again off of a computer so have done exactly that.
Alex can you PM me so I can get your e-mail address please....
Jaine
I too left the other week but did not say goodbye as had not really been on here long enough & just wanted to fade out...my reasons were somewhat like yours & I will stop it there.
To the people that gave a toss who have kept in touch via PM's please do not think I am ignoring you, just had to find my life again off of a computer so have done exactly that.
Alex can you PM me so I can get your e-mail address please....
Jaine
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It is VERY OBVIOUS that those who are supportive of the work here have posted replies and those who are the cause of the upheaval, alienation and disruption are nowhere in sight!
Some people may not want to get involved in it all & may be taking a back seat until it all blows over...
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Anyway as I previously posted in Sarges thread I will not repeat it all here although I will say I keep reading that word 'newbies' over & over ...makes me a bit paranoid...(aint hard). Also some saying about the quality of threads ie; repeats etc or silly one liners..well a lot of those are mine so I think maybe I should stop posting & just answer ones that interest me...
I have never slagged a MOD off in any way...I think they are cracking & esp in the chatroom when I nearly had a nervous breakdown just trying to change my nick... :?
Sometimes people can be harsh/critical/over zealous etc but whether they are a mod or not makes no difference to me....I will still say what I think to them..isn't that the freedom of speech & if said in the right manner should not cause offence..
I think some of this has been taken far too seriously & has already gone a bit too far with two posts dedicated to basically the same thing..we all respect the people who do a good job & fully realise without them there would be no SH so can you all get back to whatever it was you were doing in the first place :!:
As for me....I aint a swinger or even in a relationship so maybe this is not the place for just posting silly threads & enjoying the occasional PM's...
I need to think.... as after doing a 10hr shift in the job I do this is not the time or place to make a decision like that !!
Jaine
It is VERY OBVIOUS that those who are supportive of the work here have posted replies and those who are the cause of the upheaval, alienation and disruption are nowhere in sight!
Some people may not want to get involved in it all & may be taking a back seat until it all blows over...
: Anyway as I previously posted in Sarges thread I will not repeat it all here although I will say I keep reading that word 'newbies' over & over ...makes me a bit paranoid...(aint hard). Also some saying about the quality of threads ie; repeats etc or silly one liners..well a lot of those are mine so I think maybe I should stop posting & just answer ones that interest me...
I have never slagged a MOD off in any way...I think they are cracking & esp in the chatroom when I nearly had a nervous breakdown just trying to change my nick... :?
Sometimes people can be harsh/critical/over zealous etc but whether they are a mod or not makes no difference to me....I will still say what I think to them..isn't that the freedom of speech & if said in the right manner should not cause offence..
I think some of this has been taken far too seriously & has already gone a bit too far with two posts dedicated to basically the same thing..we all respect the people who do a good job & fully realise without them there would be no SH so can you all get back to whatever it was you were doing in the first place :!:
As for me....I aint a swinger or even in a relationship so maybe this is not the place for just posting silly threads & enjoying the occasional PM's...
I need to think.... as after doing a 10hr shift in the job I do this is not the time or place to make a decision like that !!
Jaine
:twisted:Quote by Dawn_Mids
Moist go to the members list, up the top of this page, just along from your PMs.
Select Sort Method as: Total posts, Order: Descending, click on sort!
You will find you are number 29 in the rankings at the moment
Dawn :silly:
Oooh thanks....I really do need to step up a gear in finding a man....Jesus...worrying statistic & I only been here a while.
As a newbie I felt so welcomed when I first joined & felt immediately at home..had PM's & mails coming out of my ears....(still do) but noticed after a couple of weeks that indeed there were people who were maybe threatened by a single women with an attitude & something to say for herself?? Could be totally paranoid here but I think not as I have noticed it throughout the forum...(and yes I did read all the previous pages) !!
We are all individuals & have different beliefs/thoughts/loves/hates & surely a forum is where you can voice such things..maybe not so aggressively as I have seen & I must admit I am the first one with my hackles up if someone pisses me off but again that is how I am & unfortunately cannot change that. If I feel I am under a personal attack from someone then I will ask outright if they have a problem..(unless I think they are not worth my time or effort).
I was recently going to leave the forum as I thought the sniping was getting out of hand & there is definately a clique but TOUGH....after the encouragement of quite a few people on here I am going nowhere....(well till I win the lottery then fuck the lot of you) :twisted: :lol:
There is a lovely group of people here & thank god it is the majority...
Jaine
We are all individuals & have different beliefs/thoughts/loves/hates & surely a forum is where you can voice such things..maybe not so aggressively as I have seen & I must admit I am the first one with my hackles up if someone pisses me off but again that is how I am & unfortunately cannot change that. If I feel I am under a personal attack from someone then I will ask outright if they have a problem..(unless I think they are not worth my time or effort).
I was recently going to leave the forum as I thought the sniping was getting out of hand & there is definately a clique but TOUGH....after the encouragement of quite a few people on here I am going nowhere....(well till I win the lottery then fuck the lot of you)
:twisted: :lol: There is a lovely group of people here & thank god it is the majority...
Jaine
Quote by SiGo1
I'd like a bottle of something to get rid of my temper
It would be lovely if a could go for a drive without calling somebody an arsehole, t**t, c**t
or other such enlightening words
We just gotta go out for a drive together I have a total personality split when I am behind the wheel of my car....It is in fact the only place I am confident & truly happy...tearing along swearing at everyone like it is National Tourettes Day....Superb :twisted:
SiGo said *****
Anyway I feel very ill after that and I need a nurse - any volunteers
I say ****
Me Me ..
I remember driving down the North Circular once in Edmonton when all of a sudden my seat went to one side....looked down at 60mph to see the road beneath me & the chair leg hanging out the bottom....Oh dear....floorpan needed a slight weld
Another time I picked up a new boyfriend for our first date, went to a pub, all going swimmingly ..on way to his house took a bend at about 60 spun, hit a concrete bollard, took out a tyre, spun to other side, hit another bollard & finally came to a standstill up the kerb with two punchtures!!! Did not see him again funnily enough
Oh well.....
Jaine xx
Anyway I feel very ill after that and I need a nurse - any volunteers
I say ****
Me Me ..
I remember driving down the North Circular once in Edmonton when all of a sudden my seat went to one side....looked down at 60mph to see the road beneath me & the chair leg hanging out the bottom....Oh dear....floorpan needed a slight weld
Another time I picked up a new boyfriend for our first date, went to a pub, all going swimmingly ..on way to his house took a bend at about 60 spun, hit a concrete bollard, took out a tyre, spun to other side, hit another bollard & finally came to a standstill up the kerb with two punchtures!!! Did not see him again funnily enough
Oh well.....
Jaine xx
Quote by Heather
But what about the effect on your hips? I can barely walk most mornings.
Jayne... why do you have a car firm as your website?
Surely you can find some willing photographer to take some naughty pics of you? If, not, I'LL find one! :twisted:
Hxx
Because my car is featured on it ....
I remember the 30th birthday party at Silverstone for the Mini which was superb as we all lined up around the track & there was some ridiculous amount of Minis from every country...I know it broke the record for the largest gathering of one make of car...had a terrific day & at the end we were all allowed to do a lap of the track...took hours as there was about 30,000 cars I think...In the end they let us use the fuelling tanks to fill up as so many people were running out !!
Jaine xxx
Jaine xxx
