well I really wish that I had kept my mouth shut first my add is removed this morning and I receive a warning from admin now I find my profile wiped!
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unless........ just went and looked at your profile!
it is not apitising!
go and look at it and think if you were looking for a partner would this turn you on?
would you be rushing to contact this guy or would you be moving on!
have a look at my profile and then rewrite yours!
tell people who you are and what you like and what you offer!
I dont guarintee sucess but you might find that you get more traffic!
the thing is to watch for those that keep returning and contact them if they intrest you!
you are a guy therefore you are one of many single girls and couples get to pick us! we need to stand out and the best way to do that is to be open and honest!
hope you have a better time than till now!
this place is OK
you wont find better!!!!
it is not apitising!
go and look at it and think if you were looking for a partner would this turn you on?
would you be rushing to contact this guy or would you be moving on!
have a look at my profile and then rewrite yours!
tell people who you are and what you like and what you offer!
I dont guarintee sucess but you might find that you get more traffic!
the thing is to watch for those that keep returning and contact them if they intrest you!
you are a guy therefore you are one of many single girls and couples get to pick us! we need to stand out and the best way to do that is to be open and honest!
hope you have a better time than till now!
this place is OK
you wont find better!!!!
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Well i learned somethings and somethingOne being that I know a lot more about stuff i didn't before, things like Polar bear disorder and asparagus syndrome :scared: (I'll pay for that!) reading this topic. Another is, blimey! I thought i could type long posts I am in awe of you Will :D
hehe I like asparagus too lightly steamed with melted butter!!!gummy!
when you going to invite me for lunch! and wots for afters?????
hi fanny dont know if its any help but in my late teens I discovered rock climbing this may seem a silly thing for some one who is clumsy but it is safe the moves are slow and it takes total concentration and focous on the next move it may help your child and their condition
It will give them a sence of achievment and a sport where they will not be the one that is last to be picked and have to endure the "awe sir/miss do we have to have them!"
and it is fun!!
It will give them a sence of achievment and a sport where they will not be the one that is last to be picked and have to endure the "awe sir/miss do we have to have them!"
and it is fun!!
now for the kickers! and god they take some dealing with.
Comorbidity is the rule, not the exception, in bipolar disorder. The most common mental disorders that co-occur with bipolar disorder are anxiety, substance use, and conduct disorders. Disorders of eating, sexual behaviour, attention-deficit/hyperactivity, and impulse control, as well as autism spectrum disorders and Tourette's disorder, co-occur with bipolar disorder. The most common general medical comorbidities are migraine, thyroid illness, obesity, type II diabetes, and cardiovascular disease.
Associated Mental Disorders
Bipolar I Disorder is often associated with: alcoholism, drug addiction, Anorexia Nervosa, Bulimia Nervosa, Attention-Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder, Panic Disorder, and Social Phobia.
excuse the cut and paste but these are the links from one to another in my problems. It has taken me the last 51 years to get to where I am now! I like my sexual behaviour I like my mania I don't like my loss of control at times I don't like the black pit I enter every now and then but if loosing the pit means loss of all the plusses I'll live with the pit!!!!
as for my posts I do not use word cut and past ect because if I did I would censor myself to the point of silence and I have read some very well put together posts here that have no foresight and if their views are left unchallenged we will end up living in orwell's 1984
and to those ppl and they know who they are!!
I WOULD WILLINGLY DIE FOR YOUR RIGHT TO HOLD AND EXPRESS THOSE VIEWS EVEN THO I FIND THEM REPUGNANT IN THE EXTREME!!!!
COULD YOU SAY THE SAME ABOUT YOURSELF AND SAY MY VIEWS!!!
I apologies for using the caps lock but some things need to be shouted!!
I speak as I find when I find it or I stay silent to me there is no middle road is that social phobia I am on the hyperactive side of the spectrum in thought and action so any hints to make me a nicer person shud i realy use word and then censor myself!
