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bbw_loverNkitty
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 66
Bi-curious Female, 57
0 miles · Oxfordshire

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Quote by fabio
think of Wagon Wheels when you were a child.

when you were smaller everything seemed huge.... lol lol
That explains a heck of a lot these days redface
Quote by lyns
Not sure what to say about this.... it's a bit pants confused .
Is it an official advert made by the site??

If only it was that good. I watched one all the way through then watched the first few seconds of another couple. Frankly it's just dreadful. Soft porn of the worst kind, made by what looks like a couple of post pubescent girls.
I found it totally embarrassing. Sorry.
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Quote by Cubes
I totally agree with you V. This site aims to be a 'one stop shop' for all your swinging needs. ;-)
What's the point of having a fully functional photo section if people won't use it? dunno

Totally agree!
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I guess for me it would be 20th Century Boy by I used to play this on my Les Paul, plugged into my amp and at full volume.
A great stress reliever, and it just gets me really pumped up!
Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
Your profile has been viewed a total of 38926 times! Below are the latest 20 who checked it out!
Mr NWC, Mrs NWC, Mr NWC, Mrs NWC, Mr NWC, Mrs NWC, Mr NWC, Mrs NWC, Mr NWC, Mrs NWC, Mr NWC, Mrs NWC, Mr NWC, Mrs NWC, Mr NWC, Mrs NWC, Mr NWC, Mrs NWC, Mr NWC, Mrs NWC,

Think there is a pattern forming here redface
I think there's another name missing from the list. wink
Yayyyyy! Another BBW social :bounce:
Please add me and MissKitty … we wouldn't miss it for the world!
Quote by phut_it
Sorry but, the new Photo Ads search sucks. It's much harder to find all the people advertising within a given distance. It was dead easy before but now I just give up and don't use the feature any more. :-(

Really? I think the new search is one of the best changes to the site in recent times. You can now narrow your search to the finest detail, which you couldn't before (including distance from you), and the results numbers are updated instantly.
I've played with it a little, and tested it out, and so far I think it's brilliant. This is one of he rare occasions where a change has been made and I've had nothing but praise for it.
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I'm not having connection problems as such, but I'm finding the site is very flaky at the moment, and the chatrooms tend to lag, and freeze a lot. This has only been happening within the last week or so.
dunno
Unfortunately I won't be able to watch this year. I will be otherwise engaged, having my testicles nailed to the floorboards.
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Hang on in there. People may be whispering to each other, and if they are you won't see the messages unless someone whispers to you directly.
Just be patient it may take a little time. Say hello and see who responds, somebody will, then if you're lucky you might be able to strike up a conversation. Also try going into the same room on a regular basis until people get used to you, you might be pleasantly surprised.
Choose your room wisely though. You don't want to be in a room with people who don't share your interests.
Hope you find it helpful.
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The other thing I hate about the Favourites list is the failure to inform you of what you're looking at. For instance there's no indication of how many pages there are, and therefor when clicking "Next" no idea where you are in relation to everything.
The other irritation is the constant repeating of certain names, but in different positions in the list, even though there are different names in the list????? This never happened in the previous "Friends" listing before the change.
The uphot of all this is that you could go on clicking "Next", without knowing whether you've seen all of your favourites, but seeing different combinations of seen, and previously unseen, names in the same list. You could waste a lot of time browsing the list without being any the wiser.
And yes I know there's a search facility, which is strangely labeled "Search Friends"?, but it requires you to be accurate in your spelling, and so if you're unsure browsing would have been useful, but in it's present form it's as good as useless.
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Mmmmm? I have to say the forum seems a lot quieter since the changes and consequently I've been coming in lees than before, and tending not to read as many threads.
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Quote by Angel Chat
bbw - that would give us the following if you meant the forums?
Chatroom Lounge
Current affairs
Dogging
Introductions
Just for fun
Holidys
Lets Meet Up
The Cafe
soapbox
Steam Room
Swinging
Some of text on forum hasn't been done yet if it needs coding in...

Mmmmmm? Probably needs further thought.
I was hoping to find something that was more logical, but was also easy to scan. I'll have to give it more thought.
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Oooh well I have an idea, it's radical but it just might work - why don't we merge the threads into maybe 3 or 4 new ones? Call them something like, oooh, I dunno - The Cafe, Let's Meet Up, Dogging and Chatroom?
:shock: :shock: That's very radical. However, sometimes the most ridiculous of ideas do actually work... maybe it'd be worth a try :thumbup:
It will never work.
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I just pack some cheese and branson pickle sandwiches, a flask of milky tea, and a notepad. Then say I'm going train spotting.
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Quote by anais
bbw - that would give us the following if you meant the forums?
Chatroom Lounge
Current affairs
Dogging
Introductions
Just for fun
Holidys
Lets Meet Up
The Cafe
soapbox
Steam Room
Swinging
Some of text on forum hasn't been done yet if it needs coding in...

