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woody40m
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 61
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Quote by Lizaleanrob
There is always Mathew 7:1.

Mathew 7:1 is that a username bolt
No but I suppose the more apt one would be John 7:53-8:11. Both in the big book.
But then you being Godlike would know that.
Pete
Quote by HnS
and their legal 'get out' being
Private clubs will still be able to offer different types of membership at different prices or on different terms, providing each type of membership is open to all regardless of a person's protected characteristics.
allowing clubs such as golf and other sports clubs, ex-forces clubs, alumni clubs, social clubs, working men's clubs, gaming clubs and drinking clubs, etc. to carry on largely unaffected by this Legislation

Still don't make it right. Gerty had a good idea.
So does your daughter know of your lifestyle?
Pete
Quote by Gerty35
Interesting topic. No idea why but the tv was tuned into big brother this evening. The into for the lady from the apprentice mentioned her attendance at sex parties. Our teenage daughter used the word "whore" which to be honest shocked me as we have spent many a evening talking about sexuality and mrs gerty and me where very pleased that she appeared to be a well rounded individual with no hang ups on sexual issues, she is actually proud that friends are gay , bisexual or straight, her and her friends have no issues with this. But someone with a healthy interest in sex causes her a problem ?
From our experience with our kids, sexuality doesn't cause them a problem, but promiscuous behaviour does. So yes, perhaps this is the current love to remain nameless.
I believe the law is also changing in regard to decency which throws into the pot all naturist activity.
But back to the thread. I believe that they could charge all the same but offer a system of prebooking that means they could maintain the quota. Then again pigs might fly. As it is single males are seen as a cash cow.
Whilst men go to the clubs a pay the money they will keep raising the prices. 3 and 4 times as much is rather excessive just because a man chooses to live a single life.
Hay ho life's a bitch. If it's not the government trying to screw you it's someone else.
I have been looking up something else and came across this. Clubs/organizations such as "Kestrels" who charge a different entry for males and females are in direct breach of the equability act. I understand the reason to try and restrict "predatory" males.
Example
"A nightclub charges a higher price for entry to a man because of their sex where the service provided to a woman is otherwise exactly the same."
Any lawyers out there? Would this be correct?
I have always believed that we should try to find as much information and techniques to make us better lovers. No one knows everything and I always enjoy trying new ideas. I have been looking around for workshops but the only ones I have been able to find are tied up with tantric mumbo jumbo.
Then it struck me. Why don't we do our own workshops without the mumbo jumbo. Advertise through SH, run at Kestrels and other clubs. Aimed at newcomers and shyer members to swinging. Starting at the beginning and working up to more advanced stuff. The mix should be both couples and singletons. Equal mix of male and female. Keep the price reasonable one flat rate to encourage people to attend.
The advantages are that everybody should feel safer in a controlled group environment and clubs could make some new members.
They could run something like this starting at the very beginning and work up to fetish etc,
Workshop 1
Intro, swinging etiquette, ppe, safety, basic A+P ( I have heard tale of male student nurses putting catheters into vaginas.), Masturbation/Oral sex including use of toys, demonstration, discussion of techniques and practice,.
Workshop 2
Intro, Revision of workshop 1, Sexual positions (discussion advantages/ disadvantages of each,) demonstration and practice, Group work.
Workshop 3
Intro, Revision of previous workshops, Anal. B+D, S+M etc,
Its only an idea. What do you think? Who would organize?
I seem to recall something about all persons that appear in photos nowadays have to sign a model release form. Unless its somewhere like out on the street where it would be impossible. I think it's to do with privacy laws.
I have been to courses for work where a photographer was present doing publicity shots and we had to sign otherwise he couldn't use the material legally.
I'm sure SH must have a legal adviser somewhere who could help.
Pete
Quote by twos_company
idle curiosity really..
any interesting places to do / see in Oxford..
we`re there for the weekend next week and want ideas for evening entertainment

Well there's Didcot power station. Can't miss it. You can see the chimneys from miles away. LOL
42 is the answer to the meaning of life, the universe and everything.
I bow to your knowledge and experience. Not sure if his CO would agree.
Quote by Dave__Notts
I'm not a 100% sure but please correct me if I'm wrong but are you supposed to be identifying the fact that you are (a)a serving soldier and (b)you are posted in afganistan, on the internet.
Particularly as the threat level in the uk is currently set as substantial and I believe this section of this site is open to none members.