And if any of you think this is some type of whinging moaning diatribe go (sorry Bilko) FUCK YOURSELVES!
because I have NEVER BEFORE in my life gone to this length to try and make ppl understand!!!!
Comorbidity is the rule, not the exception, in bipolar disorder. The most common mental disorders that co-occur with bipolar disorder are anxiety, substance use, and conduct disorders. Disorders of eating, sexual behaviour, attention-deficit/hyperactivity, and impulse control, as well as autism spectrum disorders and Tourette's disorder, co-occur with bipolar disorder. The most common general medical comorbidities are migraine, thyroid illness, obesity, type II diabetes, and cardiovascular disease.
Associated Mental Disorders
Bipolar I Disorder is often associated with: alcoholism, drug addiction, Anorexia Nervosa, Bulimia Nervosa, Attention-Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder, Panic Disorder, and Social Phobia.
excuse the cut and paste but these are the links from one to another in my problems. It has taken me the last 51 years to get to where I am now! I like my sexual behaviour I like my mania I don't like my loss of control at times I don't like the black pit I enter every now and then but if loosing the pit means loss of all the plusses I'll live with the pit!!!!
as for my posts I do not use word cut and past ect because if I did I would censor myself to the point of silence and I have read some very well put together posts here that have no foresight and if their views are left unchallenged we will end up living in orwell's 1984
and to those ppl and they know who they are!!
I WOULD WILLINGLY DIE FOR YOUR RIGHT TO HOLD AND EXPRESS THOSE VIEWS EVEN THO I FIND THEM REPUGNANT IN THE EXTREME!!!!
COULD YOU SAY THE SAME ABOUT YOURSELF AND SAY MY VIEWS!!!
I apologies for using the caps lock but some things need to be shouted!!
I speak as I find when I find it or I stay silent to me there is no middle road is that social phobia I am on the hyperactive side of the spectrum in thought and action so any hints to make me a nicer person shud i realy use word and then censor myself!
And if any of you think this is some type of whinging moaning diatribe go (sorry Bilko) FUCK YOURSELVES!
because I have NEVER BEFORE in my life gone to this length to try and make ppl understand!!!!
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Will u will find a lot of friendly faces here.
thanks unc asked me a question I fund fery valid I am trying to answer it and maybe in the process learn somthing from others here and maybe tell them things they do not know!
I would not have bothered if I didnt feel that their were freindly faces here!
and i would not be saying anything about this if we were face to face here I am still hiding!!
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as a dyslexic the most obvious thing is my inability to spell the same word the same way twice in a row and difficulty in reading!
Other thing's that it means are i have difficulty with balance and rhythm!!! these I can cover quite easily by not dancing and being very careful in my movements, also my coordination is not as good as it should be but again it can be covered most of the time and most ppl never link being clumsy with dyslexia and if I am very careful it is not apparent!
I thought the clumsy coordination bit was dyspraxia? I'm only saying that as a member of my family has it.
There's a girl on my degree course who has dylexia and she's highly intelligent and in fact you wouldn't even think she has it because she copes so well. I'm really proud of her achievements.
dont know what your studying but I can tell you that what I say is correct!
my next post might explain!1
ouch sos bad quoting on my part!1
now for the bipolar bit!! god this is the real killer!!most of the time I am on the highest high tat you can imagine! and I would not change it for the world! but it does have certain drawbacks, I tend to open my mouth and let ppl no what I think before i consider their feelings this leads to hostility, the hostility is felt by me!(it is one of the lesser known bits of being bipolar,that is that you are extra sensitive to your surroundings) this can (does) lead to paranoid feelings, this then leads to depressed feelings and........then the pit! and at the bottom of the pit is a very ANGRY individual that you would not want to meet! (I think this is why so many bipolar sufferers are wrongly diagnosed as schizoid) I have no proof of this only my logic.
