Quote by mark/surrey
im 30 and a proessional.
is that a few letters off a fully fledged professional??
ha ha.. sorry couldn't resist. ;)
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Robbie
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 46
Straight Female, 46
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It amazes me, that on here, users complain about others requesting people with specifc attributes... its quite hypocritical. its choice, choice to swing, choice to not sleep with someone you deem as fat or unattractive, choice to only have sex with a guy with an x" cock.
Although it does seem some specifications are more frowned upon by others... depending on whether they, or their friends, associate themselves with the specified (with negative connotations) group. It seems the politics of swinging has met the politics of the internet community.. ;)
Although it does seem some specifications are more frowned upon by others... depending on whether they, or their friends, associate themselves with the specified (with negative connotations) group. It seems the politics of swinging has met the politics of the internet community.. ;)
I suppose it depends on what area of life you're talking about... i think nice guys can finish first in the relationship side of things however in other areas, like your career, nice guys invariably do not come first (there are exceptions ofcourse but we are speaking in generalisations here) - I've not employed people before now because they have come across as being 'too nice'.
Love, respect and be loyal to friends and family. In your career think of number one - i always ask myself, 'in the overall perspective will this benefit me?'... loyalty doesn't pay bills, buy cars or take you on holidays - in later life the people that you work for who demand your loyalty will be nothing more than a vague memory, as you will be to them. Nice guys don't finish first, but neither do the bad guys.. the ones that come first are the bad guys who look like nice guys. ;)
Troy - I got a reply back from my friend, he said they're dealing with these all the time... he came back with the same advice as offered by someone else.
Hi Rob,
He has to contact icstis and they will sort it out as the dialers can be
installed
either by clicking on URL or by a Trojan so it is down to the individual
to secure their own PC.
Tom
Rob,
Tell him to report it to Icstis first and to ring BT and dispute the bill by saying he had not dialled
it. He might be able to get it sorted without paying anything.
Regards
Tom
Love, respect and be loyal to friends and family. In your career think of number one - i always ask myself, 'in the overall perspective will this benefit me?'... loyalty doesn't pay bills, buy cars or take you on holidays - in later life the people that you work for who demand your loyalty will be nothing more than a vague memory, as you will be to them. Nice guys don't finish first, but neither do the bad guys.. the ones that come first are the bad guys who look like nice guys. ;)
Troy - I got a reply back from my friend, he said they're dealing with these all the time... he came back with the same advice as offered by someone else.
Hi Rob,
He has to contact icstis and they will sort it out as the dialers can be
installed
either by clicking on URL or by a Trojan so it is down to the individual
to secure their own PC.
Tom
Rob,
Tell him to report it to Icstis first and to ring BT and dispute the bill by saying he had not dialled
it. He might be able to get it sorted without paying anything.
Regards
Tom
Quote by easy
Which is why I insinuated that you were on "shakey ground". You may not have made an open criticism and the person in question may not complain about it being highlighted in the forum, but until you can say for definate that they won't be offended about others discussing it, then, in my opinion, it should be left alone.
As you said i never insinuated anything, i didn't make any negative or derrogatory nuances regarding the ad and infact the negative connotation has been implied by you (open CRITICISM). Can you say that the person will be offended? Can you even claim that the ad is legitimate?
Regardless there is, and i'm sure would admit, serious cause to question the legitimacy and the validity of this ad. The validity can be brought into question because - should ads be allowed where the background is that the people/person in question are/is being made to do something... maybe this is a fantasy but it hasn't be clearly stated. This ad is dubious to say the least and as such i choose to play the 'undertaking my civic duty' card... ;)
Quote by easy
Does the ground feel a little unstable to you? Looks a bit shakey to me TBH.
Not at all... the thread in question was finding amusement from another personals sexual preferences - which in this environment is both hypocritical and .
I've made no reference on to what she wants to do - I'm merely pointing out the nature of the supposed reason for the ad. The two are poles apart...
Quote by surreycouple2003
- who the fuck is Tony
I'd love to know the background to this one...
http://photos.swingingheaven.co.uk/photo-adverts/swingers-146815.html
Hi there Robbie
I cant decide if your the all time HeavyWeight Champion of Ad Trawling or if you just need to get out more..!!!
Maybe both..!!!!
Dx
a mixture of intrigue and self-appreciation... Seriously though, I'm an amateur pyschologist and NLP practioner and as such i like to analyse people and see what i can deduce from what info is available - you can tell, exponentially, more about someone the more work they put into their 'social mask'. The ads are a veritible feast of social masks where the society is the swinging scene... i usually have a few looks a day cos people intrigue me and (back to the self-appreciation) if i think i've got some deductions spot on i feel good about myself (for all of 5 seconds).. ha ha. ;)
Some ads do however scream out to you... I need love, I've been hurt, I'm searching for some affection and advertising in the personal ads of a swinging website is so the wrong place for some of those people. I'm not suggesting some sort of nanny rule over the ads, far from it, people should be free to make their own choices and also be accountable for those choices.. its just interesting to see the things that people do under certain situations in various states of mind, it seems that in someways the personal ads here show the very extremes.
