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bbw_loverNkitty
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 66
Bi-curious Female, 57
0 miles · Oxfordshire

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I think you've just been dissed Tanky boy!
If I were you I'd put her over my knee.
wink
*lover*
Quote by Miss_B_Having
Cos ya not allowed to come :twisted:
Hiya Sheer hun dont know if im going blind but cant see my name on the list sad
I think that there are many valid points being made here. two-4-more in particular has highlighted several issues that shouldn't be ignored off-hand.
The main point that I feel is being made, it seems to me, is that if people feel their privacy, and the control of their privacy, is being compromised in any way it will negatively affect the nature of the site.
A significant number of people have already been driven underground by hiding their photos due to the whole tagging debacle. Now with the approach to the new search facility, which I think is a good idea fundamentally but possibly ill-conceived, it will do nothing but increase the sense of insecurity within members.
The upshot of this is that it will drive more members underground and/or drive people away, members who will leave the site for good. This is a non-trivial concern and the mods and admin staff should be wary of not taking it seriously enough.
I have already made my pics private, and with the increasing number of members who are following suit, it makes it much harder to use the site for it's true and proper purpose. More of these type of changes may cause many of us to consider leaving permanently.
I hope this doesn't happen.
*lover*
Quote by BBGandBBB
OK my profile is crap. I accept my admonishment....as my teacher said all those years ago "Must try harder". I am still trying.
Learning all the time and will get it right some day.
But the offer is genuine and it would be grateful if someone would take it up......if only for the company and the fact that she/they are getting a relaxing free break on a gorgeous waterway.
Life is too short and I am enjoying it. xx

I think it's already been said really but honestly how can anybody react or respond to such a "thin" profile? I have no idea who, or what (genderwise) you are? No indication what your location is? Interests? Activities? Personality? Likes or dislikes? What you look like? etc.
I could go on, but frankly I may as well close my eyes and grab a complete stranger off the street. Sorry to be so harsh, but just trying to make a point really.
*lover*
Quote by HarryJones

awwww hunny totally gutted but fully understand hope you feel nicely rested and have a fab weekend
catch ya soon sweetie
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Very glad you understand, tip me off early so I can book days off for next one.
Regards
Harry Jones
Shame you can't make it Harry, but get some well earned rest. Will see you at the next one.
biggrin
*lover*
Quote by Resonance
It's quite simple here.
I am male, therefore I am wrong, at fault or the cause of everything bad and evil.
I just apologise anyway to be on the safe side.

Yup! You've just come to a sad realization. Join the back of the queue.
:shock:
*lover*
You know what twos_company I've joined a few groups to see what happens … and the answer is nothing. In fact I've forgotten that they've even existed. It's absolutely silent. No news, events, or anything. Can't see the point really, unless I'm missing something, or perhaps I'm just not being invited.
rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
*lover*
I agree with Gary... but you will only be able to pair your ipod up if you are using a router... you won't be able to use it on its own... if you're in a wifi area you should be ok to use it on its own though.
Hope this helps!
*kitty*
Hi, its kitty here! This is going to be my first ever visit to a club, and I must admit I'm a bit scared!!!! bbw_lover has been to clubs before, but this is my first time. Does anyone have any advice for me? I would be really grateful if you could reply on here or pm me.
Thanks!! xx
Quote by deancannock
personally..I look for a pulse....anything else is a bonus !!!!!!! lol

A pulse!!!????? :shock:
Pervert!!!!
bolt
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Quote by foxylady2209
I'm curious. Why is it seen as awful that this place has someone's mobile number - but the majority of people have happily had their house phones on public phone books for generations.
And that has your home address on it.
I'm not saying it isn't a problem - just that there seems a strange mismatch here.

You know what? You took the words right out of my mouth. I've been reading this thread off and on for a while, and I too couldn't see the problem.
Is it because it's on the web and that automatically makes it evil? Or is it something to do with the fact we carry our mobiles with us all the time? Or is it the perception that it potentially has a much wider audience, whereas phone books only cover a specific area? Or maybe it's because having a phonebook in the home feels like we own it, whereas on the web someone else has 'control'?
dunno
*lover*
I'm slightly puzzled. If you've got a new Macbook Pro, then that comes with a build in webcam, so you don't need an external one anyway.
The reason why the Logitech doesn't work work with it, I think, is because it doesn't support the graphics chip built into the Macbook Pro.
Getting the cam to work in the chatrooms is a different problem however. In settings, in the chatroom, you need to chose USB for the camera because all of the built in iSight cameras use an internal USB connection, NOT a Firewire connection as was the case with the external iSight camera.
Hope that helps.
*lover*
It would help to know what you're using the webcam for, and what iMac you possess. For instance is it an Intel iMac or PPC? Is it a flat panel iMac or Anglepoise iMac, or original 'egg shaped' iMac.
*lover*
Quote by Funlovers2009
Some may feel that this is the way ahead but I personally feel that to positively discriminate in this way goes against everything that people from minority groups have faught for for years - equality!!