One thing is for sure tho and that is that most bipolar individuals spend their life under the radar and as a result of this the condition is not understood by either the sufferers or the medical profession
When you add to this the fact that most bipolar individuals when tested are found to be in the top 10% in cardrill IQ tests and the top 2% in non written IQ tests it is no wonder that we hide under the radar as it seems to us that the only time anyone takes notice of us other than to dismiss us for our lack social graces is to lock us up as dangers to society!
One thing is for sure tho and that is that most bipolar individuals spend their life under the radar and as a result of this the condition is not understood by either the sufferers or the medical profession
When you add to this the fact that most bipolar individuals when tested are found to be in the top 10% in cardrill IQ tests and the top 2% in non written IQ tests it is no wonder that we hide under the radar as it seems to us that the only time anyone takes notice of us other than to dismiss us for our lack social graces is to lock us up as dangers to society!
as a dyslexic the most obvious thing is my inability to spell the same word the same way twice in a row and difficulty in reading!
this does not mean I cannot read it means words and letters disappear or rearrange themselves!!
Bs become Ds Os Qs and via ser versa also small words in's, at's, on's, no's disappear completely sometimes whole lines can do so too!
This means for me to be sure that I have read a text properly I need to read it at least twice!! and preferably with a gap between readings!
Other thing's that it means are i have difficulty with balance and rhythm!!! these I can cover quite easily by not dancing and being very careful in my movements, also my coordination is not as good as it should be but again it can be covered most of the time and most ppl never link being clumsy with dyslexia and if I am very careful it is not apparent!
The stutter that also goes with my dyslexia is easy to hide most of the time! no one stutters when they sing! so when i speak it is with a singsong voice that some think is camp! and have bullied me for in the past but I can live with that it is the lesser of two evils!!
The only time that my stutter becomes apparent is when I loose my temper and then the ppl who have wound me up to the point of loosing all control think its funny that I cant get my words out!!
they generally stop thinking it is so funny when they find me beating the living crap out of them!
By the way I served in HM Armed Forces for 5years 207days and have seen active service in NI and the Falklands so when I snap it is not pretty! and I hate violence so when forced to use it I really go over the top!(I believe that this may be as a result of the bipolar disorder but I do not use that as an excuse for inexcusable behaviour
this does not mean I cannot read it means words and letters disappear or rearrange themselves!!
Bs become Ds Os Qs and via ser versa also small words in's, at's, on's, no's disappear completely sometimes whole lines can do so too!
This means for me to be sure that I have read a text properly I need to read it at least twice!! and preferably with a gap between readings!
Other thing's that it means are i have difficulty with balance and rhythm!!! these I can cover quite easily by not dancing and being very careful in my movements, also my coordination is not as good as it should be but again it can be covered most of the time and most ppl never link being clumsy with dyslexia and if I am very careful it is not apparent!
The stutter that also goes with my dyslexia is easy to hide most of the time! no one stutters when they sing! so when i speak it is with a singsong voice that some think is camp! and have bullied me for in the past but I can live with that it is the lesser of two evils!!
The only time that my stutter becomes apparent is when I loose my temper and then the ppl who have wound me up to the point of loosing all control think its funny that I cant get my words out!!
they generally stop thinking it is so funny when they find me beating the living crap out of them!
By the way I served in HM Armed Forces for 5years 207days and have seen active service in NI and the Falklands so when I snap it is not pretty! and I hate violence so when forced to use it I really go over the top!(I believe that this may be as a result of the bipolar disorder but I do not use that as an excuse for inexcusable behaviour
Ok so where do I start? I suppose at the beginning is a good place!
I suffer from bi polar disorder. i am a manic depressive I can be high and low at the same time! I am dyslexic, I suffer from migraines, I believe that I may be borderline asperser's.
Hay there is a good start.
I am very intelligent! you will have to judge the accuracy of that statement but I will endeavour to justify it!
I don't know how long I have been like this but I believe I was born this way!
I am 51 years old.