Mmmmmm? Probably needs further thought.
I was hoping to find something that was more logical, but was also easy to scan. I'll have to give it more thought.
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Quote by Melting_pot
having perved a fair ammount of profiles and taken a look at several of the ads, I can say that I have the same perception...
single black males seem to be very much sought after..as not everybody wants to meet a couple, but apparently just about everybody is looking for black males...(lucky buggers)
I have considered shoepolish..
it seems to work, in the movies. :giggle:

They aren't looking for me.
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Quote by __random_orbit__
... and anyhow, with all these new fora, why not all the apropriate buttons for each one across the bottom, as there are still at present, though just for the original format, namely: Cafe, Let's Meet Up, Chat & Dogging?
Like this:
Introduce Yourself The Cafe Soapbox Current Affairs Swinging Let's Meet Up Dogging Holidays Just for Fun Chatroom Lounge Steam Room
oh yes, that's why
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Yes I noticed that too!
There is another point I'd like to make though and that is, with the increased number of items in the forum, perhaps putting everything in alphabetical order would make things more user friendly?
dunno
Quote by jimbar2006
We are a black/white couple wondering why there is no interest shown in us as a couple when Mr J used to be bombarded with offers when he was on the scene as a single before we met?
We wonder whether black guy is a specialist interest..... a couple wants the fella but not the wife? Any thoughts as to why we are not of interest would be welcomed. Have even started to think we are right mingers but not sure this is the case.....lol
Barbie xxxxx

I'm puzzled. You both look great. MissKitty and me don't seem to have the same problem, in fact it's been the complete opposite, so I really don't know.
Perhaps it's just a period of adjustment and people getting used to you as a couple, but nothing to do with you being a mixed couple. The only real difference I can see is that MissKitty and me play as a couple, but we also play solo. Maybe that makes a difference?
PM me and maybe we can discuss this further.
dunno
For me it depends on the circumstances and the people involved.
I love the build up and the sexual tension of of all the flirting and teasing, and anticipation. It creates a highly charged atmosphere while also allowing you to get to know the person better.
However it's also nice to have the option of a spontaneous meet, which can be very exciting too.
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Quote by Sassy-Seren
I don't see the point of having separate forums for Steam Room, Current Affairs or Just For Fun. Incorporate them back into the Cafe.
As it is now, it's too spread out and while the Cafe used to be a great place to come to chat about anything at all, now it seems to have lost it's soul

I like the idea of the new forum but after a couple of days I have to say I agree with you Sassy.
For some reason the current forum seems too diluted, and unfocused. Perhaps there are too many categories which seemed to have been created at random. There have been comments about certain categories being merged? Perhaps it needs another revamp.
I also wonder whether some, if not all, of the subjects under "In The Spotlight" (top of left hand column) could be incorporated into the forum, rather than creating fake categories?
dunno
Yayyyyyyyyyyyyyy!
I've become a veteran too! Been here about 4 years now, and it keeps getting better.
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Quote by Ian

Firstly, unless I'm missing something, I fail to see the relevance of the quote you've referred to. He states quite clearly that he's married, so he's not being deceitful.

Yes you are missing something....
The original poster of this thread c9plus did say that he was married. My quote of the AUP was for the benefit of phildunn
Quote by phildunn
Fortunately, am now really single.*
* or am I?

I merely made sure that this member was aware of the full impications of his statement, whether it was a lighthearted quip, or actually said to cast doubt into his genuine status.
Sorry my mistake.
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Quote by Ian

Your account shall be terminated immediately .....
......Holding an account type that is deceitful to others.

So as Clint Eastwood once said, Do you feel lucky? Well do ya?
On a lighter note, and this is a conversation that's been held over and over in the chatrooms. Many of the women in there are of the opinion that if somebodies wife isn't interested in sex, then the problem could be the somebody himself. Now if that was the case, why would anybody on here be interested in meeting them. Not my opinion, I'm just the messenger.
I can't help feeling this is a little harsh.
Firstly, unless I'm missing something, I fail to see the relevance of the quote you've referred to. He states quite clearly that he's married, so he's not being deceitful.
Secondly while it is true that some might interpret his motives in a particular way, others may not, and may form a completely different opinion.
It's not important whether everyone approves, or is of a similar mind. What is important is that the information is there for people to make an informed choice. Being honest allows all parties the chance to come to a mutually agreeable position.
Yeah they don't tell you that when you go to buy these things, but from all the stories I've heard from different people, it seems to me the whole netbook thing is a bit of a con.
Limited shelf-life I think.
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Took me by surprise, but I like it. Could do with a slight tweak here or there, but overall it's very good.
Well done team!
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