A free member wouldn't be able to bomb or shoot him from the other end of the keyboard so he will be quite safe
Dave_Notts
I'm not a 100% sure but please correct me if I'm wrong but are you supposed to be identifying the fact that you are (a)a serving soldier and (b)you are posted in afganistan, on the internet.
Particularly as the threat level in the uk is currently set as substantial and I believe this section of this site is open to none members.
To those of you who only have a gist of an idea or who haven't sorted it at all I would say sort it. I came off the bike new years day whilst visiting friends some way from home.
I walked away but it could have been different. My friends said how would we know who we needed to contact etc. So I sat down and sorted a contact list and will organise the rest as soon as. Because the last thing I want is my friends and family to have all the hassle of sorting it. Lets face it you never know when it will happen.
Also a friend once told me no matter how late it makes you, never leave the house after an argument without sorting it out because,l if you have an accident you will leave your loved ones with bad memories. Leave telling them you love them.
I was once told by someone very knowledgeable that gut instinct was your brain taking on board all the available information from your senses.
Weighing it up against its vast database of information and spitting out the answer which is 99.9% correct. That is why you should always go with your gut.
Pete
Quote by noladreams
Can't really help, except to say I know a few people who would love being a part of something like that.

Missy you should google nuru massage.
That was so long ago I can't remember. Boohoo. At the mo I would have to say 7 0f 9. Jeri Ryan.
When I'm working on a set of double doors and people try to squeeze through the gap behind me and the other door, or just stand there confused by the entire situation unable to work out that there is another door that they can pull or push open and walk through. Are there no semi intelligent people in the world?
Quote by GnV
My all time favourite was watching the Only Fools and Horses reruns and Christmas specials..
My absolute favourite here

I think my two have to be


Pete
Quote by Cubes
We have a couple of buckets of Xmas veg peelings to get rid of and our composter is bursting at the seams. I don't want to chuck 'em in the bin, so does anyone have any other ideas? ;-)

Doesn't your local council refuse site have recycling bins etc?
Quote by Dave__Notts
I went everywhere and they dont seem to do Kinect bundles with the 250gb console anywhere. All the bundles are with the 4gb console which is a shame. How the hell they came up with the idea of having a 4gb and a 250gb is beyond me. 4gb is useless to me my old white 360 has the 20gb hard drive with 17gb used so I cant transfer that to the newer 4gb. At the last moment I just got the kinect and a game bundle from Argos and stayed with the old 360. Bit disappointed as I wanted the newer 360 and the added benefits like built in wifi.
Never mind, guess I'll live lol

WTF did he say?
Can someone translate please :lol:
Dave_Notts
He wanted something with a bigger memory and that will talk to other computers without wires. I think!
Pete
Quote by Dave__Notts
I went everywhere and they dont seem to do Kinect bundles with the 250gb console anywhere. All the bundles are with the 4gb console which is a shame. How the hell they came up with the idea of having a 4gb and a 250gb is beyond me. 4gb is useless to me my old white 360 has the 20gb hard drive with 17gb used so I cant transfer that to the newer 4gb. At the last moment I just got the kinect and a game bundle from Argos and stayed with the old 360. Bit disappointed as I wanted the newer 360 and the added benefits like built in wifi.
Never mind, guess I'll live lol

WTF did he say?
Can someone translate please :lol:
Dave_Notts
He wanted something with a bigger memory and that will talk to other computers without wires. I think!
Pete
Isn't all this technology wonderful. I'm really sorry but I had to have a little chuckle at your predicament. I'm glad you got it sorted.
Pete
I used to lifeguard for a local naturist club. Most of the time I was stripped off as well. I can say that that in all the time I did it never once did I or did I ever see one of the gentleman members with a "stiffy". It's called self control.
These places should be a safe environment especially as they are frequented by families with children. Whilst I agree it maybe natural there are rules on how to behave. Written and unwritten.