You may wonder what my age has to do with this, but as a child going to school in the sixties, the way children with learning disabilities were dealt with was not nice! and I have spent a lot of my life hiding my disabilities so that I did not get labelled!!
Twice I have looked for medical help, on one occasion I was told ,I was "bad not mad" ,on the second occasion the ppl wanted to section me as a schizophphrenic! I am not a schizophrenic!!
If you will excuse me, I will deal with this later, firstly I will deal with the dyslexia as that is maybe the most important thing, to you the readers of my posts, and your excuse to ignore any point I make that you have no argument against and do not wish to accnolodage as it places you in a light that you do not like!! However they are all linked and that will make some of this seem very disjointed, so I will try to do this in little bits, lots of middling length posts, if I tried to do it in one post I would delete the post and shut up and I don't believe that is a good thing,
I suffer from bi polar disorder. i am a manic depressive I can be high and low at the same time! I am dyslexic, I suffer from migraines, I believe that I may be borderline asperser's.
Hay there is a good start.
I am very intelligent! you will have to judge the accuracy of that statement but I will endeavour to justify it!
I don't know how long I have been like this but I believe I was born this way!
I am 51 years old.
You may wonder what my age has to do with this, but as a child going to school in the sixties, the way children with learning disabilities were dealt with was not nice! and I have spent a lot of my life hiding my disabilities so that I did not get labelled!!
Twice I have looked for medical help, on one occasion I was told ,I was "bad not mad" ,on the second occasion the ppl wanted to section me as a schizophphrenic! I am not a schizophrenic!!
If you will excuse me, I will deal with this later, firstly I will deal with the dyslexia as that is maybe the most important thing, to you the readers of my posts, and your excuse to ignore any point I make that you have no argument against and do not wish to accnolodage as it places you in a light that you do not like!! However they are all linked and that will make some of this seem very disjointed, so I will try to do this in little bits, lots of middling length posts, if I tried to do it in one post I would delete the post and shut up and I don't believe that is a good thing,
firstly I wish to thank sgt bilko for reopening this thread! I always loved watching you on telly and will buy your next dvd
secondly to winchwench your comment did not offend as I believe that I can always be understood if ppl listen or read what I have to say! I seem to be sadly mistaken there and will change my ways as I do not like confrontations!
thirdly to westerross thank you for the pm I am sorry that I was so sharp that you felt the need to mail me and it is not taken as a personal insult even it I may seem to do so at times. however this first started 4 or 5 threads ago and has increased in vitriol over a period ending with 2 other ppl attempting to tag team me and I don't respond well to that!
this was after I had responded to a personal attack by pointing out that I was dyslexic and bi polar ect and that in these forums I treat them as tho I am talking to equals in the pub not writing political speeches to state a position and as such I do not use spellcheckers or proof read what I write. I do believe that you did not post any comments on the last thread therefore all I can assume is that you have either been setup to elicit a negative response or did not know the context of your comments and I must apologise most deeply to you for my uncalled for attack
finally unc I read your post with great interest about my post and would like to speak to you about your comments and observations I am more than happy to do this here in the forum and I will accept any comments so long as ppl accept that the don't believe you any excuse type comments are going to receive very short shrift from me so I don't know if it is appropriate I would like to hear yours and anyoneelses comments before I hijack this thread
thanks again to sgt bilko
secondly to winchwench your comment did not offend as I believe that I can always be understood if ppl listen or read what I have to say! I seem to be sadly mistaken there and will change my ways as I do not like confrontations!
thirdly to westerross thank you for the pm I am sorry that I was so sharp that you felt the need to mail me and it is not taken as a personal insult even it I may seem to do so at times. however this first started 4 or 5 threads ago and has increased in vitriol over a period ending with 2 other ppl attempting to tag team me and I don't respond well to that!
