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Nicekat
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 60
Straight Male, 60
0 miles · County Durham

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Quote by Jaq-kryps
It's not just chocolate that makes us fat, it's the amount we eat, and not only choc but what about the cakes, pastries, biscuits,alchohol etc. Also lack of exercise a major factor. As a country we get tax'd i don't get is the low fat alternatives are always more expensive, an example i buy low fat greek natural yoghurt, the full fat is more expensive and mascapone cheese the light version is more expensive than the full fat , maybe the goverment should step in and say look we have choices but don't expoilt the healthier versions xx

I agree with all of what you have said but also exercise should be made cheaper and easy to gain access to.
exercie is cheap and easy to access, it's called going out jogging, won't do ya any good but o hey lol
I dont feel its safe as a woman to go out joging by myself and it is not cheap to go to the gym. Although I do feel that exercise is important and I attend 4 to 5 times a week. My friend has to travel on a bus to get to her local gym.
Quote by janemcc
I just don't get it. dunno
A man would raise his hands to me once and only once. It would be the last thing they did. There are no second chances, there are no excuses.
I don't understand women who stay. Whilst I appreciate there are perhaps financial/security issues given as reasons to stay I don't get it. Why would you stay with a man who beats you? Same goes for men who stay with abusive women.
Love would certainly have to be blind but I suspect stupid to be more accurate. I'm sure someone will be along to berate me for my opinion but seriously... pull yourself together, have some respect for yourself and leave. There are options and they're far better than staying for a beating. Zero tolerance should be right across the board, inlcuding the women who put up with it.
Black and white possibly but in my world it really is that simple.

Its one of those situations where you really cant judge until you've been there.
Yes I would go with what you are saying as a woman can say what they would do in a situation but if it happens to them they may react in a totaly different way. I know it happend to me in my past.
Quote by penelope
It's not just chocolate that makes us fat, it's the amount we eat, and not only choc but what about the cakes, pastries, biscuits,alchohol etc. Also lack of exercise a major factor. As a country we get tax'd i don't get is the low fat alternatives are always more expensive, an example i buy low fat greek natural yoghurt, the full fat is more expensive and mascapone cheese the light version is more expensive than the full fat , maybe the goverment should step in and say look we have choices but don't expoilt the healthier versions xx

I agree with all of what you have said but also exercise should be made cheaper and easy to gain access to.
I think that what the woman said in the news paper article is sick Mothers don’t normally try to get their sons laid and would do not take their son to see a prostitute. The mother is getting fame making a name for herself in the newspapers , maybe that’s what she wants but I think maybe social services ears should be picking up at this point and they should be involved getting involved as she has a younger child.
Well I don’t know where to start but here goes. I have a son who has severe learning difficulties I am aware that my son has sexual feelings and wants a girl friend but at the same time he does not have an understanding of the complexities of a relationship. I would not encourage or discourage my son to have a relationship it is his desision, but I would try to help him understand what a relationship entails. Relationships between people can be difficult, for people with special needs relationships will happen but to me they could cause more problems than they could solve. I know a girl with special needs who needs a lot of sex and emotional education. She will have sex any man old or young she has no understanding that they are using her for sex. She could end up pregnant or have a STD. She tries it on with any man even if they are sitting next to their girlfriend or wife, which could end up with her getting physically hurt by someone.
If I am wrong I will apologise and I will try to learn from the expierence.
Quote by Cherrytree
My sister wants to have her 18 month old daughter's ears pierced, because she thinks it will "look nice".
I am appalled, but, I'm told, it's me that's out of kilter with the rest of society.
So - help me out here - am I in the minority thinking it's barbaric to put holes in babies' ears?
In edit - I really don't mean any offence to anyone who has had it done - I just don't understand it.

I saw a much younger baby than 18 months having a its ears pierced in a tattoo parlor. The baby screamed it was horrid to see and hear and I dont think it looks good at all. I dont understand why people get it done to their babies, to hurt a baby for their vanity.
Quote by BIoke
....And how long will it be before the police actually do something about this menace on our roads ??? Where is British justice when these lunatics are allowed to terrorise the public roads ??

