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Alleyson
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 65
UK

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Quote by littlemee
Bugger!!! My partner for the night, Alleyson, has had to cancel. :cry:
No way am I missing the Munch so I'm gonna have to come to my 2nd ever Munch on my own-some!!!
Luckily I don't live far away so I can get rat-arsed drunk and still stagger home safely.
That should help cure SOME of my nerves.
So if you see me in the Munch be nice, be gentle, 'cos I'm on me own!!! :cry:

Just to confirm what my munch partner Littlemee has said, I can no longer make it tomorrow night. :cry: I'm sooooooooo disappointed that I can't go to yet another Notts munch.
Hope you all have a great night and please be gentle with my buddy smile
Alleyson xxx
Hi Sarah
Just confirming my place at the Notts Munch please.
Thanks
Alleyson x
Finally got here to add my thanks.
Darkfire that was some birthday munch! It was an absolute honour to be there and help you celebrate. Apologies for the pink and fluffy card biggrin Thank You so so much for all your hard work and all those who worked behind the scenes too. The chocolate fountain was wonderful, had to be dragged away kicking and screaming lol :D It was obvious that an awful lot of thought had gone into the whole evening and it paid off. There was a great atmosphere, wonderful to see so many decadent people in one room!
I also have to say thanks to Littlemee, my chauffeur and companion for the night. Wonderful company thank you x . We never did find that right turn though did we? lol wink
Lovely to see you again Mr and Mrs CCR, thanks also to you for your company too. It's always a pleasure to meet you 2 and chat the night 's like we've been friends for ever I still think I could've had your share of the strawberries though!
I've spent the last 20 mins going through the other messages on the thread saying, I didn't know he/she/they were there. How come you always manage to miss people in such a small room? lol
I had a few surprises too, finally putting faces to names, a few of who looked nothing like I'd imagined! I'm not naming names though.
Heres to the next one
Alleyson x
Could you not get it from the lingerie dept. of some of the larger stores DF?
Please tell me not all the ladies are going to be dressed up, I just dont DO dressed up at all. So I have a feeling I'm going to be decidedly under dressed sad
Heres my little darling Domino Shes just over a year old and she's adorable

and the goldfish is camera shy
wink
Alleyson x
Another proud parent here too! biggrin
My youngest daughter got 3 B's 4 C's and a D , and I'm so so proud of her. She's always had particular trouble with exams and revision in particular. We've had lots of tears and sleepless nights over the years but her results never mattered much until these. ( Not that it would've been the end of the world now if she'd not done well, but you know what I mean) We listened to lots of advice on revision techniques and strategies, tried all of them at some point and hoped she'd do well. She certainely worked hard enough and now it's all paid off, I'm so pleased for her. Can't stop smiling here and it's not me who's taken them!
Well Done to any other SH members children getting GCSE results today
Alleyson x
thanks for all the good wishes folks, had a lovely day quiet and relaxing and so sorry DF I just didn't think :cry:
Alleyson x
Hi it's my birthday today, having a great day so far. Just thought I'd make my first 'look at me' thread. biggrin
This is a subject that I've been giving alot of thought to recently. I've always believed that some people are gifted, but equally so alot that think they are.
Would love to have a reading done, one day soon. Maybe we could have a chat about it one day DF?
Alleyson xxx
Hi there
In theory this might seem like a great idea .......... stop time wasters etc .......... in practice though it may be open to all sorts of abuse. People fall out, add something nasty to ruin someone elses reputation ...... and so on ......
You're not the first to suggest it and no doubt won't be the last, but it's not workable and we're told won't happen on SH .... Thank goodness
Alleyson x
I hope things continue to improve for you Dammie, health and happiness wise.
I had one biggrin but lost it :cry:
I drew a picture of the Blue Peter and sent it in. They must've liked it. I was really proud of that badge.
Sad or what?
Alleyson x
Quote by markz
You know it's not right when you arrange to meet someone and his Mum phones you to say he can't come now as he's not feeling well :shock:
I kid you not! rotflmao

it wasn't me :shock:
liar liar pants on fire ! :giggle:
Do you know something I don't Sassy? wink
Markz ..... have you been ill recently?? :shock:
yes but I am on medication rolleyes
Ah but does your Mum know?
Quote by Sassy-Seren
You know it's not right when you arrange to meet someone and his Mum phones you to say he can't come now as he's not feeling well :shock:
I kid you not! rotflmao

it wasn't me :shock:
liar liar pants on fire ! :giggle:
Do you know something I don't Sassy? wink
Markz ..... have you been ill recently?? :shock:
Quote by Tania
This is a very difficult subject to comment on. On one hand I know he doesn't mean it badly - he's just phrased it badly. On the other hand, I am thinking of the anaesthesiologist at the hospital who had a good feel of my breasts and belly supposedly for anaesthetic reasons... yeah right! I wonder why all the anaesthiologists I've seen before were content to just look into my mouth and make me move my head but he had to check out my tits and big belly! I feel annoyed because this is one situation you can't really tell the other guy off or report him - he'll say he was just doing his job.
For the record, I didn't get aroused by his touch.

Of course you can report him if he touched you in an appropriate way Tania! That's how people like that get away with doing such things. Though why we need to know whether you were aroused or not, baffles me.
However .....
Quote by Tania
On one hand I know he doesn't mean it badly - he's just phrased it badly.