this was after I had responded to a personal attack by pointing out that I was dyslexic and bi polar ect and that in these forums I treat them as tho I am talking to equals in the pub not writing political speeches to state a position and as such I do not use spellcheckers or proof read what I write. I do believe that you did not post any comments on the last thread therefore all I can assume is that you have either been setup to elicit a negative response or did not know the context of your comments and I must apologise most deeply to you for my uncalled for attack
finally unc I read your post with great interest about my post and would like to speak to you about your comments and observations I am more than happy to do this here in the forum and I will accept any comments so long as ppl accept that the don't believe you any excuse type comments are going to receive very short shrift from me so I don't know if it is appropriate I would like to hear yours and anyoneelses comments before I hijack this thread
thanks again to sgt bilko
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how long have you got to plan and execute the plan how much can you afford??
if you are able to realy push the boat out how about naked bungee jumping in new zealand or a weekend shopping in New York with a flight in the mile high flying bed over the city to give the weekend a real bang!
if you are able to realy push the boat out how about naked bungee jumping in new zealand or a weekend shopping in New York with a flight in the mile high flying bed over the city to give the weekend a real bang!
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All I ask in the forums is that people make an effort so that they can be understood. When a post appears with poor spelling and no punctuation, It can be an absolute nightmare to understand.
That's exactly what I was saying - so amen to that.
The original exchange which brought all this about included the opinion of the person who couldn't spell too well saying that they didn't see the need to take the time and trouble to make an effort on the forum because they're just conversing with people. It had been observed that their profile and advert were well spelt and readable and they had taken the trouble.
I'm sorry but that just implies that they couldn't be fucked on the forum and is a dicourtesy to the reader in itself.
I for one think that this thread is not a good thread because of the trickle running between the lines and I regret it was ever started.
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ho hum as the person this is all about I have followed this and kept silent....
however the above insenced me with its selectivity that is not what I said unless you always edit all you hear and see to make it fit your view of life!!!
you can thank god that my original reply was timedout and that I dont use word spellcheck and cut and past here but speak from the heart without aids or proof reading i dont do that in a pub! I dont plan my conversations in advance and follow the layed down speach that I have planned!do you?
if you feel that I am being disingenous go back and read and inwardly digest what I said and then if you still feel offended about my spelling ask yourself whats your problem!
we dont use spelling and punctuation in conversations
and the substiutes are acent and inounciation of words!
do you dismiss ppl so quickly for their accent or ponounciation!!
or is this your way of dealing with anything you dont want to hear!
you can be thankfull that the last post got timed out
it went into detailed justifacation of the abbove annd my have been quite offencive
nearly as much as bing tod that spelling errors equate to saying f**k U to all the ppl who take the time to read what I have to say!!
and that is on a parr to efectivly saying my views are worthless because my spelling is crap!!
personally I think that anyone that shallow needs to stand in front of a mirror and take a long hard look at themselves and thier way of thinking!!!!
you may have a point but then my posts would not be a true reflection of my reaction to other posts but more a stating of a position!
I dont know about you but I learn and develope my views thro free and frank debate not by measured responces that are thought out edited and profe read and spellchecked ect
but if you want sanitised forums im sure we can reduce all debate to careful stating of given positions
in which case lets not bother and lets close the shop and all go home as there is no point!
I dont know about you but I learn and develope my views thro free and frank debate not by measured responces that are thought out edited and profe read and spellchecked ect
but if you want sanitised forums im sure we can reduce all debate to careful stating of given positions
in which case lets not bother and lets close the shop and all go home as there is no point!
thanks lost!
annjo look at the standard tests for bi polar disoder and argue with them!
as for mt profile and add its amazing wot you can do with ms office spellcheck and the cut and past facilities!!
here I am not selling myself but talking to peeps who I belive may have a modicome of inteligence and as such I do not feel the need to use such methods to get my point accross!!!
maybe in your case I shud change my approach!
but then I doubt if that would make any diference you will always find a reason not to listen to something you dont want to hear!!!
