Hi Jess and Dan
Here Here well put.
I am just such a dogger.
I have a loving marriage but go dogging for fun not to have a long term affair.
I am still married and have a good sex life but crave variety and a bit of fun.
I also travel the world in my job and get release this way.
I would do nothing to hurt my wife in any way as I respect and love her and my activity hurts no one.
The couples I go with are one off spontaneous meets with consenting partners I am not there to break them up or my relationship.
I always show respect and have a laugh.
Keep looking for us good guys.
Go safe and be happy.
Sandie
Hi Jags
Thanks looking forward to it.
My first night in and not travelling first time in three weeks.
Home is where the heart is.
Have a great weekend and chat next week.
Sandie
Hi Torchy
This is a great site with top genuine characters on it.
We debate,laugh and flirt what could be better?
Welcome.
Sandie
Hi Jags (MY ANGEL OF THE NORTH)
Good words.
This is a danger area if handled wrong.
My wife does not swing at all now and I put no pressure on her at all.
She knows I go dogging and swinging and have affairs when away but we have an open marriage I love her and would not force her to do anything.
Result= happy, married and spending the night in together tonight.
Love you as always.
Sandie
Hi Mattoleman and Paul n Olive
I must say you have both put your point of view succintly and coherently and it appears there is common sense in all our views.
Thanks for the debate.
Go safe and be happy in yourself.
Ian
Hi All
I am not saying nor inferred anything against anyone's personal choice.
It is that I have personally seen the problems twice in my life brought about by drug abuse.
Last year I was nearly killed in the crossfire in a London restaurant as two Yardie gangs shot it out over my head with bullets flying everywhere.
What was the cause for this arms display?HARD DRUGS
Secondly I cradled a girl in my arms as she died on a pavement in front of me in 1998 in New York. Cause? Overdose HARD DRUGS.
I understand the comments on this thread about other addictions and the numerous other drugs commonly accepted in society.
But anyone with any common sense can tell the difference between these and the real dangers that lurk.
Lecturing us on alcohol abuse and nicotene, Skiing injuries, and driving etc all so called socially acceptable dangers, clouds the issue and appeases the drug dealers and the crime and death and mayhem that then ensues.
I understand that an MS sufferer may find solace and comfort in canabis if so legalise for that person on prescription. But keep the rest illegal.
Canabis can lead to heroin to ecstacy etc.
In summary my view is I would not entertain anyone swinging with me high on anything as it makes me feel uncomfortable.
I am sure others have another view.
Go safe and have fun.
Sandie
GRAMMER ALERT
CORRECTIONS TO POSTINGS
I have had a bottle of wine at lunch in the city of London today at the Stock exchange.
Does it show???
Headmistress's
ban should be can
Bye my angel of the north.
Sandie
Hi him and her
Have a nice time.
PM me sometime if you fancy a meet at one of the Kent sites.
I find all this a great laugh with fun people.
Keep safe
Sandie
Thanks Mark
I will have another look.
Yes you are correct many postings were meet me not reviews.
Good effort
Regards
Sandie
Hi Mark
Sorry to gripe on but all I can read is the same old reveiws no new ones.
In fact regarding Rios the most popular we appear to have lost 130 archived reports and no new ones only the first 21 entries are showing.
Sorry
Take care
Sandie
Hi and her
The 9th is Tuesday not Wednesday??????
I have seen your ads before you never reply to PM s to you I have requested details of where you will be and you do not reply.
Please PM me if your going to be at a kent site I am frequent in Kent on the dogger scene.
Reply if you wish.
Sandie
Hi all
NO TO DRUGS NOT NEGOTIABLE IN MY OPINION.
SCOURGE OF SOCIETY CAUSES GUN DEATHS VIOLENT STREETS MESSES UP LIVES.
Caffeine and paracetemol do not make you want to fly in the air of the top of a high rise do they?
I have personal experience of seeing someone die in front of me from a drug overdose I massaged their heart in vain and they died in my arms five years ago in New York.
I will not compromise on drugds and swinging I do not see how they go together.
Sorry this thread from me is without humour.
Go safe and hi to Jags.
Sandie
Hi all
This is a sad thread.
What is all the fuss about?
Just use this site to have fun and a laugh you are all taking it too serious like the lonely hearts page.
We are all strangers in cyberspace here just chat see if someone takes your fancy and see how things develop.
You may after such correspondence arrange a meet and sexual fun may ensue or you may just continue in a world of cyber flirting.
Just act like you would in normal life trying to meet people.
I went over to a dogging site last Thursday near to me and met up with some regulars no couples turned up at all but what a laugh we were telling jokes all night it was a great atmosphere.
This said the week before at the same spot with the same regulars we had two successful shows with full joining in with two sepearte couples.
We kept the atmosphere fun and everyone had agreat time.
Please please mirror this situation within the site.
You are already getting too heavy the lot of you.
If any of you are that hormonly challenged get a porn movie or visit a prostitiute for relief.
Go safe and be happy.
Sandie
Hi him and her
PM me please for location and I will let you know if I can make it.
I am a very experienced dogger in Kent so this sounds fun.
Sandie
HI Mark
Thanks for the reply.
Whenever you are ready.
Sandie
HI all
Is this section still updating? Some clubs have not updated experiences since October .
Have I missed something?
I have been travelling a lot this year?
Please let me know.
This section is always very interesting and informative.
Thanks to anyone who replies.
Sandie
Hi Leeklad
This is the wrong forum.
If you are internet aware just type into MSN your search query it will find it for you.
This is not the correct place to ask and although we like a banter originating from various threads we are not a techie support service.
Unless the question relates to servicing vibrators me thinks.
Go safe
Sandie
Him and her
This could become a rugby scrum and the police will probably now arrive at circa 8PM.
If you want a meet I agree with Steve advertise generally and request PM replies.
Then only so many know time and place.
I would have come tonight but fear it could become like a rally cross event.
Good luck if you are still to proceed.
If you had PM 'd me I may have come and had some fun.
Have fun
Sandie
Hi Elisabeth
Please do not feel bad I was just dissapointed with Rachel's personal jibe reply to me it was not very professional of her. So I went for her.
In some ways I was agent provocatuer as I stood up and said what I felt and this caused a reaction.
Even though I did not agree with what you said I respected your opinion and it was very coherently put.
So good luck and let me know if you make the Doc I would love to see if I am correct.
Be happy and fulfilled.
No hard feelings I am here to have fun.
Love
Sandie