Massive generalisation alert! :P SOME bikers ride like wankers, not all of us do wink
I agree Iv got lots of friends that are bikers. There are lots of unsafe car drivers that cause accidents with other drivers, riders and predestrians.
When people learn to ride bikes they are taught to ride a bike looking for all the dangers on the road from other vehicles to keep themselves safe.
I used to have a bike myself and so did my ex hubby.
Im not suposed to drink coffee because it dries my vocal cords out but sometimes I am bad and I drink perculated coffee. Coffee makes me feel sick about an hr after I drink it.
I see what you mean
Quote by foxylady2209
How to Make a Woman Happy
It's not difficult to make a woman happy. A man only needs to be:
1. a friend
2. a companion
3. a lover
4. a brother - ewwww
5. a father - double ewwww
6. a master
7 a chef
8. an electrician - I can do that
9. a carpenter
10. a plumber - doing a course soon in that
11. a mechanic - I pay the garage for that
12. a decorator - I can do that
13. a stylist - ?????
14. a sexologist
15. a gynecologist - hmm, what for?
16. a psychologist - don't be daft - we psychologise THEM
17. a pest exterminator - can do that
18. a psychiatrist - see 16
19. a healer - NHS
20. a good listener
21. an organizer - I'm OCD enough for both of us
22. a good father
23. very clean
24. sympathetic
25. athletic - not critical
26. warm
27. attentive
28. gallant
29. intelligent
30. funny
31 creative
32. tender
33. strong
34. understanding
35. tolerant
36. prudent - not necessary, I earn my own money
37. ambitious - see 36
38. capable
39. courageous
40. determined
41. true
42. dependable
43. passionate
44. compassionate
WITHOUT FORGETTING TO:
45. give her compliments regularly
46. love shopping - it's ok, I can drive myself to twon
47. be honest
48. be very rich - no necessary
49. not stress her out
50. not look at other girls - no, that's fine
AND AT THE SAME TIME, YOU MUST ALSO:
51. give her lots of attention, but expect little yourself - now that's sad
52. give her lots of time, especially time for herself
53. give her lots of space, never worrying about where she goes - being worried about is nice
IT IS VERY IMPORTANT:
54. Never to forget:
* birthdays
* anniversaries
* arrangements she makes
HOW TO MAKE A MAN HAPPY
1. Show up naked
2. Bring food

OK most points are ok, but I'm actually pretty happy/capable anyway. What he does for me is enhance my life beyond anything it's been before.
I must do both 1. and 2. for him more often - once son goes to Uni biggrin:D:D:D:D:D:D
Ladies can get alsorts of free condoms from the Family Planning Clinic
I love History and Culture I would love to visit Italy, Greece, India, Egypt and more but I dont think I ever will sad
Have visited America, Spain 3 times and lots and lots of places in the uk Love Cornwal, Devon but ended up in Blackpool last year, it was great fun for my son biggrin
I draw alsorts it depends on my mood Boxes, wavy lines, houses, flowers. I sometimes I draw one thing that morfs into something else. God knows what it says about me.
I like a very close trim as I like to use my tongue against skin but still feel like there is hair there.
I agrea with you my sons girlfriends were never allowed stayed over for the same reasons you mentioned. I would not allow them in the bed rooms at any time and yes I new they were having sex together.
If I stay at my boyfriends house we may sleep in the same bed together but we dont have sex it seems disrespectful of us if we did so and we are in our 40s lol.
Quote by Lucyandmike7
This came up in our house for the first time roughly 4 years ago.
My eldest had a boyfriend, and wanted him to stay over in her bedroom in our family home.
My other kids were at that time 15, and 17.
I said no, as I did not want him around my house in a morning when we were all getting up. Also because even though I knew they were having sex, I didnt want it going on when I was around, and also, I did not think it was setting a good example to my other 2 kids.
His parents were completely different, and she started staying at his nearly all the time very quickly into their relationship. They had kids the same age as mine also.
They are all classed as adults now, but still are not allowed boyfriends/girlfriends to stay over.
My friends mainly think I am crazy to not allow them to stay over now they are adults, and we fall out at times about some of my attitudes to parenting.
What would you do, or infact have done, or are doing now when yours want the boy/girl friends to stay over?
Lucys post.
The cock would be bigger tha him lol
Quote by Dirtygirly
If you were to make the perfect man what would he consist of? Try to keep it to two things and lets see if a complete person can be made.

Richard Hammond with a big cock! :twisted:
What?! dunno
You said two things!! :mrgreen:
I think what I talk about depends on who the people are that you meeting and how yas get on.
Love chips I find then adictive but cant eat them I on a diet evil :doh: banghead
I dress to how I feel if I want to be sexy I will if I want to be comfortable I will. I dress to please myself although I always ask my Boyfriend how I look and he is mostly positve.