and when someone says I told you so I bet your automatic answer is "I dont want to hear that"
this ringing any bells????
annjo look at the standard tests for bi polar disoder and argue with them!
as for mt profile and add its amazing wot you can do with ms office spellcheck and the cut and past facilities!!
here I am not selling myself but talking to peeps who I belive may have a modicome of inteligence and as such I do not feel the need to use such methods to get my point accross!!!
maybe in your case I shud change my approach!
but then I doubt if that would make any diference you will always find a reason not to listen to something you dont want to hear!!!
and when someone says I told you so I bet your automatic answer is "I dont want to hear that"
this ringing any bells????
hay I got a good idea lets get rid of all these laws and prisons police ect then there will be no misscarages of justic and we can all sleep safe in the knoledge that no one has our finger prints DNA or any other way of contoling us!!
as an ex soldier who has seen active service I think I could survive (not a nice life admittedly) could you?????
before you shout about our system and demand its dismantlment you realy want to work out if you want to live in the results!!!!!!
me I dont care who has my DNA I am happy to carry an ID card
I did for many years and all it ever did was help me prove my idenitity and save me looads of hastle!!!
can I have my MOD90 back pleese!!!!!!
as an ex soldier who has seen active service I think I could survive (not a nice life admittedly) could you?????
before you shout about our system and demand its dismantlment you realy want to work out if you want to live in the results!!!!!!
me I dont care who has my DNA I am happy to carry an ID card
I did for many years and all it ever did was help me prove my idenitity and save me looads of hastle!!!
can I have my MOD90 back pleese!!!!!!
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i also like knowing that if I fall ill I will be treated by the NHS for free! and not like say the USA where treatment depends on your welth
so while yoou are complaining about taxes and tax credits ect ask youorself do you realy want the alternitive! !!
Give it time, it won't be long. Mark my words our country will end up paying for medical treatment just like the USA.
Will... good post. Referring to your reply to Freckledbird, I can't comment on whether you're dyslexic or not as I don't know you.. but I wouldn't have thought being Bipolar would have affected your posting... is it not just the time of morning? I quite often type all skew wiff at this time of the morning esp after a few Bacardi's!
not a problem but they go together!
fi you are dyslectic you will have migranes
if you are bi polar you will have ! or more of the above!!
and a higher than avarage IQ!!!! which makes it so much worse!!! and many have other disorders like ortisium thank god I aint got that or asburgers!!another common bi polar side order!!!! ho hum not to worry
we all have our crosses! mine are in my head!!!!! and mine alone where are yours and who has to carry them for you!!!!!1
and that is for my critics!!!!!!
listen to my words not my spelling!!!!!!!!!!
anyone got a sig for me??
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we live in a highly regulated country with over 85% of the worlds cctv camaras and some of the highest taxes in the world!booo hooo!!!
Well maybe not! we all have our gripes about the system and we can all see inequalities and couruption!
but would you want to live anywhere else!
not me I like our green and pleasent land!
I like to be able to rant about our greedy courupt police and polititions!I love knowing that my outspoken views can lead to debate reater than a knock on the door or a bullit in the head or woorse!!
i also like knowing that if I fall ill I will be treated by the NHS for free! and not like say the USA where treatment depends on your welth
so while yoou are complaining about taxes and tax credits ect ask youorself do you realy want the alternitive! as say the USA or maybe somewhere worse lik africia or south america or asia!
look at wot we got and compair it to the rest of the world!
dont downgrade our superb system to that of lesser countries to reduce the flow of economic migrants upgrade their countries!!so they dont feel the need to run from oppression economic oe otherwise!!
I just see poorly educated people who can't spell enough to complain properly.
if this is a sly dig I appologgise for being dysletic a( I do have migranes and I am bi polar) sorry!! but i have to hold to my point!! my spelling does not deminish my view!! it just shows your lack of insight that you dismiss all I say for afew spelling mistakes!
wish i could be as perfect as you!!!!!
