I know its your judgement call in the end, but one thing to remember is that no everyone is 'good' with all forms of communication. I'm ok online, but my wife finds it difficult to talk that way.
To be honest, personally I would rather just meet up for a social meet to begin with, I realise its more hassle, but it cuts to the chase and you get to see how people are without them hiding behind phones and cams.
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LordZenx
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 53
Bisexual Female, 54
0 miles · Nottinghamshire
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Love Moves in Mysterious Ways - Julia Fordham
It was our wedding song (I cried seeing my wife in her wedding dress, soppy git) and we went to see Julia Fordham in concert, front row, centre stage, and had a very nice time holding hands while she sang the song.
I’m just going to drift through a field of daisies and skip merrily for a bit now :inlove:
It was our wedding song (I cried seeing my wife in her wedding dress, soppy git) and we went to see Julia Fordham in concert, front row, centre stage, and had a very nice time holding hands while she sang the song.
I’m just going to drift through a field of daisies and skip merrily for a bit now :inlove:
I have been through the same thing quite recently.
We have both reached the age where we became less bothered about what people thought and more interested in what do we really want in life.
I broached the subject of swinging in my normal way of asking, which means mentioning it every 5 mins and getting annoyed when she said no. I then decided on a new tack, when I originally mentioned the idea of swinging my wife asked for some time to think about it. So I thought I would give this new approach a go.
I didn’t mention swinging, or ask her if she had made her mind up, I just left the subject in her mind and made sure I acted like the loving husband and not the spoilt child who hadn’t got their way.
Well as you can probably tell by me being here, things are going well. My wife is still a little unsure, and we haven’t yet swung, but she is willing to give it a try. So fingers crossed it will all work out, but if not I have accepted that a no is a no, our relationship is more important than swinging
(Wow this must be my most serious post to date
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We have both reached the age where we became less bothered about what people thought and more interested in what do we really want in life.
I broached the subject of swinging in my normal way of asking, which means mentioning it every 5 mins and getting annoyed when she said no. I then decided on a new tack, when I originally mentioned the idea of swinging my wife asked for some time to think about it. So I thought I would give this new approach a go.
I didn’t mention swinging, or ask her if she had made her mind up, I just left the subject in her mind and made sure I acted like the loving husband and not the spoilt child who hadn’t got their way.
Well as you can probably tell by me being here, things are going well. My wife is still a little unsure, and we haven’t yet swung, but she is willing to give it a try. So fingers crossed it will all work out, but if not I have accepted that a no is a no, our relationship is more important than swinging
(Wow this must be my most serious post to date
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it would be good if clubs made you sign a no photos no publicty document on entry
then journalists would not be able to muck rake over things
I thought most clubs didn't allow cameras (Without express permission)
: I presumed the pics were taken via a hidden camera, so theres nothing the clubs can do about it (Sadly)
Not to be the bearer of bad news, but the cats symptoms do remind me of one of my own.
Weight loss, pee's when fed. I hope its isn't, but our cat was like this due to Kidney Failure. She managed to hang on for about a month, but looked bad and mistreated (She wasn't by any stretch of the imagination) sadly we had to have her put to sleep on friday. :cry:
I hope its just a case of hunger, fingers crossed for you.
Weight loss, pee's when fed. I hope its isn't, but our cat was like this due to Kidney Failure. She managed to hang on for about a month, but looked bad and mistreated (She wasn't by any stretch of the imagination) sadly we had to have her put to sleep on friday. :cry:
I hope its just a case of hunger, fingers crossed for you.
I see swinging as mainly a frame of mind. If you accept swinging then that should be it, whether you actually participate or not.
From my short time here, we seem to be a group of likeminded (Well not always) individuals, the fact that some of us get physical with others is just an extension of that mindset.
From all the great posts before me, I think you now know that everyone wants you to stay, don't make us beg
PS IOU one hug
From my short time here, we seem to be a group of likeminded (Well not always) individuals, the fact that some of us get physical with others is just an extension of that mindset.
From all the great posts before me, I think you now know that everyone wants you to stay, don't make us beg
PS IOU one hug
Don't know if this is a 'Worst' Snog, but it was bad.
Picture the scene, teenage boy (Me) at the school disco, trying out my chat up lines and managed to persuade a girl I liked to give me a xmas snog, she was a bit embarrassed and asked that we go into the corner so none of her friends saw us (Hows that for ego boasting)
So there we are in the corner and I was doing my best to impress (Stick your tongue in her mouth and pretend you are watching a washing machine I was told by a friend) and there I was twisting my head for all it was worth.
After a few mins of boredom the girl tried to move away, but couldn't. My animal magnetism I thought, but no, our dental braces had got caught. We tried to separate ourselves but had to get her mates over to assist.
As snogs go it wasn't bad, but as situations go, it was the worst :cry:
Picture the scene, teenage boy (Me) at the school disco, trying out my chat up lines and managed to persuade a girl I liked to give me a xmas snog, she was a bit embarrassed and asked that we go into the corner so none of her friends saw us (Hows that for ego boasting)
So there we are in the corner and I was doing my best to impress (Stick your tongue in her mouth and pretend you are watching a washing machine I was told by a friend) and there I was twisting my head for all it was worth.
After a few mins of boredom the girl tried to move away, but couldn't. My animal magnetism I thought, but no, our dental braces had got caught. We tried to separate ourselves but had to get her mates over to assist.
As snogs go it wasn't bad, but as situations go, it was the worst :cry:
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Now as far as I have read, Munches are social evenings for swingers and no play takes place, so what do people wear, is it a casual event, or do people still dress to impress (I don't mean wear a Tux
Just be careful if you wear contact lenses
I do and now you have me both intrigued and a little worried, will the items of clothing be that wild my contact lenses will become fused with my retinas ?? :shock:
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pink tu tu, silver stilletto boots, pink cowboy hat and pink feather boa
PINK !!!!! But I only have mauve, oh its the works Xmas party all over again :cry:
Mauve could work, with some clever accesorising
Its off to the button and bead shop for me then, rhinestones anyone ?
Fred, you don't know me from Adam (Who's Adam )
But I just wanted to say, reading your post gave me a lump in my throat but also a feeling of pride you could say.
For you to feel able to write what is a very personal account of your happenings and put it on here and receive such warm responses from others shows both what a genuine and warm person you must be and how the communitity on here can show real feeling and emoition.
All the best in whatever you do
)But I just wanted to say, reading your post gave me a lump in my throat but also a feeling of pride you could say.
For you to feel able to write what is a very personal account of your happenings and put it on here and receive such warm responses from others shows both what a genuine and warm person you must be and how the communitity on here can show real feeling and emoition.
All the best in whatever you do
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first partner that i wasn’t clean enough, what do you think about when it is happening maybe it is psychological? BB :idea:
I can agree with that, I had that problem, and also the concern that I was degrading the other person by making them do an act in which I thought they didn't get anything in return, made me think I was being selfish.
Happily got over it