..... how you can say the above statement confuses me. Do you know the original poster? How do you know he just 'phrased it badly' ? I'm sure reading his other posts on the subject, which back up his original misguided ideas, must confirm that he was indeed serious in the first place.
On that note I'll shut up before I say something to get me banned! :gagged:
You know it's not right when you arrange to meet someone and his Mum phones you to say he can't come now as he's not feeling well :shock:
I kid you not! rotflmao
Quote by Pete_sw
You know it’s not right when you make friends online with a single bi-fem, finally arrange a meet for a coffee, a stunning young woman turns up who engages you both with intelligent and witty conversation, you feel everyone has clicked and she happily agrees to a further meet for fun which leaves you both salivating, and on walking out of the restaurant turns to you and says “oh by the way, I’m an Escort and the evening will cost
:shock: :shock: mad

:shock: Was that someone from SH Pete? If so surely that must be against the rules, even if her ad doesn't mention money changing hands, if you've set up a meet using details obtained from here. Maybe you should have a word with a mod or admin.
I've been watching this thread with interest and wishing I'd got that sort of money for a holiday of any sort!
I'm now wondering if the new price you've quoted Tania, is for a swinging cruise in general run by an outside party, or a cruise organised by yourself for your friends to go on, as you did say this was your original intention. Just so that people know, thats all.
Quote by Happy Cats
Then there would be a brief exchange of emails where you can tell the other party's character, educational level, attitudes, morality even.

Personally I don't see what difference it makes as to whether you passed A levels or not, I can understand character etc but levels of education? dunno
Perhaps O levels then?
lol
smackbottom flipa
wink
I knew as soon as I hit submit that someone would say it!
Quote by Phoenix
I can't be bothered to drawl through the posts so far, so I'll just throw in my tu'pence worth and bugger off again.
But more often lately, the term “Social” is being used. Partly, I believe, to get round/comply with the rules contained in the official Munch definition and the posting across two or more other sites.
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This is where most of the confusion has arisen. Munches being renamed as Socials to get around people from other sites attending. At one point, a private party I went to was taken to PM and the thread locked because non members were going :shock: FFS
To me, the main Munch / Social definition has always been determined by the venue, private room or open pub/venue. It has nothing to do with playing at the event, that generally happens elsewhere afterwards and by invite only. A private room/venue allows more revealing dress, antics and so on, while an open pub has be dealt with in the appropriate manner, as families could be about.
A "Social" so named to get around rules, could be simply be called an "Open Munch" or "Open Social", again determined by the venue, dress code, newbies and so on.
Of course, like our government, an idea such as this may be too simple to comprehend as it does not generate income.
Private parties will always remain private.
I'm sorry but what has generating income got to do with munches and socials, as far as I'm aware there is never a charge for going to them, voluntary contributions yes, but no charges and definitely no profit.
Apologies I think I'm in a strange mood this afternoon, must be the heat.
Quote by Tania
Then there would be a brief exchange of emails where you can tell the other party's character, educational level, attitudes, morality even.

Personally I don't see what difference it makes as to whether you passed A levels or not, I can understand character etc but levels of education? dunno
Frogs and toads, :shock: Well if I'm honest frogs in particular, but I never get close enough to see if it's a toad or not, so they get the same treatment. :scared:
Horrible evil things they are
Quote by snowhawk
Yep, it's snowhawk after help....Again!!
How do you refer to a previous reply in the forum, you know, the bits in a box in someone else's response.
Answers on a postcard to.... ahh forget it, just posts plse folks.
Snowhawk redface
Not certified for anything by anybody

You mean like this Snowhawk? You just click on the top right hand side of the persons post you want to quote, where it says quote, and not on the reply to post button as normal
HTH
In edit...... you need to do it faster than me obviously!lol
I'm sure he was only trying to help Shireen. Surely it's a good thing if people have ideas, that they voice them, instead of just sitting on them and staying quiet. Ok so if admin are already aware of the techy stuff that Bunny's suggested then there's no harm done.
I agree however that sending a PM might be a better idea, but surely it could've been said without the sarcasm
I've voted yes on the poll.
Sarah
I think the point that Dammie and others are making is that, if it were clearly defined before hand so that everyone organising and/or hoping to attend socials/meets/munches/parties or whatever, knew what to expect, then it would remove that PM ping pong in the first instance. Obviously there are finer points that sometimes need to be questioned, but generally, if ithe setting and expectations are made clear, then it reduces the chance for confusion.
Maybe if you really think that will happen, then neither of you are ready for swinging. Imho a huge part of any relationship, be it swinging or otherwise,is being able to communicate with each other.
Could you show her SH and maybe get involved together ? Could you steer the conversation in that direction one night, down the pub when you're both out with mates and see if your g/f responds?
I'm sure there with be others along soon with other ideas/opinions and suggetsions.
Quote by Freckledbird
Yes there is; I mean when it progresses to that stage and you fancy someone for their mind and know that you would shag them, even though you haven't seen them. Or is it just me that's done that? redface

You're not on your own FB I've done it too surprisedops:
I have 2 unopened bottles of Baileys ................ hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm just need someone to share with now