As ever, this is merely all in my own opinion...
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Troy - whatever you do do not pay it. Offer your computer to BTcert (computer emergency response team) as evidence - they will be able to check the logs on your computer. I'm good friends with the head of BT security, i'll send him an email and see if i can get some advice for you on the best way to go...
Any chance you can post the reply on the open forum (after removing names and addys etc) as I'd be interested in seeing that as well.
;)
Quote by surreycouple2003
I'm mailing her now!!!!!!
Dx
ha ha... I'm living safe in the knowledge that your mail will be hidden amongst the three replies she got in the last hour! She might get back to you..... this decade!!
But on the off chance that you do get a reply - i expect a fooking invite!!
Troy - whatever you do do not pay it. Offer your computer to BTcert (computer emergency response team) as evidence - they will be able to check the logs on your computer. I'm good friends with the head of BT security, i'll send him an email and see if i can get some advice for you on the best way to go...
Quote by Marya
I know lots of men (and women!) get off on visuals alone, but I prefer to know a bit more about a person than the size of their tits and what uniform they like, before deciding to arrange a potential shag!
that there be one of the fundamental differences between men and women... like i said earlier the pics are very well taken, classy and as such incredibly sexy - to me that probably says more about the person who had them taken than anything she could have written. Although like i said earlier i think they're professional - an ex gf from a few years ago was a professional dancer and also did some modelling for club flyers from time to time... she would stand in exactly the same way (placement of hands, direction of hips with respect of the camera) which makes me think that the person is either a performer of some sort or the pics are professionally done. Either way they are probably the best i've seen on here (of their kind).
Regardless of gender, your hubby's boss is in breach of the terms of emploment contract provided by himself - if, as you stated, the contract specifies that he provides work attire for ALL employees in that role.
If he proffers a written warning (usually the first stage of disciplinary) then Satin must NOT accept receipt of it, i.e. he does not sign anything to say he received it and ideally just leaves it in his bosses office. Having a copy of his employment contract to hand may also speed this up - seeing someone in court is neither good for the employer and especially not for an employee as it is seen as a big black mark against people in certain sectors. Personally i would never take anybody to a tribunural unless i a) knew i had a 95% chance of winning and b) would gain enough compensation whereby working wasn't a major issue anymore.
If he proffers a written warning (usually the first stage of disciplinary) then Satin must NOT accept receipt of it, i.e. he does not sign anything to say he received it and ideally just leaves it in his bosses office. Having a copy of his employment contract to hand may also speed this up - seeing someone in court is neither good for the employer and especially not for an employee as it is seen as a big black mark against people in certain sectors. Personally i would never take anybody to a tribunural unless i a) knew i had a 95% chance of winning and b) would gain enough compensation whereby working wasn't a major issue anymore.
Marya - I would assume that she is working under the premise that she has gone to the effort to provide such good photos that she maybe doesn't need to give any more info, i can also understand why someone would not necessarily give so much info about themselves (even more so for a single woman).
I can only imagine what her inbox is like now?? (ha ha... if this was a friday afternoon that would almost sound like a smutty inuendo!)
I can only imagine what her inbox is like now?? (ha ha... if this was a friday afternoon that would almost sound like a smutty inuendo!)
Some of them have me in absolute stitches... and i don't mean just one particular section in the ads (I'm an equal opportunities piss taker) - some of the 'enticing' pics are just classic, no other word for them!!
Also, in the women looking for women section there are loads where they state 'my bf will be there and only join in is you want him to?' - surely these should be in the couples looking for women section?? I think that 95% of the ads in there are like this... i'd love to know what the stats for success are on the ads.
Also, in the women looking for women section there are loads where they state 'my bf will be there and only join in is you want him to?' - surely these should be in the couples looking for women section?? I think that 95% of the ads in there are like this... i'd love to know what the stats for success are on the ads.
these people make me laugh... simply because of the assumptions they have and except to be held by others.
news flash - just because people enjoy sex with like minded people it doesn't mean that they want sex with ever 'like minded' person.
nb. the second 'like minded' is used very loosey with respect of yourself.
I often wonder how these people (namely the glut of whinging single guys) find building relationships in the real world???
news flash - just because people enjoy sex with like minded people it doesn't mean that they want sex with ever 'like minded' person.
nb. the second 'like minded' is used very loosey with respect of yourself.
I often wonder how these people (namely the glut of whinging single guys) find building relationships in the real world???