Quite right Funlovers! Discrimination is discrimination regardless of the prefix.
However context is everything and Lost is correct in pointing out the following;
Quote by Lost
Blind people for the time being shouldn't be opticians,taxi drivers or pilots. Deaf people shouldn't be lollipop persons, Crimnals shouldn't be Police officers, Wheelchair users should not be steeple jacks or scaffolders at present ermmmloads of things really if thought about Those with anger management issues shouldn't be traffic wardens,

Context and intent is important I think, and is a question of whether decisions have been made based on preconceived ideas, or based on the information and the facts. Objectivity is all important in such things.
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Quote by Sarah
If you mean winks you have sent to people, there isn't a way.
The people you wink, may have the winks set to auto responder!! and will never know you have winked.

Don't they appear as sent messages in your mailbox?
*lover*
PS
Yes they do! Just checked.
When I first read this I looked to the skies and was just about to move onto another topic. However the question is not as trivial as it first seemed.
I have seen many ads from single women, or women in couples, who regularly state they want VWE males. This is nearly always accompanied by stating a particular size, or lack of any interest for anything smaller than the suggested 10", for instance.
While this is their choice, freely made, and if you are not within their requirements you can, of course, move on. The thing that concerns me the most is if the men on the site were to adopt a similar approach, specifying specific breast size, or vaginal dimensions, the reaction from the women on the site would be virtually palpable.
Care in all things, and equality for all, but what can one do about human nature?
dunno
*lover*
I've not done this recently but I know there have been problems. In fact all the problems seem to be chatroom related. The chatroom seems to be falling apart and I kinda think this all started with the multi cam design. For whatever reason the chatroom stared to unravel and has continued to do so.
*lover*
It's happening to all of us, and it's been going on for months now. It seems to be getting worse, don't know why.
I think the powers that be know about it but it seems to be a particularly difficult problem to solve. It's making the chatrooms virtually impossible to use, and has ruined one of the best, if no the best, feature on this or any other site.
Such a shame, because it used to work perfectly before.
:cry:
*lover*
Quote by brumcock
I've lost a stone & 3" off my belly biggrin
I feel like a stud now cool

I'll see if I can find you one.
rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
oh! oh!
bolt
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Quote by Silk and Big G
Yeah but what happens if you end up getting lost? Or you end up in a a ditch?
rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
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PratNav
:laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove:
Very Good! Like it!
*lover*
Quote by TheLovelyOne

what happens if you end up getting lost?

There are probably worse people one could end up with ...
;)
:thumbup:
Very true biggrin
*lover*
Having someone make me crumpets and scrambled eggs for breakfast, when they are still not awake and on the planet!!!
(serves you right for waking me up at for some sugar... told you I would get you back! cool )
*kitty*
Disability is another label. I have many scars, and have trouble waking long distances, I can't move around much at night because of my fibromyalgia, but do I let it stop me? no fecking way!
If someone can't deal with me the way I am, they are not worth bothering with. I have many friends who are "disabled" in different ways, but still manage to carry on with a fulfilling life, and still enjoy themselves in the bedroom!
You adapt to how the person you are with, is. Don't let anything stop you and don't let anyone's ignorance bother you... enjoy yourself!
*kitty*
PS Smooth2 - the best to you and the missus..... would love to hear from you!
I've tried different browsers including Navigator, IE, Firefox, Opera, Siira, and Camino, and it's made no difference. My flash is right up to date and again has made no difference despite having re-installed it.
I've reduced everything down to 1 window and don't use Messenger but again no difference.
*lover*
It's happening to all of us. I'm scared to go into the chatroom as it seems to freeze more quickly these days, but trying to have any kind of conversation is virtually impossible. It's even worse when you try to look at any of the cams, even if it's only one.
If it helps you don't have to log out. Simply choose a different room, then once in come back to the original room and everything is back to normal … until it freezes again. In a 20 minute session I've had to do this sometimes 5 or 6 times. It's really tedious so I rarely come in any more.
mad :x :x
Yeah but what happens if you end up getting lost? Or you end up in a a ditch?
rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
bolt
How about Solaris? The original bored me to tears … and the remake made me want to slash my wrists.
cool
*lover*
Oh yes! Been there done that. It seems worse when you're really up for it as well. Don't know why it happens, but it helps if you've got an understanding partner.
cool
*lover*
Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
anyone know a site for swinging....rejoined since last oct and most guys pissed off else were after getting nothing of the pricks....
guess its a cancel then and off else were

Thornly, think about it, would you expect Barcly's bank to give you details of another bank? Would you go to Tesco and expect the staff to give you details of the offers on at Asda lol
well, its pretty much the same here :lol:
Sorry your not happy and not getting what you want from the site, but you only get from it what you put in to it. Good luck with whatever you decide to do, but do hope you decide to stick around a give it a fair go. wink
Totally agree with you there NWC. But really Thornley you haven't been here very long have you? What did you expect? Thousands of sex-starved individuals trying to bash down your door with uncontrolled sexual excitement?
Have you considered a little patience and a little change of attitude? Give people respect and you might get some back?
Just a thought. dunno
*lover*